Have you ever seen ruthless parents? What should I do if I encounter a ruthless parent?

There are ruthless mothers everywhere, there are obstetrics and gynecology hospitals, how many children are killed every year, they don't want to have life,

When I was a child, I ate meat and let me eat fat, and the thin ones were left for my younger brother, and I couldn't see new clothes for a year, all of which were given by people from the village who were older than me.

After the divorce, I lived in the basement and wanted to get my money back as a down payment to buy a house, and the first thing my mother said was, no.

My dad, my brother asked him for money is hundreds of thousands, never gave me pocket money, asked him for money, and scolded me, when I was in high school, he told me, you want to make money to build a house for your brother in the future, after you came out to work, you kept asking me for money, saying that you want to return to the family, hehe, I didn't buy me new clothes in school, and I didn't have pocket money, they were all my sister's old clothes, my uncle gave me money, and once even the tuition was delayed for a whole semester, I just want to know what you paid?

In order to get money to buy a house for her son, a family in my aunt's village asked her daughter to marry a fool in the same village.

When I was a child, I did something wrong, and I was beaten at every turn, and once I came back late from playing, I was tied to a tree and beaten, and I was often injured on my body, and I still hate going home.

A man in the same village who didn't learn and didn't know how to take the child out and sell it as soon as his wife gave birth to the child, I was really shocked to hear it at the time, I didn't expect there to be such ruthless parents.

My parents divorced, and neither of them wanted me, for fear that I would be a burden, so they left me to my grandmother and didn't come to see me, wondering if I was their child.

I heard from my mother, my distant cousin's family wanted a boy, and my cousin-in-law gave birth to a girl, so they threw away the girl, and the two of them were the most ruthless parents I have ever seen.

Because of sinusitis, I went to the hospital with my father, and the doctor asked me to be admitted to the hospital for surgery as soon as possible on the same day. After talking to the doctor, I called my mother, who was at work, and was going to tell her about the situation. The first thing she asked was not what my condition was, but asked me not to be admitted to the hospital first, and to go to the village committee to ask if I could be reimbursed for the second time before being admitted to the hospital.

To be honest, my heart is really cold.

There shouldn't be such ruthless parents around me, I just want to say that they are all your parents if they are ruthless or not. Some parents may be more strict with themselves, and some parents may be more lenient with their children, and each parent has different education methods and methods for each parent. If your parents didn't spoil you that much, don't blame them, it's just that it might be different.

I think even if his parents are really ruthless, then they shouldn't hate his parents, that's not right. It's a great thing that they gave birth to your boyfriend. So we have no reason to blame them for treating us badly, and we don't have the right to do that.

Of course, if his parents are really ruthless, you can choose not to interact with them often. But that doesn't mean you don't go back and forth. They are short of money for them, and they give them whatever they want.

Meet their requirements and meet them. In this way, we take care of our parents, and we do our part to do what we can and do. I think that's good.

Express anger at your cruel parents and temporarily isolate yourself from your parents.

When you can't forgive your parents, then don't forgive. Expressing anger at a ruthless parent is the beginning of self-awakening and the path of self-healing. There are many parents who kidnap their children in the name of "you have to be filial and don't rebel against your parents", and once the children accept and agree to this kidnapping, they will continue to live in neglect and control, like a puppet, and slowly lose themselves.

If we have been hurt in the family, isn't the first step we need to do is to stop the hurt from continuing?

Moving away from our family of origin and temporarily isolating from our parents, we need to start learning to heal ourselves. We are born to be attached to our parents, and the baby's attachment to his parents is natural, and his heart is completely open to his parents, but some ruthless parents will live up to this attachment. In the face of this kind of disappointment, a person is bound to develop angry emotions.

It's just that some people suppress it, and some people shun this anger. Unappreciated and untreated anger can accumulate until it pushes the person into the abyss of depression.

Therefore, to face your true emotions, to accept and express these angers, whether it is direct conversations, to talk to someone you trust, or to seek professional help, dealing with anger is the beginning of the road to self-redemption. After these negative emotions have been dealt with, we can move on to the next stage: mourning.

We will mourn how we were born into such a family of origin, how we could have such ignorant, selfish and cruel parents. We will mourn for our lost childhood and youth, for the injustices and grievances we have suffered, and for the decades of life that we cannot do again. We will praise the child in our hearts, "You are doing a good job, child".

When we truly accept the reality and feel that "the past is gone", we truly accept our past.

People often say, tiger poison does not eat children, is it really like what you said, always lie to him, is it to lie to him, how to deceive, if people are in trouble, it is always their own father, help if you can!

Parents don't have a choice, and it's a fact. So when people grow up, they can try to go through one:

No one recognizes, no one supports, no one appreciates, and there are no good parents to live a good life.

What should I do if I encounter a ruthless parent? Answer: We must know it with reason and move it with emotion.

No, there are generally, and they are not biological, or the parents are sick.

The key depends on what kind of person your boyfriend is, and I hope not to pass on bad things.

People will change, hatred will always be entangled, but tolerance will make both sides open-minded; I wish your boyfriend to do what he has to do and then influence them. As far as the grace of nurturing alone is concerned, we have a lot to repay, calm down, and wish you success

If I think about it, I'll do to you what you do to me. It's as simple as that.

Hello, your parents love you, and you pity the hearts of parents all over the world. "Solved", "My lovely sweet potato");

May your boyfriend be treated gently by this world.

It's not a small boss.

Why hate your parents.

Maybe it's because your parents are busy, so I despise you when you say this.

When you meet ruthless parents, you have to learn to be independent, don't always think about relying on them, because everyone will go, you know that your parents are ruthless, so you have to rely on yourself for everything, don't expect them to pay for you, otherwise you will be very disappointed.

If you meet ruthless parents, you need to improve your skills so that you can become independent as soon as possible, and you can be separated from your family and parents.

When you meet ruthless parents, you should make yourself independent even more early, both financially and mentally.

You need to be strong yourself, since your parents can't give you enough love, then you should let yourself mature as soon as possible, and when you have enough ability, you won't rely on your parents anymore.

If you want to open a little, your parents will never be able to change, what can change is yourself, you have to maintain an optimistic attitude, work harder, strive to be independent as soon as possible, and you can live on your own.

When encountering ruthless parents, you can only rely on yourself, learn to make yourself independent, and no longer have unrealistic expectations of them.

It is necessary to recognize the reality clearly, understand that parents are no longer reliable, and they have to do everything by themselves, so that they can slowly become strong until they can protect themselves.

Become independent as soon as possible, after all, you can't rely on your parents for a lifetime, only when you are independent and strong can you protect yourself.

Accept it silently and enlighten yourself, after all, parents can't choose by themselves, and your relationship will not change in this life.

You should stay away from such parents, don't let them hurt you, live independently and take care of yourself.

When I see something like abandoning a child, I will feel extremely hated from my heart, watching innocent children sob, we will disgust and even curse the vicious parents, why abandon their own flesh and blood, and often those parents will take the following 3 points as the reason for their actions, and they swear by it.

1. Because the husband and wife are not compatible, they choose to abandon it.

In their hearts, the children raised by the two have become a burden in this one, and there is no love for the child, only hatred remains. So they would rather choose to abandon it, and some will even pin their hatred on their children, speak ill of them, and even punch and kick them.

2. Because of the child's defects, they choose to abandon.

The most abandoned are newborn babies, who are often cruelly abandoned to their parents because of congenital defects, and often these vicious parents will leave notes about their misfortunes, inability to raise, and physically defective children. To put it simply, they have no responsibility to be parents, and if they do, they will never be willing to throw their children in a corner where no one pays attention.

3. Because of cowardice, they choose to abandon.

Many abandoned children have parents who believe that their financial means are limited and they cannot afford to raise their children. thinks that he is a ruler who has nothing to do, he doesn't want this child at all, he doesn't want to add an extra "burden", and he is even reluctant to spend money on an abortion, just waiting for the child to fall to the ground, and cruelly abandon it. They are so cowardly that they dare not try to raise their children to grow up, they dare not try to face their children, and they will only silently ask for their children to be adopted by well-wishers.

Conclusion: There is no reason for parents to ruthlessly abandon their children, people who can do this kind of thing, but parents, only hope that those children can have the best home, not to be launched in the cold wind, I only hope that there are more good people, can stand up to help these poor children, I only hope that there is no dark side of society, all children can grow up happily, no disease and no disaster!

1. Because of the discord between the husband and wife, on a trip to the beach with the child, the husband drove on the beach, regardless of the safety hazards, and the wife quarreled with the wife, and the wife snatched the steering wheel, and the family of three rushed into the sea, and finally the whereabouts are unknown.

2, the surveillance filmed the biological father abandoned the baby in the trash can, and the nearby aunt came to the trash can and found that the bag was a newborn with no clothes on, and the baby's parents were arrested for abandonment.

3. Some parents are under pressure at work and choose to commit suicide by jumping off a building, thinking that their young children have no one to take care of, so they commit suicide with their children in their arms.

4. The parents abandoned the newborn baby boy in a dry ditch, and it was found that he had a high fever and died.

There are two kinds of ruthlessness. One is for the future of the child. Let him suffer a little more.

In the future, there will be fewer detours. Less heel falls. There is also domestic violence.

It's very bad for children. Leave a shadow on your child's future. When you go to society, you will not be confident.

Twisted personality. Rebel.

In terms of derogatory ruthlessness:

Regardless of it, the child is given to someone else to raise.

Alcoholic and drug addiction, lazy, selfish, and insatiable.

Of course, sometimes the "ruthlessness" of parents is not the real "ruthlessness" above

Some are ruthless because they hate iron but not steel.

Some ruthlessness is to teach you to be independent and cultivate you.

Some of the cruelty makes you feel unacceptable.

But you don't know how much pain they "put down" to themselves.

However, hardy flowers cannot be cultivated in greenhouses.

Parents who are really good for their children will definitely be ruthless and "the love of parents for their children will be far-reaching".

When we become parents, we understand the love and kindness of our parents.

Not paying attention to your business, all the things you want to do are blocking you.

1.I can't see the good side of my child, and I think that everything my child does is bad and bad. Some parents think that as long as the child does something wrong, it will be their own child who does something similar to this kind of wrong thing in the future, and does not listen to any explanation from the child, if you are wrong, you are wrong, and do not give you any chance to justify, and no matter whether you do it right or not, as long as you are a little wrong, blame you.

2.I can't see the child's unhappiness and do what I want. Some parents will do everything according to what extracurricular subjects and entertainment activities their children should learn, and they will not listen to their children's wishes, thinking that their children's wishes are not good and are not conducive to their children's development.

3.Squeeze children, some parents will not stop squeezing their children, to buy supplements by themselves, or to obey the instigation of **, they have to let their children buy some unreliable things for themselves, and if they don't buy them, they will say that their children are not filial, scold their children, and even beat their children.

It's to beat his own son. He felt that his son did not listen to him, so he punished him with a whip and drove him out of the house.

The most ruthless parents are their own children who have committed crimes, they do not cover him, and they take the initiative to report the crime and let the children turn themselves in. "Tiger poison does not eat children", this parent is too ruthless.