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Ask him in person, or in another way. If he has you in his heart, he will consider your feelings. If he is still obsessed with his former girlfriend, regardless of your feelings.

Then I suggest you seriously consider your feelings for each other. Although the first love is unforgettable, no one can forget it, but there is one point, that is, to take the current lover seriously, because feelings are selfish. Even if he can't forget the past, he should consider your feelings.

I've had similar experiences, but fortunately my ending was good.

Do you think he can really do it enough to forget about his former girlfriend completely? You should know that's not possible, because my former boyfriend and I also broke up because of this. Don't you think it's better for him to love her and think about himself?

Can you accept that he loves you and is with you and thinks of another woman? At least I couldn't do it, so we split up.

Being nice to you doesn't mean you have to be with him, and if you're not with others, how do you know that maybe others will be better for you? Do everything before you think it through. But I know that even if you are ruthless and break up with him, you still love him and will miss him, but in a few months or years?

Maybe you've forgotten about him a long time ago. And if you keep going like this, you're only going to sink yourself deeper.

The last loser is always the woman.

Women can be stupid, they can not be smart, but they can't deceive themselves.

But if you really love him and don't want to break up with him, then you can also give him time to think clearly and come back to you, but the premise must be that your boyfriend is not the kind of indecisive man", otherwise even if he makes a decision, it is the same as not doing it.

Try to communicate with him more, if it's not possible, then try to give up in style, this kind of person is not worth loving yourself.

You should tell him clearly about his former girlfriend and ask him if he wants to break up.

Likes are all in one piece, age is not an issue. Why can't I accept others, is it because I already like him, and I don't know? ?

Feelings are such a thing, whether it is a man chasing a woman, or a woman chasing a man, it is useless to hint, you must say it directly, whether it is said in person, or ** text message, or QQ, in short, it must be made clear, otherwise the two parties have been ambiguous, even if both parties like each other, if they don't say it, it is very likely that they will miss it!

According to your situation, you have two choices, one is to socialize with him more, pay attention to his friends, and you can slowly know if he has a girlfriend.

The other is to make it clear to him on QQ or by text message, I want to say to your face that you don't dare. After saying it clearly, no matter what the result is, you must face it calmly. Kiss. You need to be brave!

I wish you a happy marriage as soon as possible!

Since the other party is still hesitating, you can temporarily let the two parties calm down and not need to contact. Sometimes it's also a good idea to be calm for yourself so as not to get hurt. Personally, I feel that since he already knows your mind and does not express his position, it is estimated that you have little hope.

Don't ask for adoption, but think deeply.

In my opinion, he is your sister.

And if he really likes you.

I think you'd better wait for him to confess to you.

If you're a brave enough girl, then go confess and tell him how you feel about him. If you are a more passive girl, then I think you can be special to him, for example: accept more care from him when you come out to play, be more considerate to him, etc., which is equivalent to making him feel that you are different from other people.

Also, my question about your current situation is: You just talked to him on the Internet and found that you have a tacit understanding? Don't have real-world contact?

I think if you want this relationship to get off to a good start, you have to get to know each other better, whether the other person is really what you think they are, whether they are really the person you are looking for. It really feels right, then, be brave enough to love Even if you may be hurt in the end, it is still a worthy memory. However, I believe that your sincerity will be exchanged for good memories, come on my girl....

This is really a problem, such not accepting and refusing is the most headache, and it is also the most tiring, and you have to guess his mind from time to time, I don't know what he is thinking. It feels like you're chatting with him very much, which means that he has a certain charm, and he's chatting with others too, it's not your advantage, I think, girls should not be too active, easy to get hurt, he's half-pushed, it's not good. I feel like he should have someone he likes more, either he has a girlfriend or he hasn't caught up yet.

There are also girls who are too active, and boys will not have a good impression of you. Even if we are together in the future, you will always accommodate him, is this what you want? On the other hand, you're just chatting about QQ, aren't you very familiar with each other, do you often hang out together?

This should be considered a kind of online chat. I can't get to know each other very well. You still don't know if they have girlfriends, which means that you really don't know enough, be cautious...

If the hint doesn't work, it's better for you to pick it out and talk to him, maybe directly, but if it doesn't work, the embarrassment in the future may be smaller than if you both know it but don't talk about it, maybe you can become a real friend, I don't know if you will do it, anyway, I got a friend in exchange for this.

My husband is similar, and he likes to talk about how I dress up or something, and I'm annoyed. In fact, I'm very frugal, I only buy skin care products, Shenma makeup and the like rarely buy, just this he said I was a loser, I was angry and raised the price of my skin care products from double digits to three digits, and warned him to say that I would return to **, and he would never talk about me again.; 002-) View the original post.

No one is perfect! Have a good chat with him and say you hate him this way! My husband is the same, he said I was stupid, I was simple, he didn't let me play with male friends or classmates, he said that people outside are very bad, and marriage is even more exaggerated!

Once I went to play with a group of classmates, he always beat me **, so I lost face, and then my classmates asked me to play and he didn't let me much, and now they don't dare to call me to play, and he can play as much as he wants, I can't! I don't feel free at all! He took care of the clothes I bought before I got married, but now I may not care about it because I am married to him, and I may have been educated by me.

I often lose my temper with him! I don't have freedom, he has to be angry! That's it, let's understand each other!

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mm is already very happy, okay In other words, think about it yourself, did he help you find the aunt's clothes Isn't it all tightly wrapped for you? That's because your husband thinks you're his own and doesn't want others to see it, men are like this, and the aesthetic vision of men and women is different, just like me, I like the clothes, I think they look good when I wear them, but the boys around me think they don't look good, they think I'm wearing very strange, and then I went with them to buy clothes, and I don't think the clothes I bought back are good, but the boys I met after I wore them all said that I was very beautiful and good at dressing up, and I was worried View the original post

Say that you are stupid men do not necessarily love you in their hearts, some men like stupid girls, because of simple thinking, saying that you lack social experience is to say that you are simple, afraid that you will be deceived, the taste of clothes, personal aesthetics are different, maybe he said that your clothes are not good-looking because he doesn't want you to wear too good to let others look at it, many men are like this, that is, there is a little big man, but the reason why he still loves a person; 002-) View the original post

Reply to the post of Stop and turn back, I do feel very happy, but we quarrel because he said I can't stand it, because I care too much about what he says! But he just can't change it, no matter how angry I am, he'll just restrain it for a few days at most... Maybe I'm asking too much, but I think I'm really losing my self-confidence, and even my self-esteem!

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Someone with little experience floats by... But mm, let's talk to him properly, your relationship is really dangerous if it goes on like this. View the original post

In fact, you are already very happy. After all, you have a husband. And everything goes along with your husband. After marriage, it is more agreeable to you than before marriage. More people are still confused. Or betrayed. View the original post

Hungry, my husband's vision is not bad, and he often gives me advice... Usually I hardly hit me, I will say anything, my wife is the most perfect, haha, isn't it too flamboyant! View the original post

003-) My family often hits me like this, saying that I have poor vision, but I don't bird him, and you have to take care of what I wear. But the skirt was short, and he absolutely strongly asked me to change it off, and I was depressed to death... View the original post

003-) I feel the same way, I always feel that I have a good vision, but in fact, it is very earthy, are men like this View the original post".

You may not be suitable for being together, you can't stand the test, you can't be good to you, you have to believe in yourself, there must be someone waiting for you.

Tell him by your actions that you love him.

I've done stupid things like this, give up.

In fact, I am the same, I will wait for him by his side and help him in my own way.

So you're going to talk about the specific situation, whose heart is not made of stone.

Everyone is an object of neglect and perfunctory.

Maybe it's because of the short time, right? But as you said, he is not a person who can't say sweet words, but he won't say these things to you, maybe he is not sure about this relationship, you can ask him about his ex-girlfriend, ask how he broke up, just chat and ask like a friend, don't ask too much, you also said that he has an inferiority complex, if you really love him, take out your sincerity to him, care about him, let him feel that he can't live without you, true feelings are bland is true, but it can't be too bland, I believe that he also loves you, because he has said that at his age, he can't afford to play emotional games, and he just wants to find someone who loves each other, in fact, I'm similar to you, a boy I like doesn't like to talk, let alone sweet words, he doesn't like to talk, but he doesn't have anything to say to me, which also annoys me, and our relationship is also very flat, We've known each other for a year, and it's not as vigorous as other couples, but I'm used to it now, and that's not bad. As long as I feel that he really loves me, everyone has a first love, if you want a relationship that can be forgotten, what else can such a man do? He can't forget that his ex-girlfriend explained that he is a person who is very infatuated with feelings, if you really love him, I believe you can replace her "Come on" in his heart.

If you feel the need to continue, if there is no need to hurry to the car location, lest you get hurt.

Personally, I think that some men are slow-burning type, the time you get along is too short, you belong to the right time to meet the right person, with this premise, love and feelings will develop in a good direction, don't care about his past, you have to face your future, instead of looking back at someone's yesterday, for their love to stick to the end, come on! ↖(

Ordinary life is the best way to test whether two people cherish each other.

Secondly: love does not necessarily have results, and some people love recklessly even though they know that there is no result, so if you still love your boyfriend, don't give up until he says to give up.

Finally: it is better to work in one area, and the relationship will fade after a long separation.

Now free to fall in love, what does he care about his sister and parents, it will not be the two of you living together in the future, don't be restrained, the appearance is given by your parents, the key is to see what your boyfriend thinks, and now he is shaken before he gets married, and he will live together for decades after getting married, and sooner or later he will get tired of it, do you believe him? Is he worthy of your trust?

Don't be influenced by the outside world, love is your own business! Don't be afraid, there are no ugly women in the world!

I wish you to find your true love soon!

If he loves you, then he cares about you, so if you don't have a place in his heart, then you won't be happy together

About him playing with his ex-girlfriend, I don't know if he is a person who is not emotional, if he is, then you don't have to think about it

I wish you happiness

It depends on what your boyfriend thinks...

He can do whatever it takes ...

The happiness of two people can be set aside from the shackles of feudal arranged marriages...

It's a big deal not to have more contact with his parents in the future, but you have to respect each other's parents.

Why is he always hesitating, waiting for him quietly.