I m 16 years old and I like a girl, how do I get close to her?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Be active in talking to her and remember to talk about what interests her! Try to show your own characteristics in the conversation! Don't be too vain, face it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Start with good friends Don't overthink it at first

    Just reach out to her, as long as you know in your heart how you feel about her.

    And then in the process, take good care of her, and sooner or later she will be touched by you, and then hint to her that you like her, and see her reaction, and if she is also good to you, it means that he has a good impression of you, then confess.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Let your classmates spread your scandal first, and then she will take the initiative to pay attention to you. Then you generously became friends with her, saying that the scandals that your classmates said were not like that at all. In the end, I changed from friends to lovers. Good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do you really know what love is and what love is?

    You children really don't know what to think, in fact, you like it, but your heart feels that it is not necessarily true, so don't break the relationship of friends, by the way, since others are already very learning and pure, why bother to destroy other people's beautiful dreams and atmosphere! If you still can't forget her, you can study hard and strive to be with her, you will have more opportunities in the future, why talk about this now! It's not just her who hurts that, it's you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's better to approach as a friend first, or be a person, brother, slowly cultivate feelings, and then chase after it, otherwise it will be difficult for people to accept.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Confess to her! There is a first time in everything, and there is still a 50% chance that you confess.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    16 years old is a rainy season, we always have to manage the first time in our lives, have confidence in ourselves!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ask her to help you study.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's too young, wait, I'll meet a better one later.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Feelings have to stand the test of time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Like a 16-year-old girl who is younger than yourself, if you have a family, then let go of your liking for her. If you don't have a family and she doesn't have a boyfriend, then you can be brave enough to pursue her. The premise is that no one can be harmed.

    What should I do if I like a 16-year-old girl who is younger than herself.

    Like a 16-year-old girl who is younger than yourself, if you have a family, then let go of your liking for her. If you don't have a family and she doesn't have a boyfriend, then you can be brave enough to pursue her. The premise is that no one can be harmed.

    People can like a lot of people in this life, you have to cherish the person next to you, and you are 16 years older than each other, this kind of like just likes each other to be young, and reminds you of your previous time, not love.

    She and I had a good chat. I'm 37 years old, she's 21 years old, she's still in college, I feel like she's very virtuous, she will tell me when she spends money on things, and I'm a little afraid that I won't be able to support her in the future.

    When two people are together, it's not just about liking it, it's also about thinking about a lot of things, family parents, and material aspects.

    It's normal for you to be in this situation.

    Nowadays, many girls like uncles.

    The girl is just greedy for the uncle's money.

    The uncle covets the beauty and figure of the girl.

    It costs a little bit to be with her, and I'm just worried that she'll ignore me when I run out of money.

    Do you have a wife and children?

    No, I've talked about girlfriends before, and they all broke up.

    If you don't have a wife, you can be with her openly, but her parents will definitely not agree.

    Her mother watched the gate in our factory and liked me very much.

    And she's only 21 years old, she's still in school, and if she meets a man who is about his age better than you.

    Unless you're particularly rich.

    Otherwise, his parents would not have agreed.

    A girl of this age at the age of 21 is immature and is in the ignorance period of love.

    My income is not very stable, so it's okay for now. Ranging from 3000 to 8000 per month.

    Actually, it's up to you, if you meet and talk happily in private, and she likes you very much, then you can be together. If you're just having a good time chatting on WeChat on your phone, that doesn't mean anything.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. Dear, you like a girl who is 16 years younger than you, and you dare not face her, which means that you don't have the courage yet, a little unconfident, afraid that you can't give her the life she wants, you are afraid, you are so much older than her, afraid that she will reject you.

    I like a girl who is 16 years younger than me, and I don't dare to face her to solve it.

    Dear, you like a girl who is 16 years younger than you, and you dare not face her, which means that you don't have the courage yet, a little unconfident, afraid that you can't give her the life she wants, you are afraid, you are so much older than her, afraid that she will reject you.

    I suggest you talk to her and check the girl's heart.

    Hmmm, okay. Hmmm, okay.

    But I'm not very good at chatting, I can only confess?

    Dear, it is recommended that you find out the girl's mind first, and then confess.

    No, hehe, I'm a straight man, ** will touch other people's minds.

    I'm 87 years old, and the girl is 19 years old.

    Dear, you chat with her first, find out her preferences, and slowly get to know each other from the chat.

    I can't chat, am I being amorous, the winner is unrequited love, and the winner is secretly in love with her??

    Dear, you now belong to the crush on her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hug the subject. First of all, I suggest that the subject should not think too much, wondering if he is gay, and Sun Qingshen thinks about whether his classmates will accept me and whether his family can stand it, and constantly thinking about it will only consume his own energy, so as to affect his own life.

    Judging from the text, the subject's friends are very good to the subject and have always protected you. Is the subject very dependent on this friend and does not want to lose her; Isn't there a little insecure and want to further establish a closer relationship and make yourself feel at ease? Or a friend is so kind to himself that he is so moved that he has the idea of "making a promise".

    It is recommended that the subject calm down first, don't be too anxious to draw conclusions, and see your heart clearly.

    The subject said that friends may not have feelings for themselves, so the author might as well calm down, go with the flow, and continue to be friends first. Friends are very good to you, you should also be good to her, when you grow up and mature, the opportunity and conditions are right, and you are really sure of your heart before you are together, then you will have the courage to face this family and society. The love of one person will make you miserable, and the love of two will give you courage.

    If there is no conditional opportunity, lifelong friends and girlfriends are also a very happy thing.

    Hope my proposal is helpful to the subject.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The first is the appearance, it's not about how tall and handsome you are, boys are generally not as delicate as girls, even if there are many celebrities, they just look like that. The most important thing is the hair, the clothes should be clean, giving people a refreshing feeling Pay attention to eating, at least** not too bad, the hairstyle and clothes are clean and suitable for yourself.

    Then there is life, you have to have your own circle, I just appreciate boys who can eat both the same sex and the opposite sex, you have a good relationship with the boys and girls around the girl, you want to chase her, there will be many people to help you, and the girl will refer to the evaluation of you by others.

    Then it's your own self-cultivation, cultivation is not about what grades are particularly good or something, you have to know how to order your own things, or hobbies, so that people can "worship", and even some examples, basketball, playing lol is very good

    Don't say some sensual hints when you don't plan to confess, just play very frankly, and don't always ask someone to come out alone, the offer will come out together in a circle with a good relationship, everyone is familiar with you, you feel that there is hope, you will confess directly, courage can be added.

    If you do the above, you should be able to catch up, even if you don't succeed, you have gained a social circle and your own life, and a clean and hearty yourself, so you will be more confident, and in the process you will also find that you appreciate other girls.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, when he turns your interest into his interest...Or because he loves you.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find such a person around you, guess you can cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover is always the most understood.

    Target. In this world, everyone has someone they want to look for, but they miss it.

    , and won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily.

    It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and a love that cannot withstand the test of the Spike is not profound. A beautiful love enriches life, and a test of love is perfect...

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