Mom and Dad are on the verge of divorce

Hello landlord: To be honest with you, when I was in college, my father and my mother also quarreled, and I obviously felt that the frequency of quarrels was much higher than when I was living at home in high school, and I was also worried. Later, I thought about it a lot, and even wondered if my mother had entered menopause early.

I don't know if the landlord is a boy or a girl, as a child should distract parents. For example: You're still in school, right?

You can tell your dad that you are starting to be a tutor, tutoring a middle school student, and then ask your dad how to educate the students or ask some middle school questions or something, so that dad feels that in your child's psychology, dad is proud of his profession, so that he is willing to talk to you, encourage him, and satisfy his vanity. And you can take this opportunity to talk to him about your future view of love and marriage, although you can't really put aside the relationship between father and son, but as the elders' enlightenment to the younger generations, you will hear a lot of father's voice, so that you can better understand his thoughts and find the key to solving the problem. I hope that the landlord can experience Dad's heart with his heart.

For mom, you can just come straight away. Tell my mother that the classmate next door has friends of the opposite sex, saying that I sometimes think about what kind of one to find in the future, or what kind of one should be matched with my own ability, my mother likes to nag, so I give her a chance to nag, say something that disrespects the elderly, you can listen to my mother's nagging while watching**, and give a sigh from time to time, in short, don't worry, the landlord doesn't worry, the elderly are like this at this age, you don't know that it may be that friends don't want you to know, hehe You, a child, will start to take care of the elderly now! Come on!

Let it be.

Face it calmly and learn to be strong.

Learn to find your own happiness.

Try hard.

When you grow up, you should also understand that if 2 people are together and miserable, it is better to separate, you can only try your best to adjust, and you can't interfere, right? If it's true that they can't move on with their lives, then you have to look at it too! In fact, if there is no third party, it is generally unlikely to be divorced, after all, they have lived together for more than 20 years, and the relationship is still very deep!

I'm sure you'll take care of it! Let's work hard for our family!

I don't know what to say, but I don't think there will be a forever couple, but there will be forever parents!

Maybe we shouldn't be involved in the time between adults, but now that we're all divorced, I think you have to think about it, talk to your parents, and let them find out what the problem is, and try to solve it.

Then why don't you talk to them openly and honestly and let them empathize with each other, I believe you are very smart, and you can do a good way. If not, just consult an expert:

Find time to talk to them seriously, alas

Summary. Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you! Mom and Dad are divorced, I miss my mother, I think it's their business that Mom and Dad are divorced, if you want your mom, I think you can call ** to communicate with him.

Mom and Dad are divorced and I miss my mom.

I miss my mom.

Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you! Mom and Dad are divorced, I miss my mother, I think it's their business that Mom and Dad are divorced, if you want your mom, I think you can call ** to communicate with him.

And then go and see your mom and dad, I think it's okay<>

My mom doesn't want me.

How to say, there is no mother who will not have her own children, but when you get divorced, your father wants to take back custody of you.

At the time, my mom didn't want me.

I miss her so much.

Did your mother say it herself, or what?

No, my dad told me later.

What did you say, of course what your father said is not credible, he just wants to lie to you.

No, it's true.

Obediently, then don't feel bad, after all, life is not happy, so your mother doesn't want you, if she didn't say it herself, I don't think it counts.

I think about it from the perspective of a person who has come before and can accept it.

1.The life of parents is their choice, and although they can intervene as children, the final decision is still made by their parents.

2.If we voluntarily divorce due to bad factors, then we as children will not be able to recover, and all we can do is accept it and start a new life.

3.For example, my mother died of illness when I was very young, my father was really tired and tired during that time, I was about to go to junior high school when I saw him running back and forth in order to make a living and repay bank loans, and my grandmother also advised my father to find someone to remarry while it was still early, even if it was not for my father, but also to give me a complete family.

Whether it is divorce or remarriage, the decision is the parents, as children we can persuade and guide, but no matter what the outcome is, we should try to blindly stare to accept, parents have their own difficulties, we must stand in their perspective to understand, to tolerate.

Rao me bluntly: whether divorce can really be liberated is a later story, and I suggest that you still don't get involved in this sensitive period

What your father said is not wrong, persuade you not to leave. Your grandmother and her son, who have been raised for many years, need not to take it from him. That only shows that your father is a responsible person. There's nothing wrong with that. It can be known that filial piety is the first.

Of course, as a spokesperson who doesn't know the inside and outside, you can dismiss the above opinions.

People say that divorced families are unhappy for a thousand reasons.

The relationship between your ancestors was so unbearable by you. Then let's separate! Give each other a little space to consider, maybe your mother will later feel that she still cherishes this family that she has been running with heart for several + years.

Divorce is just an impulse. Then there will be a redeeming Jichana reunion.

Do I have to break the vase to get the flower out of it?

Don't talk about the words I agree to the divorce, do you really want to be a child of a divorced family? That will chill the heart of the father who raised you!

The two-year separation rule in the law is one of the conditions for measuring whether the relationship between a couple has broken down, and if the separation can calm down the parties and restore the relationship, this is an excellent choice. Separation is a right of both spouses and does not require anyone's approval or consent, so there is no need to go through any formalities.

As a child, it is understandable that you don't want your parents to divorce, but it's too cruel to let two people who have no feelings, or even die of old age, suffer unnecessary emotional torment. Therefore, whether the parents divorce or not depends on the emotional foundation and mutual trust, and from the perspective of spiritual liberation. It's just that you should understand that no matter whether your parents' marriage exists or not, they are your elders, and you will always be their children, blood is thicker than water, and it will remain unchanged for eternity.

There is only one reason for the happiness of every happy family.

I think it's better to follow your mother, no matter how old a child is.

Compared with the father, the mother will take care of the child more carefully, and there will be no neglect of the child.

And I think the younger the child, the more you have to follow the mother, because the child is too young to leave the mother, leaving the mother will make the child's psychology have different changes, the child is still too young, if you follow the mother's side, what problems occur in the child's psychology, as a mother can find out in a more timely manner.

In any case, mothers, as a female group, will be more careful and delicate in character, and their love for their children will not be reduced, and many fathers will inevitably take care of their children because of their unique male character characteristics.

You can also make the following choices:

1. Choose a side with a sense of justice. If my father eats, drinks, prostitutes, gambles, smokes, has machismo, and has domestic violence, my mother and I; If my mother is lazy and lazy, watery poplar, and loves vanity, I will follow my father.

2. Choose the party with strong earning ability. In this way, the financial burden of the weaker side can be reduced, and even "robbing the rich to help the poor", and the rich can be secretly used to support the poor side.

3. If both of them are vying for me, then I choose the one that is relatively weak in all aspects. This is a good way to bring him (her) spiritual comfort, or help in life and work.

When our parents divorced, we have no way to interfere, and for them, it may be a relief, but for us, it is undoubtedly a disaster. All we can do is accept this fact. Then, make a reasonable choice: with whom and with whom, how to follow, and how to follow.

It depends on who you have a closer relationship with, and whether you want to live with your father or your mother.