How long have you missed each other after a breakup, and why can t you let go?

It's been a few years, and it's not clear how long it is.

After so many years, I often think about it.

I broke up, I will let go within 7 days, no one can hinder my happiness, if I have been depressed, the happy is others, why bother to punish myself with his mistakes.

I have a bad temper, I think it's me who is not good, I have to change to get him back.

After almost three months, I finally let go. Freshman. That's nice.

After a breakup, if you often miss the people or things you used to have, you may not be able to let go, or you may feel sorry for this relationship, or you may just express your memory of your former self, after all, you have sincerely given your emotions.

Everyone has their own seven emotions and six desires, and the word "love" is the world.

One thing that can't be explained. Every couple in love is full of longing for their relationship at the beginning, and everyone expects their love to last a long time, but there will always be some people who come to the point of breaking up because of some things.

No one thinks of the sad ending of their relationship when they first fall in love. But in the end, it was able to come to the step of breaking up, which also shows that the relationship between the two people is indeed in crisis. Depending on the reason for the breakup, the state of the breakup person will be different.

Generally speaking, if the breakup is caused by the emotional infidelity of one party and the splitting of legs, one party will feel relieved after the breakup, while the other party will feel very hurt and difficult to get out, after all, the person who once said that he loved himself went to the arms of others in the blink of an eye. In this case, it's not that I can't let go, but I regret the past, and I have a feeling of feeding the dog with blood, and I regret that I shouldn't have put my emotions on the scumbag (scumbag).

If it is because the personalities of the two parties do not match, the three views do not agree, and they will often miss it after the breakup, it is to remember the good times when the two people were together in the past, and there will be a feeling that the breakup was too impulsive at the beginning. In this case, if you feel willing to change for the other person, you can try to get back together with the other person, after all, the world is so big, it is not easy for two people to meet.

If you are broken up for unknown reasons and often miss it after the breakup, you are unwilling to have an attitude towards this relationship and do not understand why you are broken up when you are so good. In this case, you can answer your doubts by a friend or by asking yourself to find the reason for the breakup.

Of course, not everyone can get the answers they want after a breakup.

If the breakup is caused by family reasons, and you often miss it after the breakup, you really can't let go of this relationship. After all, there is no emotional barrier between two people, but it is really unwilling to break up due to external reasons.

In fact, no matter what the reason for breaking up, no matter what has happened, we should face it calmly, there is no need to keep holding on to the past, after all, people have to look forward. Perhaps, the person who broke up with you has started a new life of his own, so why should you rest on your laurels? Everyone we meet in life is not someone we shouldn't meet, but in order to let us have more growth experiences to make us better, and then to meet better people.

Yes. Because if you really let go, you won't miss it at all, so I think it's a sign that you can't let go.

Yes, it is a sign that you can't let go, which shows that you still have feelings for your ex, so you miss it.

Some good memories are often missed after a breakup. It's not a sign that I can't let go, but I feel sorry that I missed such a good girl and some beautiful things. So it was impulsive.

For the sake of one's own thoughts, I still won't. I regret my original choice, and since I made it, I have to work hard to face it.

Missing a lot after a breakup is a kind of psychology that you can't let go, because you haven't gotten out of the pain of falling out of love. This period is very painful.

This is not to let go, because you often miss each other after a breakup, then your heart is always thinking about the sweet scene of the other party and you being together, so you still love him in your heart and can't let go of him.

Missing a lot after a breakup is a sign that you can't let go, because you still care about her.

Yes. At this time, you must do more things to keep yourself busy, and then you must also divert your attention so that you can let go well.

In fact, this state is indeed a sign that we can't let go, often we will feel the other party's good after the breakup, which will make us think about it often.

After a couple breaks up, one of them often misses each other very much, and it will even be difficult to get out. Usually when you are in a relationship, the more you love each other. Then when you break up, the harder it will be for you to come out.

So what should we do in such a situation? The solution to the problem is actually quite simple. The first is to keep yourself busy, because people will think crankily whenever they are free, and then you will think of each other.

The second is to wait slowly, and after a long time, you will naturally not feel it. The third is to hurry up and find a new love, because the new love is better than the old love.

In the early stages of a breakup, the best thing to do is to keep yourself busy all day and not have the energy to think about it. During the day, you go to work seriously and work hard, so that you don't think about it. When you're alone at night, you can go and watch some TV series or play games.

Until you want to sleep, then go straight to sleep, don't think about it. You don't have to do it every day, you just need to do it for a while, maybe 2 to 3 weeks and you'll feel a lot better.

Because with the passage of time, any kind of emotion of our people will be slowly released. Especially when it comes to pain, it just gets lighter and lighter with time. Because this is a self-protection mechanism of man, it is impossible for him to immerse you in a state of extreme pain every day.

There is also a very good way, which is to quickly find a new love. Because the person you lose is a partner, an object. Then if you find someone who can replace him, then you will focus your attention on this new person, and you will forget about it.

These are all very realistic things, so there is nothing that cannot be escaped.

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When encountering such a situation, I think you should adjust your mentality and state, don't affect your life because of this incident, you should forget about the unpleasant feelings before, don't always think cranky, and be sure to look forward.

Then don't think about it, put your focus on work, and you will forget about the other party after a long time.

You have to change your mentality, you have to change your mindset, and you must forget about the other person as soon as possible.

Yes, after all, there is still a lot of nostalgia after the breakup, and they haven't even completely let go of each other, they will keep looking at the dynamics of their ex, and the thoughts after the breakup do not stop in a short period of time, after all, they have loved each other deeply, and there will still be some attachment in their hearts. Divine Strike.

Out of curiosity, I will also look at the dynamics of my ex, curious about how he is doing now, whether he is sad to lose himself, and want to verify whether he really loves himself, although he broke up, he still wants to know whether his ex loves him or not, so he will keep looking at his ex's dynamics to verify the answer in his heart.

Obviously, I know very well in my heart that I have broken up, but I still choose to go to see him secretly, want to know his life, give myself psychological comfort, and in this way, I will not add annoyance to the other party.

But this kind of performance will also slowly fade over time, and in the beginning, it is really necessary to relieve the longing. But slowly let go, after all, they have separated, and this relationship has ended.

A failed relationship will bring us some hurt and hinder our way forward, but eventually we will wake up, we will continue to move forward, be cautious about emotional matters, don't force yourself, everything is as good as it gets.

Breaking up can be a very painful experience for most people to ruin and ruin, it can hurt your self-esteem and self-confidence, and it can also make you feel lonely and lost. Even if you've made up your mind to break up, you may still miss each other after the breakup.

For some people, it is a very normal feeling to still miss each other after a breakup. This could be because you've had a lot of great time together, and maybe you have a deep bond of affection between you. Even if you know that breaking up was the right decision, it's hard to completely let go of these feelings in a short period of time.

However, some people are able to adjust to their new life very quickly after a breakup and no longer miss their ex. This may be because they have come to terms with the fact of the breakup and have already begun to deal with the emotional and life changes that come with the breakup.

Whatever your case may be, it's perfectly normal to miss each other after a breakup. You can allow yourself to adapt to this change and slowly come out of it. If you feel you need help, talk to a close friend or professional who can give you support and advice.

Finally, remember that breaking up doesn't have to mean saying goodbye forever, and sometimes breaking up is about a better start again. No matter how you feel right now, it's important to try to look forward and take control of your life and your future.

After reading your information, I probably think that your emotional experience is no longer a seventeen or eighteen-year-old girl who is brainless and unconscious, and she doesn't even have the reliability to identify a man? If you feel that you can trust him, try to pay attention to his life situation. It's also possible that he is just as tired and anxious as you.

Of course, if he is not a responsible and reliable person, how long will you deceive yourself? Always believe that there is everything in this world, everyone has it, maybe you will meet better in the future, maybe there will be no better, so why not cherish the present? I think you'll find out for yourself.

Good luck. It's been a month, and you still can't let go of him, which shows how important he is to you.

So why put it down? Why don't you want to think about why we broke up? Now that we know and love each other, we just broke up like this?

You will meet many people in your life, and your chances of falling in love are about the same as the chances of winning the lottery. Some time ago, I broke up with my girlfriend, and on the first day after the breakup, I always couldn't control my tears, I cried while walking, I couldn't help crying when I went to work, I couldn't help crying when I brushed and trembled, and then in the next few days, I probably couldn't cry because of tears, and then I was distressed, upset, and wanted to do something to her. That's how important she is, and I desperately tried to keep her, and she came back.

My personal opinion is, if you like it, don't let it go easily. If it's just a misunderstanding and the two of you have been getting along well, then I'd suggest trying to fix it! After all, it's not easy to meet someone you like, and it's even harder to meet someone who likes each other and can get along harmoniously.

You miss him so much, so it's worth trying again. Tell him the truth, tell him you want to be back together. If he doesn't want to, then pick a child, work hard to restart himself, and find his own happiness!

If he doesn't want to, then pick a pick.

Would it be humiliating to ask for a reunion? Of course not. You want me to show weakness to you, you have to listen to you?!

On second thought, you've already won, and in the end happiness is the most important thing! If you have been noisy since the beginning of your relationship, and the breakup is to find a breakthrough in resentment, I advise you to forget it, no matter how much you miss him, you have to let go, unless you have a consensus and want to live this noisy life! It's really hard to be happy if you don't have a harmonious personality!

If you break up because you can't solve a one-time problem, ask yourself, is it okay to compromise for love? What's the point of getting back together if not? This problem has always existed, and it is not worth putting on a reality show in order to miss him.

Yes. If you still miss each other after breaking up, it means that you still have some emotional chains for each other, and you must not have let go of the branches and love each other very much.

Indeed, yes, if you really let go, there won't be any waves for a person, and seeing this person is like seeing a stranger.

Yes. After the breakup, I still miss each other very much, which is a sign of not letting go, and you can see that you still love each other very much.

Know. What do you miss each other after a breakup?

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After a breakup, you will miss each other because of why, I think it is due to the following:

Clause. 1. The other party has long formed a habit of being good to himself, and he will naturally think of the other party.

In a relationship, the other party's care and concern for themselves is one of the reasons to maintain the relationship. has been in love for a long time, and has long been accustomed to taking care of Lu Songfang, and there will be traces of each other everywhere in life. Even if you propose to break up, you will often think of the good of the other party.

For example, someone will pick you up when you get off work, someone will pick you up when you eat, and someone will help you when you open the lid. Suddenly, your life is not as convenient as it used to be, you will encounter difficulties everywhere, and there is no one to help you with care. In that moment, you will often think of the other person's kindness to you.

Clause. 2. Seeing other people showing affection, or seeing something that has the common memories of two people.

On the road of love, two people always have a lot of sweet pasts, a lot of memories and things to do together. And when you propose to break up by yourself, you feel that the other party has not met your requirements, but your heart will still be dependent. When you see things that the two of you have experienced together, or things that you have had good memories with, you will always be touched by the scene and remembered the bits and pieces of the past.

Clause. 3. Psychological needs prompt you to miss each other.

After all, two people have loved each other, they have been attracted to each other's former advantages, and they want to be able to last for a long time. But because he proposed to break up, the other party did not keep the relationship and did not continue to insist on it. The girl still feels unwilling in her heart, and wants to let the other party know that she is good, to be able to turn back and coax herself, to give herself a step down, and to maintain her relationship through clan quarrels.

But the other party's abandonment is still difficult to give up in the girl's heart, and she will often recall it. Even though he has given up now, his psychological needs are very strong.

Love.