What if you have family concerns in a relationship? What to do?

Why do you think these things are so simple?

Sometimes, love is something we can't choose in front of family affection, and it is not a ...... that two people can solve it by working together

I once gave up on a relationship because of my family's opinions, and I still can't let go of it. ......I've tried, but my family and loved ones really can't choose. So, if you really love her, let her go.

Because in this love, no matter how she chooses or how she deals with it, she is the most painful ......

Since she said so, you can let her be.

Because she has already made a decision.

If your relationship is solid, she won't be influenced by her family.

If it were me, I wouldn't care because she has her own problems, and girls generally don't want their families to worry too much Wait, she'll come to you then

She's decided, don't force her.

Can you be clear?

Happiness is in your own hands, can you give her happiness? If you can, keep working hard and believe that you can be together, because parents want their children to be happy 、、、

Then let's separate, most of the girls are still very family-oriented, this can't be helped

In love, I am two people, and I have a coffee affair. . .

Speak straight: There are a lot of same-sex people now, although I am not the same sex, but I personally think that there is no difference with heterosexuals, just different genders, but in terms of love, whether it is the opposite sex or the same sex, both the opposite sex and the same sex have the right to love and be loved, love if you want, you don't need to have any worries, how many couples are there in our school, and there is nothing when they walk together, LZ can watch (love if you want to love) movie when you have time, it's very touching.

You might as well talk to your peers first to see if you can solve it, if not, when you say it to your family, choose an appropriate time, talk to your closer family members, and then say it one by one, let your family help you analyze, no matter what your family says is right or not, don't blame them, because they are for your good, change it, and crown it if you don't!

Say yes to your best friend, don't be bored alone, this will not only not solve the problem, but will also annoy you.

It's simple, if you can bear it yourself or handle it properly, you don't have to tell your family. Suppose you encounter a difficulty that you can't solve yourself, you have to communicate with your family and find a way to solve it.

Family is your closest person.

There is no unpassable cut in life.

Spending the night at night, what does it mean, let's talk about it, such a person doesn't understand your difficulties, but says something like a threat, you can explain, but since my parents don't agree, then I don't think I can agree Follow-up question: About this overnight, the other party once proposed to me, I refused because my parents did not agree, and over time the other party couldn't stand it, I understood what the other party meant, and now the threat is to let me compromise, I just don't understand, he knows that my parents don't agree, but why did he force me again. Seriously, I want to break up, I feel like I can't stand it, and I feel like it's hard to talk to someone like me.

I don't know if the other party really loves me, why can't I think about it for the other party, I have never felt sorry for the other party Answer: I'm also a girl, I can only say that if it were me, I would divide it, because my boyfriend only cares about his own feelings, but he doesn't understand his own difficulties, get along like this, ask won't be just like this, girls actually have to protect themselves, I think your parents can't spend the night outside or something, it's really for your good, you are a good girl. I hope you can be happy.

Some people say I'm corny, because I'm very conservative in some way. Your boyfriend asks you to spend the night with him, no matter what, it's not safe for a girl. Not to mention that after a year of falling in love, after a few years of talking, you may break up, and girls must not compromise in some aspects.

It's normal for parents to have concerns, and it's not safe for you. I'm not afraid of being called hypocritical, a woman's heart is more important to me. According to you, "if you don't spend the night with him, he'll think it's no fun to go on like this."

All I can say is that he may love you, but he loves your body more than he loves you as a person. I am an unwavering supporter of your parents in this regard. Really, girls are at a disadvantage in this regard, and they must be cautious.

Follow-up question: I'm just here to hear what everyone means, they all say that girls are in love and their IQ is zero. That's true, I'm confused, I don't know what to do.

Know how to say "no". Blindly giving in will only put you in a weak position in love. Of course, love can only last if you tolerate each other.

But it does not include the difficulty of strongmen . Parents' views may be relatively conservative and old-fashioned, but they all say that "there is an old family and there is a treasure", and it is necessary to know how to listen to the correct views and absorb them. He, who is with you because of your "looks", or your "heart", many times I have to say, a simple temptation can be known.

Hukou Bai ID card Marriage is not child's play, although the elders are prejudiced, but after all, they are people who come to the dao Maybe they are afraid that you will make you suffer if you live with each other, but if you have confidence and views on life, use your practical actions to tell your family that your other half is OK It is worth combining Living together is not as romantic as falling in love There will be a lot of hardships and difficulties Of course, sweetness is always there Believe in each other, understand and understand each other, so that you can go further Parents will also approve.

Be manly, throw away your bad faults, do a career, or work hard to make money.

Find out her concerns and address them.

You guess it still doesn't feel safe for her.

A bold person has a lot more opportunities than an indecisive person.

Take out a bundle of renminbi and throw it on the table.

Just say I'll take good care of her.

If it's not enough, it's two, three, and four......

Show your sincerity to meet his family, even if you are not in the same place, you must often go back to see them, chat with them, and bring them some if there is anything suitable for them, and they will always see your good or bad after a long time.

Time, character, and how her family behaves, talk less and watch more.

Reach out more to her family and behave more...

Make a lot of money and have the ability. Considerate, no pomp.

Learn about her family's habits, hobbies, and what they like, and don't look like you like them even if you don't like them. Talk less, do more. Don't be too casual in front of them.

Elementary and middle schools are not allowed to talk because they are afraid of affecting their studies, but they are all college students and adults, and if they are not allowed to fall in love, they will hinder normal development. During college, you should learn how to get along with the opposite sex, how to care for others, and how to take care of the opposite sex. Otherwise, when you graduate in the future, it will be even more difficult to meet someone you can take care of.

If the love that is now affects learning, then the love after graduation in the future will not affect your future marriage, and it will not affect your life, so it is better to have a vigorous love during college, after all, you are young. You can't leave regrets and regret them in the future. It's good to be able to handle the relationship between your own feelings and study and life, don't worry.

Are you serious when you're in a relationship? So have you thought about your future? If you're a girl, have you ever thought about marrying the person you're now?

Even if you think about it, what about him? When you're done and you're going your separate ways, when you're sad, it's time to get married. How are you going to face your husband at that time?

In fact, when you put yourself in your parents' shoes, you will find that they are really doing it for your own good. I'm here too. I broke up with my boyfriend when I graduated.

Although my husband said that he didn't care if I was or not. But there will be a pimple in my heart because I know that no one doesn't care, and I will be sad too. Of course, if you're a boy, then you have to be more cautious, you don't ruin others and yourself.

It's okay to talk about pure love, but how many of the current schools are pure love? Alas, whatever age is done . In school, there are a lot of people who talk about feelings, but not a lot of people get married.

In fact, it's a normal thing to date in college.,Not to mention college.,What's more, it's in elementary school.,I suggest that if you really meet a good boy, you can try it.,But if you want to count on marrying him, I guess you can go straight to the second.,You don't seem to have been in love.,If you can, take that boy home and let your parents see.,Although the routine is a bit old-fashioned.,But it's always their own fancy to let you associate with him.,Your parents will rest assured.。

Maybe it's your parents' ideological problems, communicate with them well, and you don't actually think about learning when you go to college, it's all self-studying. You can't just listen to your parents for the rest of your life. You should be assertive about what you do, and you should tell them that when you grow up, you don't have to worry about these life problems, and you have a sense of proportion.

You should also make them feel that you have really grown up so that they don't care too much about you.

The longer the girl, the more dependent on the boy will be, the parents are afraid that you will be hurt, but falling in love during college is also to learn to communicate better with others, but it should be better to lack than to abuse.

Because your parents love you, they want you to complete your college studies, be stable and mature in all aspects, know how to protect yourself, and then involve love, so that you may be able to choose more realistically. For you, you may want to experience what it feels like to be loved right now. Ask yourself inside and be your natural self.

As a college student, you need to focus on your studies first, and complete your studies first, which is also an important purpose for you to go to college! Falling in love should be put aside for the first time, so as not to forget the main reason why you went to college.

My suggestion is to examine him first, see how others are, whether they are good to you, if they are all satisfied, you can talk about it, but a reminder, girls should love themselves, and boys should be responsible for the people they love.

Why do you want to do so much, don't tell your parents if you're worried, talk about it, and take it home directly after graduation to see your parents. If you meet the right one in college, don't talk about the loss of your youth.

It is recommended that love can be discussed, but it is necessary to grasp the scale, especially girls, not too early, understand.

You should be a girl, in reality, many parents don't like girls to fall in love freely ......If you want to fall in love, you should be lazy in love......

Think before you talk: Is it because of loneliness that you fall in love? Is it because you fall in love with the herd? If not, then you should have the answer ...

People have talked about elementary and junior high school, and your college students are still twisting and pinching when they fall in love, and they are weak, so let go and love it.

If you have happiness, seize it, or you will regret it.

The landlord boldly went to fall in love.