Troubles are very troublesome, Mom and Dad are divorced!!

...Treat it with a normal heart and face it calmly, children from single-parent families may have low self-esteem, but I completely want to understand why they return to low self-esteem, keep a normal heart, your parents' divorce is not your fault.

This will cause you a lot of damage! But you also have to feel the feelings of your parents. If they really don't have feelings anymore, it's not necessarily a good thing for you to be reluctantly together!

After they break up, at least one more person will love you with all her energy and will put all her thoughts on you. At least it makes you feel like there are still people in the world who love you very much. Even if they are divorced, you have to treat them well.

Don't favor anyone, because they are always your parents. They love you wherever you are!

Learn your !! The pine trees that grow between the crevices of the rocks tend to be more vigorous and longer-lasting; If you really can't, you can take it as a rich life experience!

Don't know how old you are this year?

Under normal circumstances, the divorce of parents will have a lot of bad effects on children under the age of 11, but older children have formed a certain thinking ability, and the impact is not so much.

First of all, you have to know that if the relationship between parents is really gone, living together is torture for two people, and divorce is a way for each other to live, as a child should understand and give parents some space for themselves.

Second, learn to be tolerant of others and also learn to be kind to yourself. While understanding your parents, you should also make yourself happier, so that your parents will feel at ease, do what you have to do, and don't change anything because of this one thing.

I hope you have a good time, this is what your loved ones want to see the most.

It's better to be together painfully than to be happy to be separated, which is good for everyone.

If you want to open up, it's not your fault that your parents divorced.

Learn to face it calmly, maybe it's best to be separated, it's better than arguing every day. My mom and dad are also divorced, learn to be strong. Stand up!

Try to convince them. At the same time, let them think in your shoes. If you get divorced, you become a child of a single-parent family.

If this is the end, love yourself, live on, and understand them.

Don't bother, let's face it, it's normal for parents to divorce in today's society.

I never thought that my mother's position for her divorce was "he dumped me and didn't want me anymore"!

All along, she has been clamoring for divorce. She should feel relieved. But the truth is that she is in pain. It was the father who was liberated.

She kept repeating the words when she met people: "He lost his conscience, I raised three daughters for him, and now I see that my reputation is crooked, I can't make money, and my salary is higher without him, so I divorce me." ”

She ordered us not to associate with our father and told us to cut ties with him.

What a stupid idea, Mom! How can you believe that we will break off the relationship?

She didn't know the real reason why her father agreed to divorce him because she couldn't stand her various "behaviors". But my mother herself never accepted others saying that she "did", because she subjectively never wanted to "be someone else", what she did was because she couldn't control her emotions, she thought she was just venting herself, but she didn't know how much trouble she brought to the people around her. Who can endure this kind of frightened day for ten years?

This time she lived in the big house by herself. My sisters have gone out to work, and I am also working in other places. Now that I think about it, my mother should have spent a difficult life alone.

When we went back during the holidays, she always chattered about what my father was not, and I had heard those words dozens of times. Sometimes the slightest word I say for my dad will make her angry and even skip dinner. I can't remember it when I don't go back to see her, and when I go back to see her, I want to run away as soon as possible.

I've read it all, you can find a chance, like when your dad is alone with you, you can do without.

Mention how your father and your mother met, what was the situation when they fell in love together, what advantages did they like for each other together, and how the scene was when your mother was pregnant with you, so that they could recall the youthful time they had together before, after all, a couple who got married must value each other's advantages and ignore their shortcomings.

As a child, you can persuade both parties, and if you can't persuade you, there is no better way. There are many reasons for divorce, generally because the relationship between the two parties has indeed broken down, and there is no possibility of reconciliation; Otherwise, there will be no divorce. Other reasons include drug abuse, gambling, domestic violence, and repeated repudiation.

Article 31 of the Marriage Law Where a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 33 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce must obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where one of the servicemen is seriously at fault.

If that's the case, I advise them to calm down and think for themselves.

Hurry up and persuade the family to be together.

Indeed, you really don't understand the affairs of adults, let them go, what should you do.

This is their own rights, and you have no right to interfere, whether they are divorced or not, you are still their children, they are still your parents, they will not ignore you because of this, let them think about it and make a decision for themselves

It looks like your parents don't quarrel much, so you're in a hurry. They are not arguing about a matter of principle. Quarrels are also a way of communicating. You don't need to rush.

Take 10,000 steps back and say, they are really noisy to the point of getting a divorce, and you can't control it. Take care of yourself first and don't think about it.

A family with daily quarrels and a cold war is far more terrible than a single-parent family. If you have been on good terms, you can talk to them.

Children are not allowed to take care of adults. You don't have to be in such a hurry, the mind is relaxed. Mom and Dad are going to get divorced, and they don't have to worry about it.

There are many reasons for discord between children and families, but one of the most important reasons is the emotional misconduct between men and women.

Tell your dad that a happy life in a woman other than his wife will never be found. If you insist on going your own way, the final result will be the separation of your wife and the defeat of your family.

Tell your mother that suffering such a married life now is also the result of the bad karma she created in her previous life, and you must really initiate repentance and repent to your father's past life. If you still want to live your life, you must try to hide your father's bad behavior, be a good wife, and don't quarrel and cry at every turn; Be a good mother, settle your food, clothing, shelter and transportation; The most important thing is to be a good daughter-in-law, be filial to your in-laws, and get the blessing of your in-laws, which is very important to your mother.

You and your mother should always recite deeply: Nan no Avalokiteshvara. Pray with all your heart for the bodhisattva's mercy to save your family.

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Why, how old are you. What help you need.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and it is difficult for others to interfere in your housework. The biggest problem now is caused by your dad's drinking. As a son, you can discuss with your father and ask him to quit drinking and save the family.

Personally, I think that from your description, your parents will marry you in order to give you a complete home, and there is no happiness in their marriage, you can only change yourself, put your studies seriously, and let them decide for themselves in their parents' marriage, if they really can't get by, they will divorce.

You can do your best to have your parents' feelings, after all, they have their own ideas, and even if you try, you can't save a broken marriage.

If you can persuade him, if he really wants to divorce, you can't stop it, then at this time you have to study hard, don't worry about living expenses, and they will go to court if they don't give it.

Try to promote two people to get along in harmony, persuade more interception, and dredge the emotional disputes between two people.

You have to take care of yourself.

After all, if they don't have feelings.

Divorce is also normal.

But others need to live well.

Alas, it's better to be a daughter, and I still have my father in mind. My son knows to accompany the computer when he is on vacation.

I think so, it stands to reason that you should spend more time with your dad, because he is alone after all.

But in fact, men are less afraid of loneliness than women, and they don't care too much about the holidays, and men don't care about this until they are over 65 years old. Now for your father, when his daughter comes home, when is his festival. He hopes that you will spend more time with your mother, because he knows that you can only be happy if your mother is happy; As long as you're happy, he's happy.

So, if your mom wants you to be with her for the holidays, you can accompany her for the holidays. You can take time to visit your dad, or talk to him, and spend two more days with him after the holidays.

Judging from what you said, your mother is not an unreasonable person, and she will understand if you usually spend a few more days with your father.

It's really difficult.,Only if you work hard.,Walk more on both sides.,Accompany your father more at a critical time.,After all, isn't your mother still accompanied by someone.。。。

Hey, this matter can only depend on how you understand it! You are not responsible for your parents' affairs! So you feel bad because you're a good girl and you're responsible. Try to take care of it.

After watching the lecture "Sage Education Changes Destiny", you can know what to do.

I have a classmate who is like this, and his parents are divorced.

When she talked to us about it, her tone didn't fluctuate much, maybe we are both college students, we can be independent, and we know what our parents are struggling with, so she can face it calmly.

You can persuade your parents again, or you can communicate more, no matter what, you are still your parents' child.

Good luck in the future.

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It's going to rain, your parents are going to divorce, you can't manage it, you can't manage it, you can't understand it for the time being, and you may understand it in the future, so you can only calm down and let it be!