Why are some people so dark? Thank you

Updated on psychology 2024-07-19
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's a genetic problem, and it's different for everyone!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    A lot of people hack me behind my back and want to respond? That's too much trouble, I don't even deal with it.

    I've seen a lot of people stabbing in the back, do you want to fight them one by one and stab them back?

    I can generally judge whether what I have done is correct or not, because the code of conduct is to have a clear conscience, and when I do this standard, others hack me, for me, it is just a violation of their interests and want to protect their own interests through ...... hacking meI usually don't want to clarify myself for this kind of behavior, but let it continue to ferment, continue to act on my own, make practical actions, make effects, and let them be slapped in the face.

    For example, when we held a clothing donation activity, some people hacked us, saying that our donated clothes were to be disposed of by ourselves and then taken out to buy. It is said that the clothes we collect are all garbage, and they will be made into thermal insulation cotton and sent to the Northeast for money......

    For such remarks, there is no need to clarify at all, continue to collect clothes, continue to deal with it, how to deal with it, just make it public. You said that we took it out to sell, we didn't, we announced how many clothes were collected, how to clean, how to sort, how to pack, and send it to **, and the people who received it took pictures and fed back to our **......When these things are spread to the online platform, everyone knows what is going on......

    I'm not African, I'm not Bao Gong, it's not that you say I'm black, I'm black......

    There are many people who can't see through the truth that "no matter how much others say, it's not as powerful as the truth", but they fall into a scolding war with others, "Who hacked me, why did you hack me" ......Isn't this looking for something to do on your own? There are more people who have nothing to do, and if you have to respond one by one, you have to put down your work and respond.

    On the other hand, you stop your work and make things move slowly, and you achieve the purpose of the person who hacked you. They don't succeed enough, but they have more than they lose, no, if you hack you, won't you be unbearable? If it were me, I would never be afraid of being black, I would be afraid that I would really be black, and I wouldn't know ......But fortunately, so far, everything I have done has not deviated from my original intention, nor has I been ashamed of my parents of heaven and earth, and I can have a clear conscience.

    It is said that there is only one truth, the white can't be black, and the black can't be bleached, so ah, don't be afraid. What to do, what to do.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What can you do when a lot of people hack you?

    You can't do anything.

    Are you going to take a knife and stab him again? As long as you don't want to spend your life in a dark cell, then you don't care about the red lines of the law at all. But are you an independent? You have freed yourself, but you have pushed your family into the abyss. Why bother?

    What is the correct way to open it?

    First of all, you have to know why you yourself were hacked by others? Maybe it's because of your personality, maybe it's because of your style of doing things, maybe it's because you live differently and get along with others. Of course, there is also a possibility, that is, you don't know that others are blacking you at all?

    This is also the saddest thing. If it feels like you are, give you 0 seconds to feel sorry for you.

    In the case of the previous cases, you can solve the problem by strengthening communication. Why bother stabbing you in the back if something can be easily solved verbally? But there is also another situation, that is, he is also a "stuffy green", he also has his style of doing things, although he can't tolerate you in his eyes, but he doesn't know what to say, and always says something cynical and weird, which makes people confused.

    That's right, he's just hinting to you that some of your actions have offended him to make him so yin and yang.

    Oh my! I just want to say, under the same roof, we can't talk well, if you're not happy, you just say! Why should you bother with this whole thing?

    It's good, you endure it if you're not happy, you turn all your grievances into your actions, and then you put a stumbling block on me, you work hard, and then you see me fall a lot, and you smile bitterly. Isn't it fun?

    At this time, you can't spend it with him like this, and your personality or lifestyle is different, so you take the initiative to talk to him. After talking, he will no longer complain about you behind your back. Bear with each other, the world is peaceful!

    There is another category, you obviously didn't do anything wrong, he just can't get used to you, as if he can't see you. This category of people is directly blocked and pulled into the blacklist. And they don't have to bother at all, no matter how sincere your heart is to seek peace, they are indifferent.

    Not only that, but you may also belittle your sincerity as a sign of weakness. So, ignore it, so that there is no point in their actions. As the saying goes, those who are clear are self-purifying.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Silence, all I can do is silence. Lu Xun said that only silence is the highest contempt.

    When a lot of people hack me, I should first introspect. I always believe that one person hacking you may be that person's problem, but everyone hacking you should be your own reason. I'll find the reason from myself, and if it's really my problem, I'll change it.

    But if it's not my problem, it's that they have a problem. I don't think I can change them. I know that I can't change all of them, and I don't want to try to let them know who they really are.

    When a lot of people hack you, explanations are the most useless thing. If they are willing to listen to your explanations, then they will not hack you without knowing anything, and they will not know you from other people's mouths at all. You have to believe that when many people hack you, they must be malicious.

    They just want to slander you, they just want you to be sad, they just want you to be unhappy. At this time, if you still want to explain to them, then you are too stupid, they will only laugh at you, they will only be happier. Because their purpose was achieved.

    So, there is only silence, and silence is the greatest contempt. Nothing is unpassable. After all, tomorrow is another day. Believe that in a few days they will forget, and in a few days they will go to hack another unlucky ghost, and no dog will bite a person to the end.

    No matter how sincere you are, when you meet someone who doubts you, you are a lie, no matter how simple you are, when you meet a complex person, you are scheming. Don't care too much about what others say, we just need to be the best and unique version of ourselves. The three most powerful words in the world are not caring.

    When you don't care about their slander, don't care about their malice, don't care about them. Then they are really just them, what does it have to do with you?

    So, when a lot of people hack me, I must not be rare to deal with them, they are a ball, so that I will not let a group of pigs affect my mood.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe because I'm an ordinary person, I haven't been hacked by many people, but I learned from my two favorite stars that if you encounter a hack, try to make yourself better and more successful, then gossiping people will naturally shut up.

    I have to use two of my favorite celebrities as examples.

    Zhang Jie, now as long as his name is mentioned, everyone knows that he is a very, very famous singer, and his wife is Xie Na. But a few years ago, if someone knew about Zhang Jie, they might say oh he is Xie Na's husband. I still remember that Zhang Jie was standing on the cusp of the storm, saying that he was able to rank on the happy boy because of Xie Na, in those years, he did not develop quickly, the outside world said that Xie Na was raising her, how was it, he didn't fight back.

    Later, it became a little popular, and some people said that it was because of Xie Na that he climbed up, and he didn't fight back, but continued to work hard, and then until now, more and more successful, no one said that it was because of Xie Na, and he would never say that Zhang Jie was Xie Na's husband anymore. It is said that Xie Na is Zhang Jie's wife, the former is passively known, and the latter is actively known. His response is to work hard to make himself more successful.

    Angelbaby is also a character who stands at the pinnacle of the topic, because of her husband, because of her beauty, because of her acting skills, she was hacked by many people, but she didn't explain, but continued to work hard, that is, now, the more people who accept her, the more true love fans there are.

    So you have to believe that when you reach a certain height, all the doubts will turn into applause. Strive to be better. Believe in yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Three mouths and one product, two skins for people's mouths, and a few people don't need to care about you at all, because there are always strange things, and this is not your fault; If most people don't like you, you need to reflect on yourself, after all, people are terrible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When a lot of people hack you, the first thing to do is to examine yourself. If it is not malicious, you have a problem and do not know it. If you maliciously hack you, it will never be many. It's okay, it's going to pass.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The false accusation of nonsense is not supported by evidence, and gossip and chaos are one of the characteristics of the vast majority of modern people, so you only need to respond to the sunspot, but don't specifically find those people who eat melons to explain, so that there is no thing to become, since there is no evidence to support it, then others do not believe it, but some people who know the gossip may take the initiative to ask you, then at this time, you only need to make a brief explanation, what is false is false, and the other party has no reason to believe that this matter will not be true.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Be yourself, take care of him, as long as you do your best, don't care about the rest, you are what others say, and you just have to prove it to them.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You are a leader material, if a lot of people hack you, the way to respond is not to keep quiet, silently observe them to find out the focus is the solution to the problem, another good man three gangs.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let's take a look at their attitude. If they can talk well, you can bear with it and get back to them slowly, if they exceed the score. Then you don't have to put up with it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find one of the participants, slowly build a relationship with him, and see how black you are. How it will affect you. If you can do that, I guess you know what to do.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You don't have to respond at all, what should you do, what are you going to do, what are you doing responding to him and her? Quarrel? Debate? What's the use? You must know that those who are clear are self-purifying, and let time speak. Work hard to improve yourself, do everything at hand, and be down-to-earth and sincere.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The effect of hard scolding may not be good, you can only slowly let them know you as a person, or ask others to help you clarify, and in the end, you should act on your own, and you will see people's hearts over time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can just reply, "Thank you for helping me achieve my dream of becoming a celebrity"!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, time is not only the best answer to movies, but also people.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Isn't it said that flies don't bite seamless eggs?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's all about hacking you, which means that you are better than others.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hack him directly, this kind of person doesn't need to give him face.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Find the most likely one of them to attack and extinguish her prestige.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's because after ultraviolet rays, melanin is precipitated in **, so it turns black, some people are difficult to go back after black, but some people will go back white after black.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People can be black, the first is innate, born black. The second is sunburning, which will produce melanin after being in the sun for a long time, and after melanin precipitation, it will be black.

    Hope it helps you, thank you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Gene mutation is right, genes are also selected by the environment, in ancient times when human productivity was underdeveloped, black ** was more suitable for the African environment, so black ** people survived in Africa.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Causes of black.

    The cause of darkening may be related to factors such as daily life and environment, sleep and mood, such as poor rest, endocrine disorders and other factors.

    Certain foods are also the bane of darkening. Studies have proved that the activity of tyrosine is closely related to copper, iron, zinc and other elements in the body. Regular consumption of substances rich in phthyline and rare elements zinc, copper and iron, such as animal visceral liver, aquatic products mullet roe, beans of soybeans, lentils, hard-shelled peanuts, walnuts, black sesame seeds and raisins, etc., the color of ** is darker.

    Whether white is white or not depends mainly on the ability of melanocytes to synthesize melanin. Among the cells of the human epidermis, melanocytes are distributed, and the tyrosine amidine contained in it can oxidize tyrosine into polysaccharides, and then go through a series of metabolic processes in the middle, and finally produce melanin. The more melanin is produced, the darker it is, and the more it is, the whiter it is.

    Extended Materials. Foods that make **white:

    Vitamin C can interrupt the process of melanin production, can prevent the further oxidation of dopamine that has been generated and be reduced to dopa, and can reduce the serum copper oxidation content, affect the activity of tyrosine, thereby interfering with the biosynthesis of melanin.

    Vitamin C can reduce melanin, reduce and even remove dark spots and freckles, and speed up the reduction of whitening At the same time, it is not advisable to drink too much coffee or too strong coffee, otherwise it is easy to turn black.

    In daily life, if you regularly eat foods rich in essential substances for melanin metabolism, or constantly supplement foods that can enhance tyrosine activity, ** tends to be darker in color. On the other hand, if you regularly consume foods that can interrupt the metabolism of melanin, you tend to be whiter.

    References: People's Daily Online-**Why is it black? How can I whiten it?

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