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Getting along in marriage is never a single fight, but the joint efforts and efforts of both parties, and the failure of marriages, most of them are not managed well, sometimes excessive love will also lead to the breakdown of the marriage, the lover is good for seven points, you must know how to leave three points for yourself.
Women in marriage must understand that everything must have a degree, and they can pay without asking for anything in return, but they don't always pay stupidly, they only know how to do stupid things that move them, and they must understand that the easier it is to get, the less it is often cherished to the end.
Giving without expecting anything in return.
When a woman gets married, she is always in a passive state, working outside the home, paying labor, and longing for recognition, and in the family, all the efforts are taken for granted, as if she was born to do so, but you must be clear in your heart, there is a balance between feelings, hard work and resentment can not be cherished by the other half, the premise of paying everything for the family is that someone can be willing to accompany you to bear, and you have shoulders to rely on when you are tired, rather than relying on you to support the family alone.
Permissive tolerance.
Tolerance is a virtue, but it can't become a habit, otherwise it's easy to be bullied, and in the relationship, you need to be tolerant, but not excessive, indulgent tolerance will lose its original meaning, and will only hurt yourself worse, getting along is not blindly tolerant, love you are naturally willing to change for you, instead of taking your accommodation as a reckless capital, in the end, the change you desire to get after tolerance will only become far away.
Easy forgiveness.
In the relationship, the most hurt is always the one who loves the most, because he cares in his heart, he has him in his heart, so what he does can be forgiven, in the face of unbearable injury, he does not know how to resist, but he will choose to deceive himself, looking forward to the other party will change next time, don't be stupid, easy forgiveness in exchange for deception again and again, it is not worth breaking your heart for someone who does not love you, people need to have their own bottom line in their hearts, only by keeping the principle, will not be passive, will not fall into blind love.
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is overly indulgent to her husband, allowing the other party to spend time outside every day, and even when he is ambiguous with other women, he easily forgives his husband.
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Do something that feels especially good for guys. I've been in charge of boys. Because for a woman, she feels good to him by controlling him, but for men, it just makes her feel unfree.
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Day after day, year after year, to be a virtuous wife, hard work, in fact, this is not good, after a long time, you have been silent, he will think that this is what you should do.
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There is such a classic line in the TV series "One Servant and Two Masters": "Marriage is a woman's second reincarnation, if she casts well, she will be a happy woman for the rest of her life." "We can't say that a marriage can determine a woman's life status, but an unhappy marriage will definitely bring deep harm to a woman.
For women, the best thing is to meet the right man and find a man who understands and loves herself. So what should a woman do if she wants to keep her marriage happy? In fact, as long as women insist on doing the following four things, they are not afraid that the marriage will be unhappy, have you done it?
<> regard each other's parents as their own relatives, for marriage, it is not like falling in love many times is a world of two people, it is the union of two families, for many women, the most headache is to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In fact, people's hearts are flesh and blood, treat elders if a woman can treat each other's parents as her own parents, then your heart will be heart-to-heart, your mother-in-law will also treat you well, and at the same time there will be a positive chain reaction, that is, men will love you more, the reason is because of the woman's dedication, give him a harmonious family atmosphere, he has no reason not to hold you in the palm of his hand.
Knowing the truth of being diligent and thrifty in housework, some women still regard themselves as little girls who have not grown up after they get married, and they still want to rely on their parents when they can't handle things, and housework has always been anxious. Such a woman often can't feel the happiness of love, because she basically can't handle the trivial things in marriage, which will inevitably attract the disgust of her husband and the complaint of her mother-in-law. Therefore, women must know how to take care of housework, when you put your home in order, your family must praise you, and it is difficult for you to be unhappy in your marriage.
At all times, women must understand this truth.
Insist on studying more in order to enrich your soulZhang Ailing said: "If you read more books, your face will naturally change." This sentence is a wise saying for both men and women, because there is poetry and books in the belly, when a person reads too many books, her temperament will quietly change.
And women who are happily married will not give up on improving their minds and enriching their inner thoughts even if they enter the stage of marriage, so as long as they have time to study more, even if it is to learn how to make a delicious dish, even if it is how to fold a dress quickly. This charm that emanates from the depths of his heart is something that no man can refuse. Because the fun of the soul is far more lasting than the appearance.
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One is to eat a healthy diet; the second is to have their own interests and hobbies; the third is to have love for the family; Fourth, it is easy to satisfy; Fifth, we are always enriching ourselves and making a little progress every day. I've done it all.
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First of all, maintain financial and spiritual independence and have your own circle of life. Secondly, you must be coquettish and praise your husband and children.
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Women in married life, they will do these things well in their daily life, first of all, they insist on their hobbies, regard each other's parents as their relatives, know how to be diligent and thrifty, take care of housework, insist on studying more, enrich their psychology, and maintain a good figure.
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They insist on having their own independent work and hobbies, insist on living every day confidently and cheerfully, and insist on being gentle, virtuous, considerate and kind in front of each other; I've done all of that.
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Doing these three things well can make life happier, insist on reading and learning, improve your own quality and upbringing, treat each other's relatives as your own relatives, learn to pay attention to maintenance, and improve your temperament; I'm learning to do this, and I'm going to work harder in the future.
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In married life, every woman longs for her husband's care and consideration. Sometimes, small gestures can make a woman feel very touched and happy. Today, I want to share that my husband, after we got married, did those things that moved me very much.
When we were not married, I once said to my husband: "If we get married one day in the future, I want to have a simple wedding, without too much extravagance and waste". However, my husband disagreed with me, insisting that we should have a grand wedding to lay a good foundation for our relationship and family.
In the end, we had a big and grand wedding that became one of the most important moments of our lives.
When we started living together, I found that my husband was very focused on housework. He would help me clean the house, cook, do the laundry, pack the belongings, etc. Once, I had a cold, and he took care of me all day and never left me.
It touched me very much and made me love him even more.
In addition, my husband often prepares surprises for me. Once, when he came home from work, he brought a new pendant with him, saying that he saw this pendant and thought it was very suitable for me, so he bought it back and gave it to me. Once, he suddenly took me to a concert, and that night we enjoyed ** together and snuggled up to each other for a good night.
And the most touching time for me was three years after we got married, I had a serious illness in the store. When I was lying in the hospital and in pain, my husband was always by my side, giving me encouragement and support. Not only does he take care of me, but he also takes care of our children and keeps the family running.
At that moment, I deeply realized what family is and what love is. My husband's unwavering love made me feel warmth and strength.
Finally, I would like to say that in the days after we got married, my husband never forgot and gave up on his dreams. He has been pursuing his career and is slowly doing better and better. His hard work and struggle make me feel very proud and proud.
Because of such an excellent husband, my life has become more fulfilling and beautiful.
In the days since we got married, my husband has done many things that have touched me. His care, thoughtfulness and love made me feel endless warmth and happiness. I believe that in the days to come, we will continue to move forward hand in hand and create a better future together.
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Women will become very virtuous, gentle, kind, tolerant, considerate, careful, and good at taking care of people in marriage. In marriage, a woman will dress herself up beautifully, and then she will keep the house very clean. I feel that a woman in marriage will become a good wife and mother, because when a woman is married, she will take care of all the things in the house.
Women in marriage generally become very gentle, especially virtuous, special will take care of others, and will especially do housework. A woman in a marriage will change herself for the sake of her husband, will cook, will do some housework, will take care of the children, and will be filial to her in-laws. In marriage, a woman will change herself for her husband, she will cook, do some housework, take care of her children, and be filial to her in-laws.
She is most afraid that men will lie to them, most afraid that her husband will spend money on her parents behind her back, and she is most afraid that they will go out early and return late, because there is such a thing, which shows that the relationship between husband and wife has been damaged, and both parties no longer trust each other, and sooner or later they will divorce, so girls must pay attention to these aspects in the marriage relationship.
I think so, because honest men can absolutely be strict with themselves in life, and I think this is the best for women.
It will lead to a deterioration in the relationship between husband and wife, and at the same time, it will also lead to such an emotional imbalance, and even if the woman is not satisfied with everything that the other party gives her, there will be a lot of misunderstandings and contradictions.
Marriage is not as free as falling in love, and there is no freedom before marriage, marriage is more like a siege, locking the two in a small world, the quality of the relationship is all up to their own decision, whether it is joy or sorrow, both people need to work together, only one party works hard The relationship is unstable, but if it is not getting along properly, love loses the initial sweetness, then the marriage relationship is "in name only", and if there are these three things in life, then the two will either part ways or live in the end. >>>More
I think that a really smart woman will not disrespect each other's feelings in a relationship, and she will not quarrel with each other often, and she will not often complain and dislike each other, and she will not often distrust each other, be suspicious of each other, feel that the other party does not love her, and she will not be too possessive and controlling of the other party.