Let s talk about the mentality of a man who doesn t smoke, doesn t drink, and doesn t like to play?

There is nothing special, there are many people who don't smoke, don't drink, don't go to KTV, don't play, don't be surprised, because I used to be such a person. These things are not necessities in life, there are many people who like them, there are many people who don't like them, and more people are dispensable, so it doesn't mean that there is any mentality, they are all normal people, and it's enough to do what they like. ‍‍

I have people around me who don't smoke or drink and are allergic to alcohol. These things are not the essential attributes of men, and they have nothing to do with psychology. If you have to talk about mentality, I think it is a high spiritual pursuit.

For example, the pursuit of self-fulfillment. There are many such people, people with high spiritual pursuits, who control their personal physiological desires very well, and are full of confidence, and do not need to give themselves a sense of security by integrating into group behavior, so they will soon go beyond the physiological needs and safety needs, and focus more on changing society. ‍‍

Such a person can quickly concentrate on one thing, and can also allocate all his energy to focus on things. This is concentration, and if you focus to this extent, you will not have the energy and time to go to the tobacco and alcohol license. I didn't believe that there were people who forgot to eat for the sake of experiments, but now I realize that there are actually many such people. ‍‍

None of them, and there are quite a few people I know. In fact, they are also like normal people, living the life of ordinary people, and living a simple life, never extravagant and wasteful. For men, it's a bit of a feeling of isolation from the world. ‍‍

I'm basically a man like that......Occasionally playing games, 29 years old feels like an old man haha. I think, what kind of person is such a person, just be honest, don't like the lights, like quiet, have nothing to go out for, look at the scenery and empty yourself, it's also good. ‍‍

In this way, most people have healthy tastes, as opposed to low-level tastes. Such people, such as Ouyang Xiu's modern travelers, appreciate the great rivers and mountains and feel the happiness on the road, such as Cao Xueqin's hard life but has been added and deleted five times for ten years, such as some chefs who are obsessed with cooking skills, there are such people in every field, who are indifferent to fame and fortune and concentrate on their own profession. ‍‍

That's the kind of man I am! How did I develop the habit of not smoking, drinking, gambling, or not going to KTV? Please let me tell me slowly.

I don't smoke, I haven't had this hobby since I was a student, and I haven't smoked it until now, so whoever hands me a cigarette politely refuses. Don't drink alcohol, to be precise, drink very little, because there are occasions when you have to drink, other times you don't drink at all, and you use tea instead of wine. I just want to say, I am who I am, fireworks of different colors!

I think such a man is very attractive because he is responsible for his body and is a responsible and positive person.

Very self-disciplined.

A man who is self-disciplined enough, they realize that tobacco and alcohol are bad at the beginning, and then they will never have anything to do with tobacco and alcohol. No matter what situation they find themselves in, they will control their curiosity.

A man who is self-disciplined enough, even if he is contaminated with tobacco and alcohol from the beginning, will eventually forcibly separate from "tobacco and alcohol" by his own willpower, and will not be affected by them.

Self-disciplined men are often the most terrifying. Because they know what to hold on to and what not to stick to. Such rational analysis and perseverance are important factors for them to overcome difficulties and achieve something.

Precautions. If a person is resistant to something, it is very likely that he has suffered in this regard. Only when a person has been injured or fallen in one aspect will he remember this unforgettable pain and will never be involved in it.

And for some men who "don't smoke and drink", it is precisely because they have suffered different losses in "tobacco and alcohol" that they will resist. Just like a person who has health problems due to excessive smoking and drinking, maybe he learned from the pain when he was in the hospital, and felt that he could no longer be contaminated with tobacco and alcohol after he recovered from his illness, so he chose to quit in time.

is like a person who has lost a lot of money because of tobacco and alcohol, maybe he only understands after he has lost both people and money, if he is contaminated with too much tobacco and alcohol, he will be hurt in the end. So, they simply chose to have nothing to do with it.

If a man loves tobacco and alcohol, it proves that he has not suffered from it, and he has not experienced some pain. However, if he finally quits, it means that this person has seen through the essence of "tobacco and alcohol" and is no longer addicted to it.

Summary. 1. Introverted men who don't smoke and drink are more introverted, they are not good at words, and they don't like to be inflammatory, they have a small world in their hearts, they habitually put themselves in that world, everything is beautiful in that world, there is no society, there is no intrigue, they don't like to talk to others, and they don't want to tell others about their own affairs, maybe because of low self-esteem, maybe they don't want others to worry about themselves, so they tend to solve a lot of things by themselves. Second, people who are easily injured and do not smoke or drink have their own ideas, and they will do anything bad intentions, because if they don't make plans, if something happens, they may not be able to bear it, if they can't bear it, if no one can help them, they will feel cold, because in their hearts, some people can help them, but these people are indifferent.

And in terms of emotion, they will all behave more vulnerable and sensitive, and they are often easy to be led by the nose, and some of the woman's inadvertent actions and words will make him feel sad, so he is also more likely to be hurt. 3. People who are not very rational and do not smoke or drink are not very good at rational thinking, they will not be as grumpy as people who drink, on the contrary, they will be more gentle, but when they are in an extreme environment, they will make very surprising decisions and deal with it.

1. Introverted men who don't smoke and drink are more introverted, they don't speak well, and they don't like to be inflammatory, they have a small world in their hearts, they habitually put themselves in that world, everything in that world is beautiful, there is no society, no intrigue, they don't like to talk to others, and they don't want to tell others about their own affairs, maybe because of low self-esteem, maybe they don't want others to worry about themselves, so they tend to solve a lot of things by themselves. Second, people who are easily injured and do not smoke or drink have their own ideas, and they will do anything bad intentions, because if they don't make plans, if something happens, they may not be able to bear it, if they can't bear it, if no one can help them, they will feel cold, because in their hearts, some people can help them, but these people are indifferent. And in terms of emotion, they will all be more weak and sensitive, and they are often easy to be led by the nose, and some of the woman's inadvertent actions and words will make him feel sad, so he is also more likely to be hurt.

3. People who are not very rational and do not smoke or drink are not very good at rational thinking, they will not be as grumpy as people who drink, on the contrary, they will be more gentle, but when they are in an extreme environment, they will make very surprising decisions and deal with it.

This type of person is either an otaku. Either he is a tech man who is obsessed with his own affairs.

Summary. People who don't smoke or drink are not very good at rational thinking, they are not as grumpy as drinkers, on the contrary, they are gentle, but when they are in an extreme situation, they will make very surprising decisions and deal with them. If people who drink alcohol are easy to be irrational and irrational, then people who don't drink are prone to irrationality in extreme directions, both are of the same nature, and the kind of people who can control their own alcohol consumption are relatively much better, since they can control their alcohol consumption, they can naturally solve other things rationally.

People who don't smoke and don't go back to the state are not very good at rational thinking, they don't have the same temper as drinkers, on the contrary, they tend to be gentle, but when they are in an extreme situation, they will make very surprising decisions and deal with them. If people who drink alcohol are easy to be irrational and irrational, then people who don't drink are prone to irrationality in extreme directions, both are of the same nature, and the kind of people who can control their own alcohol consumption are relatively much better, since they can control their alcohol consumption, they will naturally be able to rationally solve other things.

A man who is disciplined enough.

Don't have too much prejudice against the male group, if the overall social concept is that men don't smoke or drink, honest people are easy to bully, and find such a person when you find a spare tire in your relationship, then in the end all men become scumbags, and it is never a good thing for women You want to find someone who can really accompany you and love you all the time, and then you suspect that people are not warm enough for you, do you know why sugar cane is so sweet? Because the sweetness is put in the front, and the back will become slag, and then you complain that you haven't met a good manWhen you meet a good man, you feel that people are very dull and not suitable for you, and this concept needs to be changed.

I think this kind of man is rare, especially if he doesn't smoke, because men who smoke basically can't quit smoking, and I think this kind of man who doesn't smoke and drink is often more attractive.

We should admire men who don't smoke, don't drink and don't play cards, because such guys are really very self-disciplined and don't have any bad habits.

I think this kind of man is really very rare, if you meet this kind of man, then you must be brave to pursue. Because this kind of man is very family-oriented, and he is also very powerful.

This kind of man is very good, and this kind of man will definitely take special care of his family, and he is also very good to his wife, so such a man is the best.

This kind of man has very strong self-control, and this kind of man should choose to get married, he can be better to himself, and there is no bad atmosphere.

This is a very normal thing. It shows that there are definitely no such problems in his family environment, they are more self-disciplined, usually have things they love, and are very positive.

It's very good, because there are actually very few such people now, but it is also necessary to find out what other hobbies he has.