My girlfriend always thinks a lot every day and doesn t seem to be firm enough in love, what should

Updated on psychology 2024-07-05
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    My boyfriend and I also met in Speedy! Let me tell you this, the girl's mind is under the sea, and I can't guess it.

    Yes, I myself sometimes don't know what I think, girls, it's just love to think, you don't force too hard, hugging too tightly is bondage, talk to her more, some questions don't have to get to the bottom of it, don't think that you have to know everything about her if you love her, come on, if you feel tired, the girl will be sad to know

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    She's going to break up with you, and she's hesitating, so you need to find a chance to talk about it and see what's wrong? Is it because you don't look good enough to attract him, or is there something wrong with your economy and career? Find the reason, and you can solve it, provided that the process of the conversation is not dead-faced, that is, she said that you should also look at it and be more free and easy, so that at least you will have a chance in the future!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love will eventually return to reality, loneliness makes you depend on each other, and distance will make thoughts give up. Hurry up and fly to her city to accompany her, even if it's a few days, you can't wait any longer!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    A lot of girls are like that, and so am I... But I'm because I care about him too much. Your girlfriend is insecure.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You'll just take some time to see her, and you'll have to see more.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Have you met? Long-distance love never has a small reunion.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Have you ever wondered why she changed? It depends on you blindly saying that she is not, she will never change for no reason, have you analyzed her own reasons? She is a girl, and she leaves her hometown alone for you, and you rely on her outside, but if you hurt her, of course she feels uncomfortable.

    If you want to cherish her, work hard and give her a sense of security, and if you complain about her, divide it as soon as possible.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My boyfriend and I also met in Speedy! Let's tell you this, a girl's mind is a needle, I can't guess it, I myself sometimes don't know what I think, girls, just love to think, you don't force too tight, hugging too tightly is bondage, talk to her more, some questions don't have to get to the bottom of the matter, don't think that you have to know everything about her to love her, come on, if you feel tired, the girl will be sad to know,

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Didn't you say that? That proves that the love for you is not strong enough. It's up to you to strengthen your love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't love enough, but depending on your greatest needs, if you're independent, it's okay if you don't love enough.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you love someone enough, don't love him. If someone doesn't love you enough, find a way to make him love you more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Who is not loving enough, you or him?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Now the most important thing you should think about is to solve the problem of your own housing, to have a house of your own, not too big, at least this is a good thing to make you straighten your back.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's time to divide it early, and you can't force half a point on emotional matters, and you will regret it reluctantly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let go when it's time to let go! Don't make it so bad that you don't even have a man's self-esteem!!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    True love is not to completely possess, but to make the other party happy, and at the same time, to give each other some space for their own interactions, just like you grab a handful of sand, if you grasp it too tightly, it is easy to lose; You just need to know that she loves you, too much suspicion is not good;

    In addition, you said that she is not good enough for you and always likes to be with her friends, which shows two things, one, she still loves you, but because you can't give her the kind of happiness she wants, (i.e., friends are happy to talk together......Or maybe she's just an extrovert and likes to be boisterous;

    Second, it is also possible that she no longer loves you, so she wants to escape, if this is the case (of course, I hope it is better not to) then it is your problem, because the so-called love is just a feeling that occurs on the emotional level, so when the means we use do not touch the woman's "feeling", it cannot touch her heart......

    Because you failed to give her this "feeling", that's why she will leave, (just like if you go to work in a company, for a period of time, the boss doesn't give you a penny of salary, just ask, will you continue to help the boss??) )

    Friend, since you love it, don't let it go easily, cherish it, believe in yourself, you are the best!

    Feel free to communicate with me!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because you love her, you only see her. Relax your mind, and it may be much easier. I'm the same as you, put all my heart on my boyfriend, only to see me pay, but he plays with his business, this is not always the way, I try to put my heart on myself, want to catch the idiom should be familiar with it!

    Some people are like that. The closer you get to him, the more he doesn't care, the farther away you are, the more he clings to you! There are some things I can only say so much!

    Take care of it yourself!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your girlfriend must be a few years younger than you, right? I think you spoil her too much, sometimes you can talk about her, he won't know if you don't say anything, I think it's a normal thing, and it's normal to quarrel in love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is not advisable for a man to focus on his girlfriend, he must have his own career, and then she will look at you differently and attach importance to you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What is love? Love is tolerance, love is understanding, and love is also leaving a certain space for each other. The key for two people to be together is to have a certain distance, not necessarily as if the other party is transparent, and ask for everything to be public, so that they can also have a sense of mystery and enhance their feelings.

    The two are always tired of being together for a long time, so they still need to have friends and new things to enhance each other's feelings even more.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Tell her that falling in love is a matter of two people, and they have to work together. You can let her go as a man, but she can't go too far.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Friends are also very important to girls, right?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Thinking too much, it's really troublesome, just ask clearly...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Why don't you just change your girlfriend?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    24 hours to ask for warmth, what you want to buy. It's actually quite simple. The front is to meet psychological needs, and the back is to meet physical needs. Romance is just a euphemism.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't always say that I love you, that will only show that you are unreliable, and always say that I am with you. What women are most likely to lack is a sense of security. You need to spend more time with her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    My wife often says this about me, and now I'm still married So, you just need to be good to her, and in the end, if you really don't appreciate it, you won't regret it, after all, suitability is the most important thing

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Usually communicate more, such as often calling **, sending messages and greetings, caring about something, you can go out together on holidays.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Watch more romance TV dramas to learn romance and thoughtfulness. What else should I do?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Women just look at some small details, don't you usually pay more attention to it?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It depends on what kind of person your girlfriend is, if it is a princess living in a fairy tale world, then it is generally good for you to surprise her according to what you play on TV. If your girlfriend is a person who is suitable for living a down-to-earth life, you can tell her in action that you love her, and she will be moved: for example, when you are sick, you immediately say:

    I'll take you to buy medicine. On her birthday, I asked for leave to prepare a birthday cake for her, which was delicious. Come to the eldest aunt, don't say drink more hot water, send medicine directly or pick her up home if it's serious, and press his stomach when he goes home if it's not serious, and accompany her.

    Crossing the street will always protect her.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Since your girlfriend says that you are not considerate and romantic enough, then you should adjust in this regard. As a woman, I hope that my boyfriend can accompany us more, and can often take us to some beautiful places to play, such as arranging a trip, soon in October, you can arrange a visit during this National Day. If my answer is helpful to you, please adopt and like, thank you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I don't see anything wrong, just try to be yourself. Because this little will be divided?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Give a surprise and take her to something delicious, and she will definitely be happy.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Take some time to take her out to play, and often prepare some surprises or something.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Buy her more gifts

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