What if you find out that the man you re in love with isn t as good as you think?

Updated on society 2024-07-20
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    No one is perfect, and if it's too far from what you imagined, then forget it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If I fall in love with a man who doesn't have me in my heart, I will let go in time and won't hurt myself like a moth to a fire. Because I know that if a man doesn't love you, then whatever you do for him, he won't take it seriously.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I know for sure. If this kind of thing happens to you, you will generally choose to leave, and you will not be too entangled.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It should be decisively abandoned. Because such a love has no result, don't waste time on him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Resolutely refuse.

    You don't like him, and it's useless to accept him, but it hurts him.

    Be brave enough to say no

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Alas, making all kinds of excuses for yourself to convince yourself that this man loves you very much is a last resort, isn't it? It's only thanks to the various things he said to you when he wanted to be together, he loves you, but he doesn't love you as much as you think, and the final result is no result, think about the girl before, she didn't get divorced even if she was pregnant, don't you say that the man said that he loves you more than that girl, isn't it that he didn't divorce you? Will you go out to find it for the sake of your child?

    It's for the sake of profit, <>

    Wake up, now you are uncomfortable, do you have to delay for a few years, and then wait until today's result to be happy?

    As Yu Dan pointed to the teacher of Brother Shen: Life comes and goes, and the coming day is not long. As soon as the thought arises, let's do our best to complete it now.

    And we always think that we have a lot of time in our hands, so we delay and delay. In fact, all we have is the present, and as for the future, who can say well?

    Don't wait, this moment, that is, to go. Do the most important things, meet the people who are waiting for you.

    May all love still have time; I hope that all the waiting will not be disappointed.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As the title suggests, falling in love with a man belongs to the love at first sight type. He is very capable and responsible at work, and he didn't know that he had a family and children at first, and after knowing it, he felt that it was too good not to register in the state, but he said that he and his wife had a bad relationship and might break up, hoping to have a banquet with me in Yiziyin. At that time, my heart relented and I did not separate.

    Recently, I learned that before me, he also had a girl he liked and was pregnant for him, but he didn't divorce his wife, and that girl was very hurt. And he said that it was not easy to divorce for the sake of the child, and he felt that there was little hope of marrying him, so please help analyze it, what should I do?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't be so sentimental, there is no right or wrong to love someone, only love and not love.

    Even if he falls in love with someone who doesn't love him, it only means that he doesn't love you now, and it doesn't mean that he won't fall in love with you in the future.

    Falling in love with such a boy is destined to give more than him at the beginning, and it is really unfortunate from the perspective of others, but who is in love who does not pay? ? That's how I got through, but still got a happy ending.

    It's like you and too many people know that falling in love with someone who doesn't love you will be painful and tiring, but how many of them give up easily? ? Don't you all know that it's "wrong"? No, it won't! Only those who give up easily are really wrong!!

    The so-called love of a person is right or wrong, that is the conclusion given by others, some people can accept some people can not accept, that is just what they think in their hearts does not represent you, you just feel that you are right, you really love him, that is okay, people in love will never be wrong and right, will only be willing to pay.

    All fairy tales end with "the prince and princess live happily ever after", but if the story continues, they may get married or give birth to Snow White, it seems that I am a little wordy, but I want you to know that the story will be more exciting only if it is written, and life is the same, don't let other people's opinions sway you, and it is the most correct to strengthen your beliefs.

    I wish you from the bottom of my heart, a girl who was once like me can win his heart with her own efforts, don't care what others think, I believe that I can do it, even if I try hard and there is no result, you will not regret it in the future!

    Bless you.

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