I m very homely, how to change, I want to be generous, decent, and talk eloquently

Upstairs is very vague, the specific method is not mentioned at all, you are indeed learning Anthony's course, and the effect is indeed amazing, but you did not talk about the core, let me tell you, there is a little story.

Upstairs is very correct, what you learned is indeed Anthony's course, but what you said is very vague and difficult to start, let me tell you, first a little story:

Many years ago, there was a young man, at the age of 26, he was still poor, he achieved nothing, lived in a broken car every day, and made up his mind countless times to change his life and destiny, but there was no change at all, his future and future were gloomy, by chance, this young man came into contact with a peculiar course, he tried every means to learn a **phobia method, a failed person must have many fear factors, the method he learned is indeed amazing, In 30 minutes, he changed his bad character and habits one by one with this method, half a month, he was reborn like a new look, and then, he began to promote this method to the people around him, on-site phobia, on a national TV show, do a live demonstration, thus changing the lives and fate of many people, a year later, he became a millionaire, lived in a luxury residence, he put what he learned, into a set of audio courses, It can allow people to completely change their fate and character in 30 days, so as to reduce more troubles and poverty in the world, this set of courses called "Thirty Days of Potential Explosion" is popular all over the world, selling at least 25 million copies, changing the fate of countless people, I also came into contact with the course of "Thirty Days of Potential Explosion" by chance when I was in college, it was really effective, and completely changed a lot of my bad habits

Get out of the house. Anything is possible.

If you don't get out of the house, it's useless to tell you what to do.

It's good to have a little life experience, in the future life, pay more attention to open up your thinking, think about everything to the optimistic side, and pay more attention to the collection and expression of eloquence, and insist on it for a few months, of course, this is all incidental exercise, naturally a little longer, I didn't like to talk before, and then analyzed that I just didn't like to talk in front of the teacher and female friends, I used the method I learned from Anthony's course, I couldn't remember the name of the course, and quickly changed myself, and the specific method was the original, Speaking is equal to unnatural and uncomfortable, the mentality of being ridiculed, changing to speaking is equal to happy and casual expression linked together, it's OK, the method is very magical, the effect is very good, you can try it,

Otaku has nothing to do with being generous. Maybe you don't have a topic or can't get along.

Thirty days after the potential explosion, I saw it in **, it looks very good, there was something at the time, I forgot to buy it, I didn't know there was such a story in it, that magical method is very tempting, I will go over and see it now.

To be generous and decent from the inside out, it is useless to look good.

Open more books, open autosuggestion, and participate in more speeches or something

Eat more, and those who dare to eat in front of others regardless of their image are very generous.

Smiling, unhurried, calm, and most importantly, calm, so that you can be generous and decent.

First of all, you should dress yourself well, change your new clothes from head to toe is conducive to improving self-confidence, it is best to be a little more formal, walk with your head up, chest up, abdomen, and the most important thing is to have self-confidence. Then I need to read some books on etiquette and learn some etiquette for others to look at me.

Make it clear! Let's go back to the whole point.

According to Bey! You must learn from a strategic, and you must learn from a gentle and virtuous person if you are generous and decent!

I'm one of those people.

But now it doesn't feel like it matters.

Say what comes to mind.

Don't blindly look for words.

On the contrary, it feels contrived.

If you really want to say something, learn from those who talk a lot.

Me too, you don't have to pay too much attention to your personality, try to say a few words, and maybe you'll become good friends.

Well, I'm like that, sometimes my brain is very clear, I feel fresh breathing, my eyes are bright, my speech is more organized, I feel like a different person, this situation is not particularly much, more is a little sluggish, manic, depressed. There is a condition called manic depression.

Life is always changing, and emotions can change for better or worse depending on the environment, so don't pay too much attention to the details. As long as you listen more to the time when you are impetuous, and go out for a walk more when you are in a bad mood, some emotions will naturally change. Don't think that your negative emotions are bad, accept your negative emotions, and then listen to them, go out for a walk, and it will naturally change.

Silence is golden! You just make a stuffy gourd.

I want to know how old you are to be able to analyze.

I think you have to learn psychological cues first, tell yourself not to be afraid, and then specific activities, I think volunteering is very helpful, especially if you play with children, you try to go as often as possible, and you will be much more cheerful, and children have nothing to be afraid of (compared to people on the road), and yes, you have to go for walks a lot, and you will be scared at first, but if you are determined to change, you have to be brave. You can usually call your neighbors. Look at people with a smile often.

Or go to an amusement park, after all, in those noisy environments, you don't think anything will pay attention to you, so it's easier for you to blend in.

And you have good grades, you can be a tutor, you can raise children, you will be very happy.

Pay attention to the topics that your friends care about so that you don't feel isolated when you chat.

What about girlfriends is a topic to consider later, if you are really cheerful, girlfriends are definitely not a problem.

Buy some neat clothes, get a nice haircut, and you'll find that you're actually looking good to communicate with people, and you start by talking to people online, and you don't know anyone anyway, and when you talk to people around you, you're not so scared.

Let's learn to dance, not only to increase temperament, but also to increase charm, and boys who can dance are very popular.

Don't be unconfident, you remember that you are unique and there is no need to compare yourself to others. It may be a little awkward at first, but when you focus on enjoying the dance and enjoying the sport. The problem was solved.

Self-confidence is given to yourself, it is precisely because you don't dare to participate in more activities, you may be a little nervous or can't let go at the beginning, reading more is good but dead reading is useless, not only to read more to enrich your knowledge, the communication between people is actually very simple, when you are suspicious, you go to a good place to think! I suggest you read some philosophical books and go to more activities!

When people are born, they probably have their own personality, whether they are simple, silent, or public, and each has its own characteristics, which is what distinguishes it from others. But as I grew older and slowly integrated into society, my uniqueness began to wear and tear down little by little, and finally I had no choice but to become one of the majority. Such a fate is sad, but it is also quite costly to avoid assimilation.

The danger factor of resisting the society and the public with the strength of one person is self-evident. But there are people in the world who are not afraid of death. They use their mavericks to show that their lives are different and valuable.

In this way, there are both gains and losses, but looking at the past and present, the gains outweigh the losses. What is lost may be the life of the public, loneliness, incomprehension and loneliness may accompany each other, and even relatives and friends will not tolerate each other, such a life seems unreasonable to ordinary people, but it is very meaningful to people who are attached to their own personality: to put it simply, they are happy; If you say it deeply, the pursuit of the true nature of life is the first and deepest meaning of life.

From this point of view, loss is not necessarily loss, but gain. Not to mention, staying true is the true nature of a big hero, a truly wonderful life.

Maybe you're a great man (*hee-hee......

The craziest scientist I've ever met, who is the leader in the lab, and when he walks to the podium to explain his stuff, he is timid and foolish in front of a lot of people in the audience. Right! Walking is unnatural, doing every movement unnatural, and really looks like a psychopath.

But no one could have imagined the heart of such a mad scientist, who could not measure his heart. I know that there was an experiment, and the result was clear: this scientist has a purer heart than anyone else, does not tell some lies, does not love money and beauty, and does not like the quagmire of business.

He has what he has made great things, and what he has is just a small and closed world, which can only accommodate himself.

So I just want to say one thing to you: be yourself!

Aren't you about to become a nerd, then I suggest you can read some inspirational books to see how those successful people are successful, you can learn a lot from them, it is better to imitate them.

Friend, you don't have to care too much about what others think of you, it will be very tiring.

It's good to be comfortable with yourself, so that you will find that you will naturally change naturally.

P.S. Actually, I'm also homely, but I feel happy.

Do what you do best.

If you have low self-esteem to the point where you feel that you are not good at anything, then choose a direction that you like to work hard and ignore others.

Soon you will know what self-confidence is.

Try to help people who are weaker than you and gradually develop self-confidence.

Imagine what the perfect person would be and try to do it.

Try to find a friend online and talk to him. Make yourself cheerful! That's how I do it!

Scold... I think you're pretty open right now, and you're talking so much nonsense on this page.

So be it: take that kind of mindset that you dare to speak up about online into real life, and don't be afraid. Think about it, even if you do, the sky won't fall.

If you are suspicious, you will be stuck to death, and naturally you will have a vicious circle, and other aspects are getting worse and worse, try to change your suspicious personality.

Let's go to boxing and start active physically.

Find a role model around you and learn from him.

Momentarily and on the contrary, it quickly returns to the good.

Go to the post bar to have a self-destruction guarantee, full of confidence!

Sincerity will make good friends, classmates should be very good at chatting, you can also join them.

It's nothing, I usually develop my self-confidence, so that you can let go no matter what time you want.

I can't do it well, but I'll try my best and one day we'll do the same. Believe in yourself.

What's this, everything needs to be exercised, and it will be good to exercise in the environment regularly.

In fact, you're just nervous, which is nothing like this for many people, don't feel inferior.