I am always suspicious, suffering from gains and losses, and I am in love

For many of us, we all want to go through a stage of love, because often this stage is very sweet, and can bring us some satisfaction, but also let us get through a lot of difficulties, it can be said that it is because of these advantages, many of us yearn for such things as falling in love, but we also have to know that love is not always as good as we think, many times he will have some shortcomings and problems, some people will be insecure in love, So what should be done?

First, what is the reason for this?

We all know that there must be a potential factor that causes such a phenomenon, if there is no reason, you will not have such a psychology, then we need to find such a reason, only after finding such a reason, we can have a better solution to it.

Second, trust your object.

We all know that in fact, the sense of security is often given to you by the other party, so this requires us to choose to trust the other party to a certain extent, and not to have some doubts about the other party. This can also help you have a better sense of security.

Third, improve your ability.

If we have a better ability, no matter what kind of situation we are in, we can actually have a better sense of security, because this is a guarantee we give to ourselves, so we can know that many times we should not give up on improving ourselves, we should better improve our ability.

Based on the above, we should be able to know that the solution to such a problem is actually the above three stages. Only by doing the above three stages seriously can we make our love life more stable and make the relationship more durable.

Sometimes the sense of security is given to you by yourself, and the more you think about it, the more annoying it becomes, unless the other party often does things that make you insecure, if both parties are truly in love, mutual trust is the greatest help to your relationship.

Explain that when you were a child, your family scolded you all day long or some things made you lose confidence in yourself, you can choose to live every day, and the day with the other party is good to treat yourself as the last day with the other party (but don't let the other party know), over time I believe that you will slowly regain your sense of security.

The insecurity in this love is that you are too stressed in your heart, and you are a boy, so this sense of security is achieved by yourself, as long as you make yourself excellent, then your girlfriend will die with you. Therefore, this sense of security is achieved by two people, and you just have to work hard. If you work hard, you will become better.

Be more successful so that you have a sense of excellence in your heart. The sense of security is high.

That's if you don't keep up with the other party's footsteps, you must have self-confidence, study hard to improve yourself, and only when you become stronger, you won't suffer from gains and losses!

If falling in love is so hard, it means that this person has a problem with his personality and may not love you enough, the sixth sense of the general woman is very accurate, and whether a person is sincere or not can be judged, so since you have these thoughts and feelings, for your own happiness, it is best not to be together. If you look for your true happiness, you say?

I think that being insecure in love is not someone else's fault, but my own fault, and only people who are not good enough will be insecure. I don't have confidence in what I do.

You have to adjust your mentality and don't put all your energy into love, after all, there are so many things waiting for you to do besides love! At the very least, there must be the capital of love! So work hard! I don't think about it so much when I'm busy.

Having this feeling shows that the foundation of your relationship does not depend on the trust of the other person for life. You can communicate more, try to communicate with each other attentively, and see how ...... situation

When we feel a source of security.

When you're in need, a diversion is a great way to do that. It means being truly wholehearted.

Accept the love and admiration that your partner gives us, but instead of asking your partner to affirm to us again and again that "we are not bad", this requirement is a burden on our partner, and it is also a burden for us to keep ourselves away from our own hearts.

The sense of security is given by oneself, and you should love yourself well before loving others, and only when you are good enough, everything will go better.