Because I wonder how to break this deadlock with my boyfriend

Updated on educate 2024-07-19
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think you have to trust him, in fact, it doesn't mean anything for him to leave a message in her space, as long as you think he likes you, you will also be because you care about him, En......If you want to break the deadlock, you still have to tie the bell to the bell, you can send him a message to explain your own thoughts to him clearly, let him understand that you are not willful, you just care about him, and remember to trust him more in the future, if he is worthy ......of your love, I wish you good lucko(∩_o...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What she says is her business.

    If you want to stand up for her, it's your fault, between you and her, it doesn't need to be like this at all.

    If you doubt him, ask him, don't let him think that women are so inexplicable. You are you and he is him, in fact, he doesn't know what you think in your heart at all, if you don't say it, maybe it's empty regrets.

    Time will tell what kind of person he is.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Even if you don't stand cold, will you still believe him? Believe in yourself. You can find the right one for you. If you think he's a good man, you mainly messaging and talking to him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think it's because you're thinking too much, and people like us don't feel much about other people, and it's not going to be what you think, or it's just some other reason, talk to him, and see if there's something else.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You're demented, so don't be tired of asking so many questions.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you're the kind of person who has feelings, then I don't know. You can try to communicate, and you can probably feel the attitude of the other party.

    I think of a sentence, quarrel is two people trying to find a way to be together, the cold war is to adapt to life without each other, he takes the cold war against you in disguise and gives you the time and opportunity to reconsider the relationship, calm down and think clearly that you will naturally know what to do, love him and take the initiative to contact him if he can bear everything, and don't complain about anything later, because you are completely to what you want, if you feel unacceptable and understandable, then not delaying each other is the best choice, and there is nothing to regret.

    Generally, ignoring the other party for more than a day is cold violence. And the man knows very well that his cold violence is not good, and he also understands that at this moment, the girl is psychologically sad, he may want to be quiet for a while, and he wants to calm down and think about it. Maybe the starting point of this behavior is not malicious, but there are often men in love who have cold and violent behaviors, and their personality traits are more selfish, once there are twice, once for one hour, three hours, one day, three days, or even ten days.

    The starting point for this pattern of behavior must not be love.

    Girls who are in love for love should pay attention and understand that this is absolute, it must be disrespectful to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can break up with such a boyfriend, because the cold war is the most undesirable way to deal with it, and there is such a behavior as the cold war, which means that the boyfriend does not particularly value you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should also have a cold war with your boyfriend and let him feel how you used to feel, if he doesn't mind. I believe that your relationship has come to an end, and the two of you can break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, your boyfriend is primarily responsible for this matter. He as a man needs to take on this responsibility and obligation to be good to you. When the Cold War broke out, he should take the initiative to solve this problem.

    But it also depends on what is the reason for the emergence of the Cold War, is it your problem? If you're also at fault. You need to take the initiative to apologize and make amends. After all, both sides need to be understood and tolerated.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When your boyfriend is in a cold war with you, you decide to show your 100% enthusiasm. When a particularly cold person sees this kind of enthusiasm, he will instantly be unable to hold back. So. As long as you don't continue the cold war with him, the relationship between the two will be the same as before.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When a boy often has a cold war with you, then you play a scoundrel with him, and if he doesn't talk to you, you will bombard him indiscriminately, until he reluctantly replies to you, only one party lowers his head first and talks to the other party, so this feeling will not disappear from the cold war, so sometimes girls can take out their level of playing scoundrels to deal with his cold war.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can communicate well with your boyfriend, don't let your boyfriend often cold war with you, because when the two of you are cold, you will also destroy your relationship, so have a good communication with your boyfriend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think when two people have a conflict, the best way to solve the problem is for two people to sit together and talk about their thoughts, it shouldn't happen for a long time, this kind of cold war can't solve the problem with this method, so you have to make changes and ask the other party to change.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your boyfriend often has a cold war with you, so you should take the initiative to find your boyfriend to solve the problem, because if you are cold, it will lead to a breakup, so you must become the one who takes the initiative to communicate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your boyfriend often has a cold war with you, which means that he is not mature enough in this relationship, and he will only be willful, and I think if he continues like this, it will be very tiring to fall in love with him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you encounter such a thing, you can discuss it with your boyfriend, because the cold war in a relationship can easily break people's feelings. If two people encounter a problem, it should be solved in time to avoid the situation of the Cold War.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your boyfriend often has a cold war with you, then you respond to his cold war in the way you play a scoundrel, doesn't he not talk to you? Then you just bombard him and talk to him, and I think he will definitely get back to you, and you will get a great sense of comfort in your heart, and you will feel very happy and relieved.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Adopt the way that the enemy does not move and I do not move, don't feel anxious, whoever is in a hurry first will lose? And you should think clearly, if you continue to get along with him, then it will be like this after marriage, and it will be like this after having children, and how painful you will be at that time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When he is in a cold war with you, you should not ignore him, let him realize his mistakes, and take the initiative to talk to you, so that he may change his behavior.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course, it is to make your thoughts clear to the other party, and the Cold War is actually a very hurtful thing, so you can clearly tell the other party whether you don't want to go through it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In such a situation, you can discuss it with your boyfriend, and when the two parties quarrel, you should take the initiative to apologize and try not to have a cold war.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This kind of boyfriend who is violent in Salam at every turn? Do you still keep him for the New Year? Break up early, because guys who really love you won't treat you like this!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The best way to break the Cold War is to take the initiative to talk to the other side, no matter whose fault it is, you must make it clear that you can't have a Cold War.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Take the initiative, change the way you communicate with each other, and choose to take the initiative to attack, you can choose some "soft underbelly" as a breakthrough point. Talk about your own problems first, and then communicate with the other party about their problems.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He took the initiative to say something to ease his emotions, and once he started talking, I would also find a step down, which was better for the two of us.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I will take the initiative to apologize to the other party, and also tell the other party something that I did not do well, what makes me angry, so that the other party will correct it next time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The reason why the two people were able to have a cold war was mainly because there were some contradictions and problems, and there was no way to solve them, and the other side was particularly stubborn and insisted on their own opinions, and finally a cold war broke out.

    Under normal circumstances, one party bows its head, retreats, admits its mistakes, and then coaxes the other party more, and the other party will get off the donkey.

    But the premise is that the relationship between the two people is particularly good. I know your stubbornness, and you know my affection and sincerity.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After my boyfriend and I had a cold war, it was usually my boyfriend who broke the cold war, so I found a good boyfriend, he liked me very much and loved me very much, after every cold war, he would take the initiative to apologize to me, buy me delicious food, and then I slowly forgave him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Lovers quarrel with each other, and quarrel with sadness !!The words of the cold war are even more terrifying, because the cold war is more likely to hurt feelings, so you must not have a cold war, it should be said that it is easy to find a topic between lovers, it is better to find a few good friends to come to the house for dinner, so that you have to go grocery shopping, or something, you will always have to talk, friends are also going to talk, so it is estimated that one day will be fine.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The most effective way to break the cold war after the cold war with your boyfriend is for two people to talk calmly and on their knees, reveal their true thoughts and thoughts in each other's hearts, and give each other a certain amount of care and tolerance.

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