As a superfluous person, what can be done to restore their peace?

Updated on amusement 2024-07-17
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In fact, you don't have to feel too guilty, their relationship is getting worse and worse not necessarily because of your problems, maybe they will be like this without you, this is not an outsider's relationship, it's just that their relationship has a problem, they can't stand the test, maybe you are just an excuse, some things should happen will always happen, it's just a matter of time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Are you in love with someone else's husband? If so, you're going to have a lot of troubles. There's nothing wrong with quitting a day earlier, if people are selfish, think more about themselves.

    It's not your own thing, no matter how good it is, don't be tempted. Be passive as soon as you are moved. will pay the price.

    In fact, everything has its own cause and effect. Your distress stems from yourself. The knot in the heart needs to be solved by itself.

    Good luck.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There's no way to fall in love with someone else.,Love is selfish.,I don't want him to suffer.,Just think about him.,Don't hesitate to do things.,It's impossible to have the best of both worlds.,You can take a look at "Inuyasha", it's a manga, it's already out of the TV version, although the plot is based on combat, but it also tells a story similar to your situation, maybe it will help you ......

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I understand you very well, because I am also in this position, I am really conflicted, I don't want to destroy his family and I can't give up on him, but if they really can't live together, don't persuade you at all, you are better than me, maybe he will divorce for you, but I will never marry him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Clerical work, less tiring, and depending on what you like, and it depends on the actual situation.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Treasurer bar, this job is often required of married women.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Doctors, teachers, and bank clerks.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Finance, HR, Secretary, Teacher.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think finance is better, and the longer the better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on what major you are studying, as long as you are interested in doing anything.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Writing a letter is needed, superfluous, you don't want to be willful anymore, you have to cultivate yourself well, hehe.

    In the past few days, you get up every morning and send him a text message to tell her that you are up, and then ask him, and send him a text message before going to bed at night, telling him good night, every day, you have to oh, even if she replies to you, you want it.

    Everyone longs to have their own space, the rest of the time you let him dominate him, don't care about his problems, you just text greetings, it's best to take the initiative to ask her out on weekends to relax, I'm experienced, oh, hehe,

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He doesn't contact you, you take the initiative. The Cold War would be dangerous. Men can't hold on too tightly, it will backfire. It should be like flying a kite. Send him a text message, it should be good to be coquettish, men can't stand gentle women the most.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't do anything. Just give him enough time to calm down. At the same time, you should also calm down and think about how to get along in the future, so that similar problems will not occur.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, I think your boyfriend is right, calm down, if you are true love, it will heat up. Of course, if it can't stand the test, it's not worth doing anything.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't believe in the horoscope, believe in yourself, if you really like it, boldly show your feelings to the other party, if the other party accepts, it will definitely return to the old good, if the other party doesn't care, or break up, reluctantly together, after getting married and having children in the future, there will be more trouble, and life will be harder!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on how long you've been together, it's not that you're holding on too tightly, it's that you're not grasping it tight enough. If you've been together for a long time, maybe he really wants to calm down, he's afraid that he won't make the wrong decision if he's not calm down (break up with you) Care more about him I feel good about writing something.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you grasp the sand tightly, it will be exposed... In addition to these, when you usually contact you in your spare time, if you hate enough, calm down and don't contact for a month, if he really loves you, you won't wait for a month.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Take the initiative, care more about him, learn to be generous, and be like He Fei'er.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, you can call** Send a message to care about him As long as you have true love, you will have a happy day.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Constellations are superstitious, and willfulness has changed.

    The tighter you chase, the less he may cherish you.

    He wants to leave, and he can't catch it. If he doesn't want to leave, he'll come back.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then let each other calm down for a while, pushing too hard will only make each other go further.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Listen to "Happy Lovers" and "Nostalgia for the Past".

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, analyze the situation of your cousin, go if it is suitable for you, and don't want to rely on others to disturb your own development.

    Submit your resume to the Sakura Hall Recruitment**, what is the future worry-free, Zhilian, talent** is more famous. There is also the possibility to go.

    Take a look at the local talent market, it is quite easy to work early, and then choose the right job by yourself. Hope mine.

    Can help you Li Bi.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When everything is a thing of the past, we should face today and the future, when love has slipped away, we should think of liberation, I don't rule out real love, but since we are not together, why should we force it, love is a topic that people can never finish! As long as we work hard to love and work hard to make each other happy, we will have no regrets and regrets!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Do it with your heart ... If you put your heart into it, the other party can feel it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Refer to the matter of Li Wei Xiaobao and A Ke in Lu Ding Ji, and figure it out for yourself.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't know, did you do something wrong? Otherwise, how could she have given up?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    He may have wanted to break up for a long time or there is a situation, first point out his mistakes, and say that he corrected them, and then tell him that he has thought about it and notify you. You don't call him, if he doesn't reply, he may give up on you, you don't need to cry, make trouble and hang yourself,,,, you can ask him for some help technically + politely, don't mention the two of you first, you can say something else first, wait for him to say, you are talking,

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Change your shortcomings Find a best friend to help you analyze.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't be blindly afraid of breaking up, calm down and think about it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Men and women should communicate with each other, and love can support and tolerate each other, and if you can't do this, it means that love has flown away, and it is difficult to redeem it. At the moment doing what he likes and saying what he likes, maybe it may be possible to ease up.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let's wake up, since he is good to you, you must know how to cherish, two people are together, it is mutual, not his unilateral tolerance, you must understand, love him and respect him, every time you are angry, don't break out, hold back Think about whether you should be angry, learn to control your temper, and it is also a way to let yourself grow.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There is a kind of love called letting go.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you are in a secondary city, it is better to open a retail store in order to seek stability. Mainly retail food and other daily necessities, there is basically no risk. Fifty or sixty thousand believe that it is still possible to open a good store, and the business is not very busy.

    But you have to pay more attention to the market and find some products that sell well in the market, which is easier said than done, so find out for yourself.

    If it is in a first-tier city, it is quite difficult, first, the market is saturated, and second, the cost is high. So it's better to develop in a second-tier city.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Find someone you have to do with you to make makeup. Near-line.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Let's open a clothing store, it's also very idle, you and your mother also have something to wear! It costs a lot of money to open something else....

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Still want to be friends with him? Can you do it as if nothing happened, like a friend cares about him? Or are you reluctant to have his unique tenderness for you?

    Actually, you can ask him the reason for the breakup. After all, it's been separated for a while, if you feel the need. However, you have to resist the blow.

    Because there are two reasons: 1 is that he doesn't love you anymore, and 2 is that he has a hard time. Neither of these reasons will make you feel better.

    If it is 1, it is equivalent to rubbing salt on your wounds, and if it is 2, it means that he does not love you as he imagined, he does not trust you, and does not believe that you can share the hardships with him. What is left for your good, that's just an excuse. There are so many separate explanations ...

    Personally, I think that being separated is being separated, don't hold hands easily, and don't let go easily. Since we've come to this point, it's futile to be too nostalgic...

    Comfort yourself ... If he wanted to tell you, he would have said it a long time ago.

    The most important thing now is to ** yourself first... Wait until you calm down. Thinking back, the explanation of the results does not seem to be as important as imagined... Because the damage is the same ...

    I hope you are happy ... FIND YOURSELF ...

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Just ask the people around him.

    Or maybe his heart is gone

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Either you're not good enough, or he's tired of it, hehe, haven't you thought of any other way than to redeem it? Let's let him fly, for example.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The world is as black as a crow, and men are like that. The reason for the breakup, he doesn't love you anymore. Maybe he still loves you, but he has a better choice.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Give each other and yourself a little time to think carefully before deciding!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you want to make amends, apologize sincerely, and admit your mistakes regardless of whether it is you who is at fault or not. That way, even if she doesn't forgive you, she won't treat you as an enemy. You and her have the possibility of breaking through the realm and reuniting.

Related questions
22 answers2024-07-17

In fact, I think love or not depends entirely on others, you can not love him, but it does not mean that others no longer love you, for the details of feelings, everyone will have the opportunity to be troubled, do not want him to love you anymore, then you should talk to each other seriously, let him really understand that you have no feelings for him at all, maybe he will know and retreat!

15 answers2024-07-17

Marriage is the best way to go

26 answers2024-07-17

Because you have loved, because of the pain, you will want to forget, but forgetting a former love, it takes a lifetime, although you have learned to be calm, but also enrich yourself, but inadvertently, you will always unconsciously think of each other, this is normal. The only thing you can do is go with the flow and don't be afraid to think of the other person. It is better to remember a person than to forget a person, so that only beautiful memories can make you happy and make you face future happiness positively.

9 answers2024-07-17

If you really love her

Then the biggest wish is that she is happy and happy! Even if she doesn't give you this chance, it doesn't matter. >>>More

8 answers2024-07-17

Your accommodation is taken for granted in his eyes, love is mutual, and if you blindly cater to it, the result can only be to lose yourself. Try for a while, no matter what you think, don't take the initiative to contact him, don't care so much, if he calls, no matter how much you want to chat with him, you must refrain yourself from saying that you have something to do and talk about it. See how he reacts, and if he senses a change in you, and has a reaction like anxious, it proves that he is still thinking about you, and you can continue. >>>More