Why can t I be happy myself?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
2 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    There are many reasons why I can't be happy, like I am now, as you said, I can't be happy! People live, every day will always encounter big and small troubles, annoying things always happen one after another, whether you want to accept it or not, it still happens, since it can't be changed, only accept the reality. I.

    I can't understand why I'm emotionally disturbed, and afterwards I came to the conclusion that I couldn't ignore it because I cared too much about it, and I was used to listening to the opinions given by others, so. I also habitually hide my true thoughts in my heart.

    From time to time, I am hurt by other people's every move and word, I can't blame others for their unintentional mistakes, since it is unintentional, so I have no intention to blame, I care about everyone around me, I don't want to lose just want to cherish more. I feel that I am always so different, and I am so out of place with my friends, because we are special, usually we are very nervous, we will be cautious, accountants, we will be jealous because of small things, we will do something that we are not sure of and are afraid to do and want to do, and we know that we can't do it, hehe. Injury is our patent, because we have no principles, we don't know how to protect ourselves, we are too straightforward, and we hurt others and ourselves.

    After hurting for a long time and thinking about it for a long time, I realized that it turned out that which pain was given by ourselves, and no one has the right to make us unhappy, except that we don't want to be happy. Even if, whether you are unemployed, lose something, lose your feelings, lose your dearest love, no matter how big the thing, how sad the thing, it will always pass, time is the best antidote, people, what will happen, you can only see how your consciousness chooses, there are no unsuccessful people, only people who don't want to succeed, happy is the same thing, others make you unhappy, personal attacks on you, as long as you look at yourself, there is no big deal, I always feel that people should have a rebellious mentality, When others are unhappy like you, we need to be happier, when we are most disappointed, we need to work harder, and success requires perseverance as a paving stone to lead to the end. A good mood should be created by yourself.

    Know that a bad mood destroys all good things. Because the bad mood spreads in the heart for a long time, there will be ***. So?

    Hurry up and get to the Happy Station! Hehe! Happy to you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Life should be more optimistic, when you are alone, listen more **, relax, or go outside, relax, do not regard some trivial things in life as a difficult problem, think about a few aspects, after a long time, the heart feels relaxed, slowly, I feel that there is no heavy feeling in my heart, and happiness will naturally find you.

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