What the hell does he treat me, my boyfriend says I will treat you as whatever you treat me

Updated on psychology 2024-07-17
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Do you like him yourself?

    If you like it, you should take the initiative. Don't say just confess to him, hint or ask him explicitly how he feels about you. Ask him what you think.

    If you don't like him, take the initiative to distance yourself. Or just tell him, don't be like this, others will misunderstand.

    I think you care a lot about him, it should belong to the first case, right?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's likely that he's moved by you, but he's not sure how it feels, and he's still confused.

    If you want to have his care, don't think about anything, and when he is sure of his feelings, he will naturally confess to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is very important to be a man's face.

    In fact, in his heart, he has long regarded you as his girlfriend.

    It's just that he hasn't faced it yet.

    Because you guys are so natural.

    No one deliberately pursues a purposeless relationship, and naturally has feelings for each other.

    All that needs to be done now is to face this head-on.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I guess I'm that kind of boy.

    I love a girl who used to be my tablemate for 5 years now.

    I'm good to her, and she knows I'm good to her, but I'm not too public, so I'm good to other girls, so my reputation among girls is good.

    She understood my thoughts, but she didn't say anything, she just said that we were good friends.

    I miss her when she's away, and I feel sad when she's sad.

    Congratulations! You have a boy who really likes you, seize the opportunity, there is a limit to the boy's waiting, no matter how good the boy is!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Stupid, why do you have to confess to you, isn't it better for you to take the initiative yourself, in the future, he was snatched away by other girls, and you will regret it too late

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you like it, you can chase it, it's normal to support you

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Talk to him, ask him what he means, and tell him what you feel in your heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. You can directly say that I regard you as my own lover, because the care for you is also a kind of help to me, as long as the feelings between each other are sincere, you can get along for a long time, when the other party says that you regard me as what you are, it means that there is an attitude of longing in your heart, and you should take the initiative to explain to the other party, only in this way can the feelings of both sides be deeper, and when you encounter difficulties in the future, you can take the initiative to help each other solve.

    My boyfriend says I'll treat you like whatever you do.

    You can directly say that I regard you as my own lover, because the care for you is also a kind of help to me, as long as the feelings between each other are sincere, you can get along for a long time, when the other party says that you regard me as what you are, it means that there is an attitude of longing in your heart, and you should take the initiative to explain to the other party, only in this way can the feelings of both sides be deeper, and when you encounter difficulties in the future, you can take the initiative to help each other solve.

    He's saying that I'll treat you for whatever you think of me?

    I feel like it doesn't matter.

    When a man asks you what you think of me, it means that you are a very expectant feeling, at this moment you should take the initiative to tell him your true psychology, only when both sides understand each other, can you help each other more in the future life, only in this way can the relationship between two people be more stable.

    When a boy says such a thing to a girl, it shows that the boy is not confident.

    Men want to be simple as long as they accompany themselves, and girls want to use reasonable control policies.

    Because once I said he had broken up once.

    Long-distance relationships. He used to tell me what he did, but now he doesn't do it his own way.

    That's how he is, and so am I.

    A boy's mind is not as good as a girl's mind, it's relatively simple, it's often what the girl says, and when you ask something like this, it's the boy who is afraid that his sincerity will be let down, so the feeling has changed after breaking up and getting back together, and it should: 1Communicate calmly with the other person, express your feelings, and understand the other person's inner thoughts; 2.

    Reflect on the reason for the breakup, if it is your own mistake, you must correct it in time, and tell the other party, so that the other party can understand the true feelings in your heart; 3.You can go to the place where you once dated, feel the happiness of the past, and evoke the happiness in your heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's what I thought.

    In fact, I believe you also understand that you already have a vague answer to this feeling in your heart.

    It's just that you want to prove it, or you want him to say it himself, whether it's what you like to hear or what you don't want to hear.

    You just want to hear him speak from him, at least to have an explanation and explanation of the past and the present.

    But I don't think it's necessary, why bother to say it or drill this dead end, no matter what he thinks, the key is you.

    What do you want, it is an unknown stupid waste of your youth, waiting for a distant word.

    Or cherish yourself, cherish time, and realize your own value, so as to reposition your life, value orientation, and love orientation, and take the initiative to get the happiness that truly belongs to you.

    If it were me, I would give myself a chance, and at the same time I would give her a chance, and giving myself a chance is to prove that you are worthy, at this moment you and him are at a new starting point, as soon as the starting gun sounds, you should move forward bravely, and you should not look around him to see how he is, how far he has run, whether to stop and wait for him, and so on. And you should continue to move forward, because the distance is not very far, and if he wants to chase you, he will definitely be able to meet you at the end of the line, I am afraid, you are wishful thinking, knowing that he does not want to run, and you still pull him hard, which is unfair to him, on the one hand, it is difficult for strong people, on the other hand, waste his energy and time in vain, why bother.

    So to give him a chance is actually to prove whether you are wrong about him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's just a small fight, how old are you, let's analyze it

    Your boyfriend has low self-esteem, no matter what the reason, he is very timid or even cowardly, he hopes and fantasizes that you understand him and will take the initiative to comfort him.

    He is a very fearful person, although I don't know why, but he just likes you to take the initiative, take the initiative to love him, take the initiative to find him, so that he feels safe.

    It doesn't matter if he's passive, sad, or simply self-indulgent, anyway, if he thinks like this, he will definitely not work, and if he likes it, he likes it in vain.

    He treats you as a must, spiritual sustenance, and his feelings have no sense of belonging, escapism.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can ask him how much he loves you, whether you like him as a friend or a partner, and you talk about it together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    According to a man's intuition, he should have a woman other than you, and if he also likes you, he will definitely take the initiative to contact you, and when he likes someone, he will always miss someone.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you have to ask yourself if you really love him, it may just be an impulse to protect.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Netizens are very unrealistic, let's look at it, there are many good men in the world, why be obsessed with those.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What do you think of me as yours.

    Singing: Key.

    It turns out that I really don't understand.

    I don't know how tolerance can turn into indulgence.

    Practice what you want to say again.

    Pretend you're still on my left.

    I really don't understand what you want.

    Have you long wanted to break free?

    You didn't say anything hurtful.

    But I have to endure too much.

    What do you think of me as yours.

    It's just that friends aren't all you have.

    And so it left me again and again.

    Even attachment turned into torture.

    What do you think of me as yours.

    An unimportant temporary role.

    It's just a choice again and again.

    What exactly is the love you want.

    Please tell me.

    It turns out that I really don't understand.

    I don't know how tolerance can turn into indulgence.

    Valentine's Day photos on my phone.

    But it became the director of my heartache.

    I really don't understand what you want.

    Have you long wanted to break free?

    The silence at the end of the picture freezes.

    You didn't even say goodbye.

    What do you think of me as yours.

    It's just that friends aren't all you have.

    And so it left me again and again.

    Even attachment turned into torture.

    What do you think of me as yours.

    An unimportant temporary role.

    It's just a choice again and again.

    What exactly is the love you want.

    Please tell me.

    What do you think of me as yours.

    It's just that friends aren't all you have.

    And so it left me again and again.

    Even attachment turned into torture.

    What do you think of me as yours.

    An unimportant temporary role.

    It's just a choice again and again.

    What exactly is the love you want.

    Please tell me.

    If leaving is the only outcome.

    What is the reference to start.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Women are like this, don't think about it so much, there are a lot of women like this, don't believe it easily, since you broke up, just let it be, otherwise it will be your friend's who will be hurt in the end.

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