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Your relationship is delicate. Here's an analysis of your boyfriend's thoughts.
I can tell from your words that your boyfriend is a little afraid of his father, or is very filial to his father. And your boyfriend's father is the boss of the company. You and your boyfriend both work at his father's company. These are the previous environments.
The general idea is that if a boss finds a girlfriend for his son, even if it is not a business relative, then he should be a good match, he does not think about his son, but also for the sake of the family business. It is not excluded that his father has such thoughts, and if his father has such thoughts, your boyfriend should also know it. But he can't tell you explicitly.
Why? How can I tell you?! Say you're too low or you're not qualified?
This not only hurt his beloved you, but also ruined his father's image.
I think his idea is to slowly get my father to accept you, but I'm not sure if it will work out. What I know for sure is that he is working hard for that goal in order to be with you in the future. He said that after a year of work, it is likely to buy time for both parties.
It is likely that the father and son quarreled over this matter, and the father beat him for this matter, do you want to tell you these things?
You say that you don't trust love very much anymore, and you don't trust him anymore. In reality, how much do you know about him! Can you understand his suffering? (If my guess is correct).
You can also ask him tentatively to confirm your suspicions, but this is likely to hurt him in the heart.
Take 10,000 steps back and say, my guess is wrong. So if a man hasn't done anything sorry for you, and he's good to you, why don't you trust each other?! If you want me to say, you work in a company, and there are a lot of rumors, and in a semi-closed company, it's better to keep it secret at first.
After all, you are still young, and there is still a long way to go. Be patient, don't fall in love as if the whole world knows about it. It's not good for both of you.
He gave him all the trust he could give you, and what about your trust, where did ......... go
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Since history, love has been selfish and can't tolerate sand, but, no matter how romantic love is, you have to face reality, he has his reason to do it, in the same company, he is like this, maybe he will think about you, and he doesn't want you to be a topic of conversation among colleagues, and you also said that you are still young, so he wants to wait until you are very mature to introduce him to his family, what do you think?
Sometimes, doubt can really make us lose a lot, so we must take advantage of it!
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