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Anonymous users2024-02-131] Lack of security at the psychological level: Women have no sense of security, in fact, they have little to do with others, and the key is themselves. Most of the insecurity is psychological, and women themselves are not clear about these, but always blame the reason on men, feeling that men make them insecure.
In fact, it all stems from one's own childhood, in which the baby's relationship with the mother forms her attachment model, and if the baby's attachment model with the mother is ambivalent, then the baby himself will not be able to develop his own healthy security model. Then in the intimate relationship of adulthood, it is easier to show a state of suffering from gains and losses, she will like to control, either control her boyfriend, or will seek material possession.
2] A person who is psychologically insecure will be very afraid of losing control of the world, so in the relationship, she will want to control the other person everywhere. If the other person is beyond her control, she will be afraid and will be uneasy. Therefore, in a relationship, she will make efforts to grasp, hoping that she has full control and takes the initiative.
She will pin her emotions, joys, sorrows and sorrows on others, happy because of each other, crazy because of each other.
3] Another part may be that the other party can't give her a sense of security. may be a person with a particularly good relationship with the opposite sex, who is both handsome and attractive, and is more attractive to women, which will naturally make the girlfriend insecure. Relatively speaking, such women still lack self-confidence, do not believe that they are worthy of love, and do not believe that their boyfriends love themselves.
Extremely lack of self-confidence, and even think that he is not worthy of love, and always feel that the other party will leave him after meeting someone better than himself. Intimate relationship and emotional counseling welcome to search***: "Happy Life**".
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Anonymous users2024-02-12I think the main reason is that men are not able to take care of their women. It is not possible to give enough help to women in life and work. So women can't be given a sense of security. At the same time, it also does not give women enough commitment to make women see that there is hope for their future life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Women are physically disadvantaged, and women's incomes are generally lower than men's, so they feel insecure.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Summary. The main reason why women are insecure is that they are not confident. The second is excessive dependence on each other. The third is not having a career of its own.
The reason why women are insecure.
The main reason why women are insecure is that they are not confident. The second is excessive dependence on each other. The third is not having a career of its own.
A woman's sense of security cannot be pinned entirely on a man. Rather, it is about building your own career by your own efforts, which is the foundation of self-confidence, self-esteem and self-improvement. The sense of security built entirely on men is unstable. Because the idea itself is inherently unsafe.
Unable to say boo to a goose. People who are not calm and have no brains to think about running first as fast as possible. Such a person can never give others a sense of security! Because when something happens, he's faster than you. So such a man will make a woman feel insecure at all.
I'm the woman who often says insecure. If you have a little bit of friction, the woman will feel insecure, or because of the woman's previous relationship. >>>More
Insecurity, in essence, is a certain sense of distrust in your heart, if you are sure that he will not do anything to hurt you, how can you be so hesitant and uneasy? Therefore, it is especially important to establish a strong and long-term relationship of trust between two people. When you find that your TA is insecure about you, no matter how big or small things are in your daily life, you should not easily deceive the other party, even if it is a white lie, you must explain it clearly to the other party, so that he can understand your original intention. >>>More
Hello! In the past, my situation was very similar to yours, maybe it was the reason for introversion and less communication, but then I gradually improved the way I communicated with people, overcame the psychology of fear on the spot, and the most important thing is to think of my good aspects, show it, everything will be fine, and believe in yourself. You're sure to be able to do a good job!
It should not continue, the most important thing in marriage is that two people have a good state and can feel a sense of security, so it is worth choosing.