What does divorce mean to a woman? Is it really going to be miserable?

I have previously investigated the living conditions of women after divorce, and here are three of them.

1. Remarriage after divorce.

Mr. Li is 31 years old.

Reason for divorce: The ex-husband has a violent personality, the two have discord, and Sister Li decisively stops the loss.

Mother-in-law is a sensible person, on the eve of the divorce, my mother-in-law told Sister Li, you are not small, you may not meet the right one after the divorce at the age of 31, although my son has a bad temper, but he is more family-oriented, and he has no second heart for you, I hope you can consider it seriously and don't get excited.

Mr. Lee calmed down at that time. "Gave David more than one chance. Thank you for worrying about my future life. Today's decision has also been thought about for a long time. I won't regret it after leaving. 」

Five months after the divorce, I met my current husband. You love me so much. Please don't care about my marriage history.

One is a daughter. Now two children are being studied. The two of them lived happily ever after.

Who says it doesn't go well after a divorce? Sister, please open your eyes.

2. Single after divorce.

Mr. Dandan, 35 years old. There are women.

Reason for divorce: The ex-husband speaks viciously, leaves no room, and does not respect the elderly.

After he married me several times, he said that there was no one to help him with his life, but he was always attentive. After giving birth, I took care of the baby at home. He hated that I couldn't make money and supported my family. He said he was tired. I hate seeing my family.

Actually, I know that. If there is dignity as a human being in life, and if there is no dignity, it is better to leave. When my daughter was three years old, she decided after a quarrel together.

After the divorce, although the economy is indeed insecure, the mood has improved. The child is temporarily placed in foster care with his mother, looking for work to make ends meet. I believe that as long as you work hard, everything will be fine.

3. Divorce after marriage.

Mr. Wang, aged 42. Married and have children.

Reason for divorce: Ex-husband's personal problems.

Xiao Wang just got married, probably because everything went well, and there was something wrong with the family without pressure. This problem happened to the ex-husband who was to be trusted by Mr. Wang no matter what. After the incident, the ex-husband left home and left all his property and son to Sister Wang.

It took Xiao Wang three years to accept this reality. When Mr. Wang was about to return to his normal life, I met a husband who was married for the second time. Soon the two of them came, but Xiao Wang was not so happy after getting married.

The reason is Xiao Wang's son. The second married husband often talked to Mr. Wang's son, but he said that the child resembled his father.

The child is innocent, and Xiao Wang is unwilling to pursue perfection for the child, and finally broke up with her second-married husband. He kept it, but Xiao Wang was already disappointed.

Conclusion. Now it seems that divorce may be a very common thing. Many people don't want to choose divorce, but if two people can't get along, there is no need to force it. If you find that you are unhappy every day, it is the most responsible state for yourself to stop the loss immediately.

Women are often painful and desperate when they choose to divorce, and women are reluctant to divorce because they have no economy to take care of the family, and divorce is also a relief and freedom for women.

A woman's divorce is often not miserable because of a failed marriage, on the contrary, a woman who is divorced will be particularly strong, and will make herself constantly strong and not hurt.

In today's society, divorce may be a kind of rebirth for women, if they are unhappy in marriage, divorce is a relief for them, get rid of pain, and they will live a better and more refined life after divorce.

Divorce means the end of a bad relationship for a woman. It doesn't have to be miserable, because a person's life can be better, and there are many things he can do.

Divorce ends differently for different women. For a woman who is independent in thought and money, divorce is a life choice or even a relief for her, and she will run to a better self. For women who are dependent on men, divorce is undoubtedly leaving their cash cow, and they do not have the ability to make money after the divorce, and they live a miserable life.

Personally, I think that divorce must mean sacrifice for women, not all women will have a miserable life after divorce, and some women will live happier after divorce.

I know that divorced women often either have personality problems, or are too materialistic, or are more impulsive in their relationships.

It may be because the status of women in society is itself relatively poor now. And women are themselves at a disadvantage in the relationship, or in a vulnerable group.

If a woman is not self-reliant, no matter if she gets married or divorced, she will not end well.