Now there is a fear of blind dates, why are many people afraid of blind dates now?

You don't have to choose, go home and let your parents introduce you, which one is which, and you can live a good life in the future.

Blind date is indeed a headache, my advice is that you don't stay at home, maybe fate will appear when you go out for a walk.

Hehe, I'm the same as you, you can go to this ** to have a look and relax your body and mind.

Hey, 23 is always on a blind date, your family is really anxious, just let them choose one... I'm crazy when I see a blind date now!!

Do you think it's that simple to fall in love at school? It's easy to come together with classmates in that delicate and harmonious relationship.

Out of society is completely different. Much more to consider.

Blind dates are just a platform for men and women who don't have a wide social circle. Matchmaking. Let the two strangers get to know each other.

Be able to clearly understand the other party's family background.

Starting from strangeness can also end from strangeness, eliminating the preludes and misunderstandings of free love.

Blind date doesn't mean arranging for two people to meet to get married.

Of course, it depends on the fate of the two people.

If the two like each other more when they meet for the first time, then develop deeply. With a relationship in marriage ...

Why isn't it reliable?

Those who are married %90 are classmates or co-workers.

Most of the 80 are introduced by friends and introduced to each other. 》

Serious in a street with a stranger mm fairy and married people. Seldom. Seldom. Of course there are.

So much so at such a young age, you can tell your parents that you are still young, that boys are ambitious, and that you should focus on your career now.

I still think I'm looking for it better.

You feel that you suffer from a phobia of blind dates, mainly because blind dates are always rejected, blind dates always do not meet your requirements, and you are bored with blind dates.

First of all, the blind date has been rejected many times, you have lost confidence in the blind date, and you also feel that the blind date is too disgraceful and shameless. Blind dates are a good thing, you can easily meet more people, and maybe you can find the person you like. But blind dates are also a relatively low success rate, and many people have experienced many blind dates that have failed, and even there is no drama when they meet.

Some people are rejected because they are not handsome enough, some boys are rejected because they are not good enough to have a house, and some people are rejected because they do not work in the system or the income is not high enough. Always being rejected, you are always worried that your blind date will be rejected again, and you are a little afraid of blind dates. And I am always on a blind date, after all, I still want to save face, and I don't want to lose my dignity again.

Secondly, the blind date partner always does not meet his own requirements, and he no longer has hope for the blind date. Although specific mate selection requirements are also put forward when going on a blind date, when you really meet on a blind date, you will always find that the other party is not the type you like, either you can't accept it because you look too ugly, or the other party has no interest in chatting and has a worrying emotional intelligence, or the other party's family background is average, and you are worried that you will not be rich enough after marriage, and you don't want to risk yourself to live a hard life. Especially the older leftover men and women, from the beginning, they had expectations for blind dates, and they have seen too many people who disappointed them, and they no longer have hope for blind dates.

In addition, as the number of blind dates increases, I have been rejected by my blind date partner more often, and I don't want to get married anymore. It may be that I have been single for a long time, and I think it is quite good to live alone, and I have to dress up all kinds of blind dates, but I am still bored with myself, and I have put in a lot of effort, and in the end I am either rejected in seconds, or I have received a good person card for no reason, and I will inevitably get bored with blind dates.

Maybe it's because of your fear of marriage. At present, there are many young people who are actually afraid of getting married, because there will be many problems after marriage, so they would rather be single with high quality.

It is very likely that the subject does not want to go on a blind date or does not want to fall in love at this stage, so he has a resistance to the blind date, or because the subject is introverted and unwilling to contact the strange opposite sex, I think you can discuss it with your family first, if you really don't want to, you can pause for a while, and wait until there is no longer resistance to the blind date.

Mainly because I often go on blind dates, and I don't meet a person who makes my heart move, I always meet people who make me very disgusted, and because I don't want to get married, and I don't want to deal with someone, so I feel very disgusted and very annoying.

It may be because I have gone on blind dates too many times, I have pressure in my heart, and I am psychologically rejected, or it may be that I left a shadow in my heart when I went on a blind date.

What if you're talking about a fear of blind dates? In fact, the first time you meet, or you meet your girlfriend less, so you will be afraid, and even your heart will beat faster when you see it, I think this situation is normal, because you have never been in contact with the opposite sex, so this situation will occur, when it takes a long time, after a period of time to get used to it, this situation will not occur.

Thinking too much.

What was supposed to be a beautiful thing has become a burden.

You don't have to go on a blind date first.,Find a partner.。

Live well, drift because you have ideas, and you can realize your ideals first. Work hard, work hard to make money, and plan your life.

Feel the people around you seriously, cherish every encounter, and believe that your love will appear by your side. Your hard work, as well as your confident attitude towards life, will move a certain girl.

Long-distance relationships are not supported. Love is around, real, and warm. Let's start with making friends. Same-sex (genuine friends let them introduce or keep an eye out for you) or the opposite sex.

I once saw a saying: If a woman misses the man she wants to marry the most, she will become very picky because she feels that no one is as good as him. If a man misses the woman he wants to marry the most, he will become very casual because it is not her anyway.

In fact, I have to say that many young people are very resistant to blind dates with others, but also because young people have their own circle of friends and social circles, so this is because there is indeed a lot of discomfort when meeting strangers, and most young people have social phobia, so they naturally will not choose to meet and chat with strangers to avoid unnecessary embarrassment, and they will be very reluctant in their hearts.

1. For most young people, there is really no common topic when chatting with strangers, so it is inevitable that there will be great embarrassment and misunderstanding, so this is because of such a fear of blind dates with strangers.

2. I have to say that most young people emphasize personality more, and they are also relatively fixed in terms of circle of friends and social circles.

3. Many young people do have social phobia, so it is precisely because of this that it is awkward to contact strangers, and it is really uncomfortable to talk about emotional problems.

Because of pressure and moral kidnapping, there are many parents who arrange blind dates, holding the heart of becoming benevolent if they don't succeed, and if the parties put forward opinions, they will be attacked by the group, and the parents' rubber hand aesthetic standards are somewhat different from the parties, resulting in many people willing to go on a blind date.

Maybe many girls are afraid of blind dates, boys may not be afraid of blind dates at all, if a girl goes on a blind date, in fact, she is afraid of seeing someone she doesn't like, or being pestered by others, so she may also feel bad about this aspect.