What will be the consequences of marrying a man who has abandoned his wife and children?

There is a good chance that she will become another ex-wife of his. It's better not to choose people like this and not let themselves regret it for life.

Generally not happy!

Since you can abandon your wife and children once, there will be a second time.

Such a man is often selfish and irresponsible, and in the days to come, he will definitely think of himself when he encounters difficulties and dangers.

Such a man is ruthless and unrighteous, likes the new and hates the old, and marries such a man, then he is likely to face the result of being abandoned in the end, like his wife.

It depends on his real reasons and thoughts for abandoning his wife and children, as well as his past experiences.

In fact, what you see is still a minority, people who really abandon their wives, there are still few people with bad consciences, most people still have a strong sense of responsibility and family belonging to their wives and children, and you will meet such people by chance, but you don't think that the whole country is such people, then you are wrong.

You say this to show that your friends around you are not very good, there are very few people who abandon their wives, there are a large number of happy people, and unhappy people will be infected together.

In life, both men and women are going to get married with love at the beginning, but all kinds of trivial matters and various three views after marriage are inconsistent, resulting in more and more contradictions, so there are more and more divorces, but there are also some men who abandon their wives and children, blatantly move to live with their lovers, and they generally have these four characteristics.

The first type: the three views do not agree, and you want to find a lover with a common topic.

Not every couple gets married because of free love, some are introduced by the family to a blind date, and some are married because they are old and get married in order to check the old age. So I didn't know each other very well and got married, only to find out that the two people have completely different personalities and hobbies, and it is difficult to find a common topic, and over time, the man will find a lover with a common topic outside to replace the role of his wife.

The second type: genetic heritability.

There is a kind of man who belongs to genetic inheritance, that is, his family has a similar situation, such as a mother or father, or brothers and sisters, who have lived in such an environment since childhood, and see others to have extramarital affairs, then he himself is looking for a lover, he thinks it will not be a big mistake, after all, everyone is like this.

The third type: physiological needs.

How can husband and wife not quarrel in life, but some husbands and wives start a cold war and ignore each other, and some wives do not give their husbands the opportunity to touch themselves in order to punish their husbands, and after a long time, because of the quarrel, the husband will be more angry, sooner or later they will go outside to steal food, a day or two can survive, and they will definitely not be able to survive for a long time, so the wife is also at fault in this situation.

Fourth: affected by the environment.

Men are generally more than women's entertainment, not every man is born a scumbag, some men at the beginning he does not smoke, does not drink, will not mess around, but with colleagues and friends out of the party, others will find a young lady to play, they do not call a seems to be afraid of no face, the first time I called his wife did not find, the back will be accustomed to it, for a long time, he will feel that this is just a kind of communication, feel that the people around him are like this, so he feels that he has not done anything wrong, and will be high-sounding to say that it is all for life. Therefore, I often walk by the river without getting my shoes wet.

Therefore, husband and wife quarrel, to give each other a proper step, it is best not to have an overnight feud, do not have a cold war, after a long time all kinds of contradictions have come out, it is easy to have extramarital affairs, but can you detect it?

Abandonment of a wife and children means that a husband leaves the feast to wear away his wife and children, and no longer assumes family responsibilities and obligations. Here are some of the behaviors that may be considered to be abandoning one's wife and abandoning one's partner:

1.The husband leaves the family and does not return or contact his wife and children again.

2.The husband no longer takes on the financial responsibilities of the family and no longer provides the material support necessary for the family's life.

3.The husband no longer takes responsibility for the housework and childcare of the family, and is no longer involved in family life and the development of the children.

4.The husband inflicts physical or psychological harm on his wife and children, leading to the breakdown of family relations.

All of the above behaviors may be considered abandonment of wives and children, but the specific circumstances need to be judged according to the family background and specific behavior.

Legal analysis: There is no crime of abandoning the wife, only the obligation to support each other, and the husband and wife have the obligation to support each other. If one party fails to fulfill the maintenance obligation, the party in need of maintenance has the right to demand that the other party pay maintenance.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1058:Husbands and wives equally enjoy the right to raise, educate, and protect their minor children, and jointly bear the obligation to raise, educate, and protect their minor children.

Article 1084:The relationship between parents and children is not to be extinguished because of the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China on Marriage and Family (1).

Article 55: After a divorce, where one of the parents requests a change in the child support relationship, or the child requests an increase in child support, a separate lawsuit shall be initiated.

Article 56: In any of the following circumstances, where one of the parents requests a change in the child support relationship, the people's court shall support it:

1) The parent living with the child is unable to continue to raise the child due to serious illness or injury;

2) The party living with the child does not fulfill the obligation to support the child, or Yu Jiying has mistreated the child, or the party living with the child has a real adverse impact on the child's physical and mental health;

3) A child who has reached the age of 8 and is willing to live with another parent who has the ability to support him;

The husband's behavior of abandoning his wife and children includes running away from home and not communicating with his wife, not taking care of family members at home, handing over the responsibility of family registration to his wife, not changing the financial guarantee, and neglecting the education and upbringing of children.