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It should be said that it is the difference between the upper and the lower, because ancient women did not have much money, so they could not fight for the main rights of the family, because with money, the right has become a necessary weapon, of course, women will choose better men after they have money (their vision and experience have increased), so that divorce is normal, (not satisfied with the status quo, plus the cost of marriage itself is not very large, and divorce has not many scruples).
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Because you have the ability to face life, you can also live a very chic life.
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When a woman has money, her vision and experience increase, and she will choose better men so that it is easier to divorce.
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He kept losing money in business, and I supported the whole family and his parents, and I was just a small clerk. Then I got divorced and married a supervisor of the unit, and the supervisor had a child, so everyone scolded me for being retributioned and destroying other people's families, and I didn't care.
Later, I don't know what happened, he suddenly had money, I heard that he was made in business, and he showed off his might in front of me, and others said that I must have regretted it.
Why don't I regret it, because I know him too well, I don't know anything except cheating, relying on a handsome face, cheating girls everywhere, and when we were the poorest, the two of us also teamed up to cheat a girl's money. That girl was so innocent, and I regret it now.
He found my current husband's ex-wife, and the two of them were together. His ex-wife often shows off in the circle of friends, and if she doesn't add me as a friend, she wants me to see their happy life.
The two also went to the Maldives. It doesn't feel like it's bad money, it's like a first love, and then my current husband starts to get upset, thinking that his ex-wife is also good, there is still a market, and his daughter always sues.
When something went wrong in our marriage, I angrily went to my ex-husband, who said it was retribution.
Soon after, I got divorced and he remarried his ex-wife. Then my ex-husband was arrested for owing usury, and this part of the debt had to be borne by my husband's ex-wife, who was with him at the time.
When her husband saw so much money, he quickly divorced in fright. We remarried. Now the two of us are doing well, as for others, I don't care, let's go**count**.
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Why is a woman in a second marriage particularly realistic, it turns out that this is the reason, do you feel the same Why is a woman in a second marriage particularly realistic, it turns out that this is the reason, do you feel the same Why is a woman in a second marriage particularly realistic, it turns out that this is the reason, do you feel the same way.
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Women all want to have a good marriage, and they only want to stay with one person for the rest of their lives, and no woman wants to divorceWomen are often badly injured in a marital rift, and the emotional pain makes them have to face reality and become realistic at the same time
In a real case around me, a divorced woman told me this: I am divorced, and although this society is now open, many people have labeled me, I always live under colored glasses. This is the case with divorced women, who face emotional hurt and at the same time face the prejudiced gaze of society, you must know that it is really difficult to make a woman not believe in feelings, and it is also difficult to make a woman believe in feelings.
Many divorced women have become single mothers, they not only want to be strong alone to pick up the broken family, but also to raise children alone, whenever their children ask about their father, they all hide their faces and cry, they are the strongest group of people, because they have to bear the responsibility of the father, so they are in the later life or in the choice of mates, are in line with the interests of the children, they know themselves wellhas passed the age of enjoying love, and no longer believes in love, the reality of life allows them to establish a protection mechanism for themselves, divorced women no longer want anything, just to stabilize the life of peace.
The reality of divorced women is also because they have seen more clearly through divorce, and many divorced women love themselves more and cherish themselves more after divorce, and they are willing to invest in themselves, tooNo longer blindly put money and energy on feelings, concentrate on their careers or dreams, their sense of security is given to themselves, so they are very realistic, and they no longer need bubble-like romance
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Because they have already experienced a failed marriage, they will be calmer about the second time. Many women have been severely hurt by their first failed marriage, so they will be more realistic, because they are afraid of being hurt again.
In fact, before getting married, every woman will have expectations for marriage, hoping that her future life can be happy. But some of them are gradually defeated by firewood, rice, oil and salt.
After the divorce, there is always a prejudice against them in the real society, thinking that they will not find good conditions when they get married. So this kind of thing will make women more realistic.
In addition, if you have a child directly with your ex-husband, then child support is a big problem. If the child is raised by a woman, there is no doubt that the burden on women will be very heavy, and whether they can help themselves at this time and support themselves is an important decision for women to choose.
But it is very difficult for a guy to marry a woman with children. So I don't blame the reality after the divorce, it's just that society is too cruel.
This is why women are still realistic after divorce.
And the love of middle-aged people can no longer make little girls as simple, they often don't look forward to love, no one's life is smooth sailing, life is hard, so there is no blame for the reality of women.
And what is the reality now, feelings are not compromised, and when facing the next new relationship, they will think about it, hesitate, weigh the pros and cons, and analyze the gains and losses. Because she can't afford to lose. She was afraid that remarriage would repeat the mistakes of the past.
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Women who are married for the second time are indeed relatively realistic, and many of them only think about their feelings when they get married for the first time, but their feelings are shattered, and they are separated for various reasons. Therefore, the second marriage will be very realistic, and various requirements and conditions will be put forward, such as adding your own name to the house, handing over the salary, etc., hoping that the remarriage will be able to take the initiative and have a sense of security financially. This is based on a female perspective, and from a female perspective, it does make sense.
But in the same way, the male perspective will also be very realistic, men who meet the conditions proposed by women will feel that the other party is already a second marriage, and most of them still have children, so they are not worth this condition, and they are even more reluctant to hand over their house and salary to each other, because after all, they are second marriages, and they dare not gamble on each other's loyalty with everything they have. After all, there are too many external influences. It also makes sense from a male perspective.
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After experiencing a failed marriage, it is normal for women to become realistic. I know how to protect myself, I understand that promises are unreliable, and I also understand that life is realistic, and fairy tales are only in dreams. After experiencing a failed marriage, it is normal for women to become realistic.
I know how to protect myself, I understand that promises are unreliable, and I also understand that life is realistic, and fairy tales are only in dreams.
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It is said that women are realistic, but unrealistic women are cherished by a few men. In the end, it wasn't really fed to the dogs.
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Sure, women who don't divorce can stand up to life examinations, in other words, they won't give up their feelings easily. Because life has been testing everyone.
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Yes, they will become more realistic, most of them think so, just to let their ex-husbands see that they live more chic! This is the vengeance of women! I am also a divorced man, and the conditions are not good, I just need to tell other divorced men that it is much easier to find an unmarried woman than to find a divorced woman.
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Some will, because of the fear of getting hurt, since there is no love, why can't it be realistic? It's not always wrong to choose what you want. Still, I'm willing to be brave for him one more time, just once.
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We live in this materialistic society, whether we are divorced or not, we are actually very realistic and value material things, rather than love. Therefore, whether they love or not, they will live like this if they have material satisfaction.
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If you have been hurt, you will generally be more realistic, and a married woman will be more or less realistic because she wants to live.
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Most divorced women are middle-aged, older and more experienced, and no longer naïve about love.
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Because the divorced woman got rid of her second disease, she used to feel that everything revolved around her, thinking that she was the center, and it was very important to regard herself as a princess, and only after the divorce did she realize that she was not a princess, so as to be realistic,
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In this society, both men and women are realistic, it is normal for divorced women to be realistic, and no one wants to be hurt again and again.
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A divorced woman has been hurt, she sees reality more thoroughly, and no longer thinks of her life because of a wave of love words like a little girl! After experiencing it, I realized that this world is very cruel, especially men's rhetoric, which is the most untrustworthy and insecure!
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Unusual women are greedy for small profits, so they are deceived and have rhetoric.
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Looking at this problem, really, the girl regarded marriage as very important at the beginning, and felt that the person she married would love her for a lifetime, and the two would be together for a lifetime, and would not be separated wholeheartedly, the girl regarded marriage and the person who loved her as her own life, but then the relationship between the two was in crisis and separated, the home was gone, the original vows were gone, everything was gone, so the girl's heart was also dead, so she didn't believe in love, she didn't believe in anyone anymore, the girl felt that she had to protect herself, which was the most important thing, So it's better to be realistic, and men are also very realistic, so girls will change their previous views; It's better to be realistic.
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Because of the first time I encountered the injury, I avoided it the second time.
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Summary. Hello dear, good afternoon. <>
The reason why many divorces are filed by women, and the reason is because of money, that is because the current environment is different from before, our thinking has been changing, men and women are balanced, so a family, if it can't shelter us, can't bring us happiness, then it's normal to file for divorce. For men, marriage is one more nanny, while for women, a bad marriage is in the position of being used as a nanny, so the two are different. If the person who works as a nanny is unhappy, he will naturally file for divorce, so this is why 70% of women file for divorce.
Why do many people divorce because of money?
Hello dear, good afternoon. <>
The reason why many divorces are proposed by women, and the reason is because of money, that is because the current environment is different from before, our thinking has been changing, men and women are balanced, so a family, if it can not shelter us and bring us happiness, then it is normal to file for divorce. For men, marriage is one more nanny, while for women, a bad marriage is used as a nanny, so the two are different. If the person who is a nanny is unhappy, he will naturally file for divorce, so this is why 70% of former Ranhong women file for divorce.
That is to say, the person who enjoys it enjoys this state very much, but we women do not enjoy this state. I'm sure I'm going to want a divorce. <>
So most divorces are filed by women. Unless a man is looking for true love outside, this true love must have a formal identity. And the man follows her words regardless of the family, then the man will file for divorce, otherwise he will not mention it at all. Pulse wheel does <>
Marriage is actually quite free for men, but not very free for women, so for free men. It's the same without divorce.
My dear, in response to your statement that the reason for the divorce is because of money, this view of the situation is still more agreeable, life needs to be supported by firewood, rice, oil and salt, but firewood, rice, oil and salt are supported by money, so if there is no money, then the marriage will not go on, and it is inevitable to file for divorce. People nowadays are more open-minded. Marriage is no longer a shackle for us.
If this marriage has no feelings and no material support, then for women who are more open-minded now, they will choose to divorce. <>
In addition, my dear staring at the cracked hands, the teacher suggested, whether it is divorce or marriage, we all have to think twice, and don't do things that you regret casually. <>
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People who have been divorced multiple times face many problems with Xu Li Chunju, and according to the research, the following are the reasons that may lead to multiple divorces:
1.Failure to learn problem-solving skills: Many people lack problem-solving skills when dealing with problems in their marriage.
This may be because they do not have the necessary education and training from their families, relatives, or social care, or they may lack self-awareness and communication skills.
2.Unmet emotional needs: When a person pursues romantic and emotional fulfillment without success, they may seek new relationships to fill that sense of loss.
However, this need to rely on others often makes them more prone to fantasies and high expectations, which can eventually lead to marital problems.
3.Difficulty accepting compromises and changes: In marriage, both parties are required to compromise, adjust, and adapt to each other's habits, values, and behaviors, but some people may have difficulty accepting such compromises and changes. This can lead to arguments and conflicts, which ultimately worsen the relationship between the couple.
4.Lack of marriage counseling: Most people have not received marriage counseling, so they may not know how to create and maintain a successful marriage. Marriage counseling can provide people with the necessary skills, strategies, and resources to help them build healthier marriages.
In conclusion, in the case of multiple divorces, it is necessary to take a hard look at your actions and motivations and seek the necessary support and help. It is only when a person has mastered the necessary problem-solving skills, developed healthy emotional needs, and the ability to adapt to change that they can build and maintain a successful and stable marital relationship.
This is indeed the case in China now, because there is a shortage of women in China now, and there are still some women with particularly good conditions who are unwilling to get married, so the ratio of men and women is even more imbalanced, as long as women are willing, it is easy to marry.
No, not so absolutely.
As the saying goes, a relationship has brought you as much happiness as much pain as it can bring you. "Pain and happiness are always directly proportional, and the degree of happiness when you are together also determines the pain that comes to you after separation. >>>More
Because men only need to work to earn money, while women not only have to work, but also take care of the elderly, take care of children, cook and wash clothes, and take care of household chores. And women still think about problems more carefully, and their hearts are soft, and they will blame themselves for not doing anything well!
This is because anxious women tend to be insecure. It is especially easy to lose one's way in marriage, so it is especially prone to problems.