What is the psychology of loving each other all the time but not firmly?

As long as you express your love for yourself, it's not a "disgusting guy", and this love means "I'm not bad, I'm a cute existence", which must be very comfortable.

People have a strong thirst for this kind of feeling, and we often see that some people who are not so cute in nature will also carefully disguise themselves when dealing with others, and package themselves as very cute, in order to deceive this "affection".

Firmly loving each other" is difficult, and this involves the problem of strategy.

Choosing a partner often has the nature of "giving up a forest for a tree", which is extremely difficult to do, especially for young people, after all, the world is too big, and the possibilities are almost limitless.

Choosing a certain object is not just as simple as "choosing an intimate relationship", it often contains many foreshadowings. The appearance of my partner almost determines "what kind of person I choose to become, what kind of life I choose to enter, and what kind of life I choose to live in the future.....If people can feel full of joy and expectation on these issues, and are willing to give up all other possibilities for this, this partner must be a particularly good person, and the right time has occurred.

Of course, if you are not satisfied with anyone and are never determined, you will be mentally ill, and you will be cured.

Loving and being loved is actually a kind of ability, to be a person who can love.

Loving and being loved is actually a kind of ability, and those who can love can bring happiness and joy to each other. People who will receive love know how to cherish and how to feel happiness and joy from it.

To love and be loved, seven points is enough. To love or to be loved, don't love very much. Loving others with ten points not only does not mean oneself, but also creates a burden for the other party.

Never love with your life, a person who doesn't even love his own life has no strength to love others. The love of life is a kind of selfishness, a kind of cruelty. Whether it is family affection or love, if the other party can bear the love of your life, then your life can only be as light as a feather; If the other person can't bear the love of your life, then he will carry a heavy burden for the rest of his life and live in the shadows for the rest of his life.

Even your entire family will be burdened with the gene of extreme and narrow personality, and it will be greatly affected.

It is a blessing to be able to love the person you truly love, and it is a pain not to be accepted by the person you truly love.

Loving and being loved is actually a kind of ability, to be a person who can love.

Loving and being loved is actually a kind of ability, and those who can love can bring happiness and joy to each other. People who will receive love know how to cherish and how to feel happiness and joy from it.

To love and be loved, seven points is enough. To love or to be loved, don't love very much. Loving others with ten points not only does not mean oneself, but also creates a burden for the other party.

Never love with your life, a person who doesn't even love his own life has no strength to love others. The love of life is a kind of selfishness, a kind of cruelty. Whether it is family affection or love, if the other party can bear the love of your life, then your life can only be as light as a feather; If the other person can't bear the love of your life, then he will carry a heavy burden for the rest of his life and live in the shadows for the rest of his life.

Even your entire family will be burdened with the gene of extreme and narrow personality, and it will be greatly affected.

It is a blessing to be able to love the person you truly love, and it is a pain not to be accepted by the person you truly love.

That means you don't like him. You just enjoy the feeling of pursuing the other person, and if you don't like the other person, make it clear to the other person as soon as possible. Don't waste each other's time and waste each other's feelings, it's very unfair to each other.

Now enjoy being loved, it may be that you haven't met the right one for the time being, so he's just a spare tire.

You enjoy being loved all the time, but you don't love each other firmly, the psychology is like this, you enjoy the other party's good to you, but you don't love each other, you are reluctant to tell the other party, because you are afraid that you will let go of the other party, and at that time there is no one around you who is obedient to you, twenty-four filial piety boyfriend, no one gives gifts during the holidays, no one sends food when you are hungry, no one coaxes you when you are tired, no one accompanies you when you are in a bad mood, you are reluctant to let go of everything that the other party gives you, even if you don't love you, you are reluctant to let go.

You enjoy the feeling of being pampered, even if you don't love this person, but the love he creates for you, life is what you like, so you don't want to be separated, even if you yourself understand that you don't love him.

In fact, in reality, many people's love is like this, many people have been in love for a long time, but they just don't have the urge to get married, many people obviously feel that two people are not suitable, but they are reluctant to break up, they know that they don't love each other, they know that two people are actually not suitable, but why are they reluctant to let go.

Because the other party is too good to you, responsive, obedient, on-call, the love he gives you, make you feel that you don't need to pay anything, just sit there and enjoy it, this kind of life will make people addicted to it, because we are all hedonistic, we all want the other party to treat us as a baby, and the other party will let us do anything, whether we are vexatious or not, the other party will let us, so let us develop the feeling of not wanting to leave this warm nest.

And you are like this now, you obviously don't love him so much, or you can say that you like him a little bit, but it's because he is too good to you, and you haven't met a person who is so attentive to you and so good to you in this life, so you are reluctant to let go, and you are reluctant to let go because of his kindness to you, and then it seems that you like each other a little bit, so you are reluctant to let go.

I've been enjoying being loved by each other, but I'm not particularly firmly in love with each other, which is why I also enjoy this situation in my heart, and I don't have any decision, so I keep dragging it out.

It's a particularly ambivalent psychology, I enjoy it very much, but I don't love each other very much, I don't know if I should give up!

The other party's heart is to hope that others will love him, but he is unwilling to love this kind of love, and he wants to find other love in his heart, which is such an idea.

Such a person is a vanity who likes to be loved, and is unwilling to pay, once there is a better and more suitable choice for himself, he will immediately give up the person in front of him, so if the other party has such a performance, you should consider it carefully.

I think this is a more selfish psychology, because it is very unfair to the other party, after all, the other party has given so much, and he has never thought of giving.

Those who have always enjoyed being loved, but are not firm in loving each other, may be more greedy, because they are greedy for other people's love for them, but they do not want to contribute love.

The other party is definitely looking for a sense of existence, and once they meet someone more suitable than you, they will definitely leave you behind, so you are a spare tire in his heart.

It's a selfish psychology. You can feel the other person's love for you, but you are not willing to give your emotions.

I think this may be the fear of love, love is love, not love is not love, there is no need to waste and drag a person like this.