What to do if you quarrel with an unreasonable teacher

If you are right, stick to your own principles, but also remember that you should pay attention to the occasion when you quarrel, so as not to let everyone lose face, the face of this world is the most important, maybe the teacher will wear small shoes for you in the future.

After the quarrel, remember to apologize, express your dissatisfaction and grievances, and reason with the teacher, but don't get angry, and the matter will be solved.

Quarrel and quarrel.

No big deal.

If he is unreasonable, he should be argued.

But remember.

It's over when the quarrel is over.

In the end, it is still necessary to give people a step.

After all, people are also teachers.

We in China have always promoted the principle of respecting teachers.

So when I was angry, I was punished and I confessed.

Don't take it seriously.

Later, I met people.

When it's time to say hello, keep calling.

We can't be stingy.

After that, he was unreasonable.

Let's continue arguing with him.

Anyway, yes. Don't take it to heart.

We respect good teachers.

Not good. If it's time to lose your temper, we'll have it.

And call on everyone to send it together.

It depends on the occasion!! If you quarrel in front of all your classmates, it's your fault, and even if you're right, it's your fault. Accompany the teacher in public, and then reason with him (her) in private, and the teacher will still think of you in his heart at that time!

In today's society, this is like this, giving teachers enough face in public! It's up to you to do it privately!! I believe you are the best.

If you're right, stick to yourself.

If the teacher can't communicate with the parents for a while, you can communicate with the child first! In the process of continuing to care for the child, enlighten the child's correct perception and feedback to the parents to understand that the teacher's discipline is right and is truly conducive to the child's growth. A good class teacher and teacher will benefit the child a lot, and a civilized and moral family environment will benefit the child for life.

On the contrary, a parent who is already unwilling to manage the student and directly wants to push the child into the school gate and ignore it, which will only ruin the child.

Especially when the head teacher still wants to pull him, and the parents will only look for the responsibility of the school teacher, at this time they must be clear about what their original intention is. Whether it is to stand on the opposite side of the school or to stand on the same side as the school, the students themselves must be able to feel it.

Communication Skills:

1. Packaging bad news. Henry Ford, the American automobile magnate, usually arranged for assistants to reply to those who asked for him, and sometimes when he refused, he would be extraordinarily respectful, such as inviting him to a snack or lunch.

Of course, it is also necessary to speak from a different perspective. For example, if a shopping guide wants to tell a customer that her feet are bigger and one is small, it is more likely that the customer will pay than telling him that "this foot of yours is bigger than that foot" and saying, "Mrs., this foot of yours is smaller than that foot".

2. Great wisdom is foolishness. The pursuit of excellence is inevitable for everyone to meet their own needs for achievement, but be careful not to let your perfect light sting the eyes of others. Especially in the face of some people who are more stubborn, conservative or hostile, don't always try to prove yourself to convince the other party at the beginning, appropriately restrain a little, be decent, and approach more people "moisturizing things silently".

Then, if you make a splash at the right time, you won't bury yourself. A management psychologist specifically pointed out that even when talking to subordinates, don't say the word "I" in one mouth.

3. Don't "grab credit". Psychology has found that when people find that a leader shows a little bit of individualism, they will become apathetic and even hostile. Conversely, leaders who hide behind the scenes and are less visible are more universally respected.

Whether it is a class teacher or a classroom teacher, the bottom line must be guarded in education and teaching, and corporal punishment or disguised corporal punishment must not be used to punish students, so that they cannot find the truth. Education is not omnipotent, teachers are not saviors, we cannot save all students, and it is more admirable to choose to give up than to choose to charge into battle.

No matter what kind of fallacy you hear, you must learn to deal with it coldly, not answer, not explain, and not get angry, so as to avoid "short-handed encounters", otherwise you will have-for-tat confrontation and "endless troubles in the future".

For the vast majority of teachers, I believe they have encountered a similar situation. But we should also deal with parents reasonably, instead of being led by parents, otherwise we will not be able to reach the same idea with parents, or even directly conflict with parents. 1. Think from the perspective of parents

When we deal with unreasonable parents, in order to better convince parents, we must think more from the position of parents and think more about them, so that even unreasonable parents will be moved by the sincerity of teachers. Because in the past, I have encountered a similar situation, although I am only a kindergarten teacher, but in the face of unreasonable parents, I will also feel very scoundrel, so later I adjusted my mentality, and finally dealt with the relationship between parents and myself.

2. Look at things and talk

When we deal with different things, we deal with them in different ways, so when we solve any thing, we need to deal with everything according to the actual situation, so that it is more convincing. Because any reasoning is ineffective, only after we grasp the key points, can we better face it. In the past, I was always disgusted with this kind of thing, and I always had a mentality of escaping, but it was not until I met the mentor in my life that I had a significant change and dared to confront my parents in person, instead of being fearless.

It's not terrible to meet an unreasonable parent, it's scary because we don't even have the courage to face it. Although the profession of teacher is very high, but each profession has its own difficulties, so we must not easily underestimate any profession, but to understand with our hearts, so that we can truly appreciate their conscience and hardship, I hope everyone can adopt such a concept.

Parents' selfishness and self-esteem are heavy, and there is a serious tendency to be unreasonable, so they must not stand up, and they often work very passively. As a teacher, parents are still a little in awe in their hearts, and it is not difficult to grasp the initiative, and they will accept him according to the parents' wishes.

It is not uncommon for teachers to encounter vexatious parents at school, but the choice of working methods often plays a great role, such parents must be cold when they meet, do not talk about his child's advantages when they meet, and calmly say that his child's poor performance and shortcomings in school, the purpose is to brake his prestige first.

The first step is peace of mind. When parents start to be unreasonable and unreasonable with us, we must first maintain a calm mind, not have conflicts with parents, and deal with the matter calmly.

The second step is to explain why. Although the parents are unreasonable in front of us, we still have to explain the reasons clearly. Whether parents can listen to it or not, at least we will explain the reasons and have our own position.

The third step is to seek help from others. If the parents are still vexatious after explaining the reason, then you can seek the help of other experienced teachers or school leaders, you can seek some methods from them, or you can ask them to help mediate.

Finally, I would like to say that experience is slowly gained through the accumulation of daily life, and through my own daily experience and the method of asking experienced teachers, I will eventually gradually form my own style of doing things.

Teachers should face it rationally, don't be too entangled, don't lose confidence too much, believe that the facts have their own judgment, first deal with it coldly, don't pay too much attention to it, for some ruthless and unreasonable parents, if they take things more and more seriously, the more they will "be unreasonable". Teachers should also adopt certain strategies to retain all verbal and written evidence of parents' personal attacks on teachers, and if the matter is finally necessary, they can take legal channels.

After learning about the parent's situation, the teacher can calmly communicate with the parent and his family under the auspices of the school leader and the local village committee, help the parent raise awareness, and eliminate the parents' grievances or misunderstandings.

Basic school education is a group education, with a certain degree of discipline and standardized management, students in school discipline and behavior education management and safety education work must be placed in the first place in the education and teaching link, in order to ensure that the school education and teaching work is carried out in an effective and orderly manner, school student education management is based on class management, parents and schools should do a good job of comprehensive communication in the process of class student management, jointly promote the development of students, parents should effectively cooperate with the teacher's student management work, Help children correct the problems existing in the management of education and teaching, help educate students to correct mistakes, and standardize students' bad behavior habits. This is the need of education at present, the need for the development of the educational situation, and the inevitable requirement for the prosperity and development of the country's education economy.

As a teacher, there are few people who do not encounter unreasonable parents, especially the homeroom teacher, so it is also a compulsory course to understand the student's family situation and parents. Since many people in the society regard teachers as enemies, and many parents lack a minimum of respect for teachers, then, for teachers, they should be good at using different methods to deal with different vexatious parents.

In reality, there are often some parents who attack teachers, insult class teachers, and accuse teachers of work in various channels for trivial things, and the arbitrariness is relatively large, the reasons are diverse, the reasons are different, the attitude is ruthless and unreasonable, arrogant, arrogant, arrogant, threatening teachers, making it difficult for teachers to carry out their work, and they are very unhappy, but all teachers who have been engaged in the work of class teachers will more or less encounter such parents or things.

Teachers sometimes encounter unreasonable parents in the process of teachingThisDon't conflict with your parents at any time, because if you have a conflict with your parents, your parents will become more and more unreasonable, and it is likely to be your own fault at that time, and you should avoid positive intersections. If parents really have any problems, they can explain to their parents that they can still insist on going their own way despite their own efforts, they can ask parents to communicate with the relevant leaders or the person in charge of academic affairs, so that they can also avoid relevant punishments. Therefore, teachers should also learn to get along with parents, so that they can develop their careers more smoothly.

There will always be one or two opportunities in the teaching career to meet unreasonable parents who are very arrogant and spoiled their children. Maybe other parents in the school think it is a normal thing, but it is not normal in front of this parent. Therefore, teachers should maintain their own professionalism and upbringing, and they should be reasonable in the face of unreasonable parents.

And you should communicate with the parents to explain the reason of the matter, if the parents still do not follow, then they can reflect the relevant situation to the leader. Let the leader come forward to mediate in this matter, but if you don't control your emotions and conflict with your parents, there will be a big conflict, and you will be the one who is responsible. So for the sake of your own career, don't conflict with your parents.

Teachers need to deal with many problems in their teaching careers, so teachers must develop strong psychological qualities at the beginning. In this way, I can help myself improve these psychological qualities, so that I can not only take care of teaching, but also be able to communicate with those naughty students and unreasonable parents, and even face the pressure of the leader, which can also be handled well. Therefore, we must strengthen our psychological quality.

The job of a teacher is very happy, but it is also very hard, so everyone who is about to become a teacher or has become a teacher must deal with the relevant pressure.

School teachers have to deal with students and parents every day, because there are more students, it is inevitable to encounter some unreasonable parents, so how should teachers deal with this kind of thing? I think there are several main ways to do this.

1. Strengthen communication.

I don't think there is a big conflict between teachers and parents, and everyone's original intention is to hope that children can learn better. Sometimes their children do not study well, which makes parents feel that it is the responsibility of teachers. In addition, in the parent group, teachers may criticize or not praise some children who are not serious enough in their studies, which will also make parents misunderstand that their children are not treated well by teachers.

In fact, teachers treat students equally, and sometimes it is also the teacher's responsibility to educate children. It doesn't mean that the child who is criticized by the teacher is a bad child, many times the teacher just reminds the child and hopes that the child can be better.

Second, affirm your child more.

As a minor, many of the children's behaviors need to be restrained by adults. In the process of growing up, it is inevitable to make mistakes. Teachers should see more of the child's strengths, encourage and support the child, and give the child a positive response.

Parents will also sincerely thank the teachers when they see their children's progress. If the teacher is sincere in helping the students, I am sure that the parents will not be unreasonable.

3. Reflect on yourself.

I think both teachers and parents should reflect on themselves. In daily life, in the face of so many people and things, is there something wrong with me? As the saying goes, if a person is not a sage, he can do no wrong.

As a parent, it is important to understand the work of a teacher, who is dealing with dozens of different children, and it is impossible to do everything in detail. As a teacher, we must also understand the hearts of parents who want their children to become Jackie Chan.

In general, parents should be unreasonable when there is a problem, and the teacher should communicate with the parents well and talk about the problem. Education is a big deal, not something that can be achieved overnight, and schools and families should work closely together to make children learn better and grow faster.