How does it feel to have an unreasonable mother?

No matter what you do, you have to follow her ideas, you will be disciplined if you don't agree with her, it's really a little tired, and many times you will be very resistant, but there is no way, after all, it is your own mother, more often you can only obey what you say, and do what she says if you are unreasonable.

Everything she said was right, and she could make sense if it didn't make sense.

I never care about other people's feelings, and I intuitively feel: if I pay a little for others, others should be obedient to me.

Regardless of whether others need it or not, it is always a hard work, and I always love to worry about it. Others don't want to pay attention to it and think that it's someone else's fault, and they always take care of it if it's not their own business.

Likes to impose one's own thinking on others. What others do wrong is always a strong reasoning, in fact? I always make the same mistake myself.

First of all, there must be a point of view, the home is not a place to be reasonable, it is a place to talk about love and affection, so even if the mother is unreasonable, do not clash head-on, you can be tactful and roundabout, as long as your ideas and practices are right, you always stick to it, every mother wants to see her children live well.

You will feel that everything your mother says is right, sometimes it's clear that she is wrong, you tell him that he still doesn't listen to anything, anyway, she always thinks that she is the boss of the family, you have no one to refute her, she doesn't think you are right, if you hit too much, you have to be scolded, absolutely sometimes the mother doesn't know why she is so strong.

There is such a mother who feels very depressed, she can't understand anything with her, she is always unreasonable, she feels unreasonable, and she doesn't dare to say anything to her mother, because she never reasones, doesn't listen to my opinions, and sometimes she is a little depressed, and feels that her mother is unreasonable.

Why are you scolding your brother? You see he's crying and he's sad right now."

He tore up the art work that I had been painting for a month."

Works of art? I thought it was a big deal. Can't redraw it, as for scolding him? ”

Mom, I'm glad I managed to find time to draw, and I'm going to hand in my homework this weekend, so you can ask me to redraw."

So what's not? If you want him to stick it for you or let him draw it for you, you are a sister and you scold him, it's your fault. ”

Speechless. I can't scold a word when I do something wrong, I want to cry in anger and run into an unreasonable mother.

Everything can only depend on her own, no matter how much you give her, she always says she doesn't give it, never considers that I also have a family, only thinks about herself and her brother, and always wants us to do what we have to do?

My mother wants me to do what she thinks is right, and she thinks that her ideas are the truth, and I must obey, otherwise she will say that I am ignorant and unreasonable. I usually give in to small things, but sometimes when it comes to matters of principle, even if she is angry, I won't listen to her.

1. Fighting evil with evil is more unreasonable than her.

2. Stay away from her.

Don't try to influence her, it's useless.

This is typical of common reason. It should be said that your mother is a very strong person, in fact, it is normal to say that this phenomenon is also very normal. In fact, if you think about it, every normal person often thinks that when doing things, they do it right, but whether what is right in her eyes is correct in the eyes of others is debatable.

Think about what you did that you didn't think was right.

Parents are immutable, and you have no power to change them. If you can't change others, you have to change yourself. Try to live independently on your own and change your lifestyle. In this way, it is good for your parents and for yourself, and at least it can put an end to the unhappiness on both sides.

It's not that the child is unreasonable with his mother, it's that you don't have the patience to communicate with each other. Don't blame her for your good, she has more experience than you, so you are afraid that you will stumble, and when you encounter something, you will not collide blindly, if the amount is not good, you can't force it, maybe it's a mistake, and then think of another way out, there is always a way for you to go.

That should be the reason why your mother doesn't care about you and is very unreasonable! She doesn't like you. I feel that you haven't done a good job like this, and I like to sprinkle my anger on you if you don't do a good job like that. Or maybe he worked very hard and tired. I don't want to tell you too much.

Mom is unreasonable? It mainly depends on the communication is not in place. No mother doesn't want her child to be good, her interference may be to tell you as a person who has come over, which will suffer, but her expression you don't like, there is a lack of good communication between you, sit down and have a good chat with your mother.

You are unfortunate that your parents do things without considering your feelings, and they want you to understand them and not talk back to them.

Haha, the same world and the same mother, all the same. It would be nice if you were away from home for a long time when you grew up and went to college, and I am now. Then the memory slowly faded, I only know that my mother is verbose now, but those specific things are forgotten, and then the older I get, I slowly understand my mother, if you take care of the housework and cooking at home, and then go to class (I am like this during the epidemic online classes at home) You will find that you will be really upset, because there are too many things to do, and you will see anything that is not pleasing to the eye, covering your face.

Because of menopause, try to understand.

Some people's personality is already sick and can't be changed, so you either accept it.

This is nature, the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, understand the mother more, let the mother change the impossible, child, uncle send you a word, if you want to change others, you must first change yourself.

Hello, why is my mother always unreasonable, my mother is unreasonable, because my mother loves you, so she is very strict with you about some things. So, you think he's unreasonable? Thank you. aqui te amo。

In the eyes of some parents, you have to listen to them for your own good, which is a very common phenomenon, and if you want to change this situation, you can only let them put you on an equal footing, so that they can have a good chat and solve some of each other's problems.

Have you communicated with your parents about these words, say everything you think in your heart, they are not roundworms in your stomach, how can they know what you think in your heart, they will know if you say it.

Depending on the situation, your mother may be more strict with you and consider it in many ways. That's what I do.

It's not unreasonable, it's the inappropriate expression ability that causes the child's disgust, communicate with the mother well, and don't intensify the conflict.

It doesn't make sense, others say she can't do it, she just says someone else, I'm really speechless,

It may also be concerned about you and for your good.

Mom's nagging is to shoot you for receiving unnecessary harm, and when you grow up, you will know that what Mom said is right.

Of course, it's very bad for your mother to be so unreasonable, but what to do, she is an elder, so I suggest you can talk to her on a good basis. Point out that mom's is wrong.

I have personal feelings about treating a mother who is not reasonable at all, because my mother-in-law is like that, he and my father-in-law live in my house, I helped my father-in-law find a small business to do, and then by the way to show us the children, he asked me to pay the nanny's salary every month, and also to honor them 2000 yuan a month, and he did not admit to borrowing my money for business, and I was completely speechless.

Since childhood, our mother has taught us that we must listen to our mother, don't you know? An unreasonable mother, first of all, you must have a certain ability to judge, whether the mother is unreasonable. If that's the case, you can say yes and do what you think is right!

But you must bear the consequences of what you think is right!

Then you don't need to reason with your mother anymore, you just need to be filial to her, but don't reason with him, because it won't work. So there are some things that I agree to discuss with my father rather than with my mother. Because I think my father is relatively reasonable and knowledgeable.

When we meet a mother who is not reasonable at all, we don't want to reason with the mother, because she herself will not listen to your reasoning, this kind of mother we must change the way to talk to her, if you reason with her directly, not only will it not work, but the matter will not be solved, it will make things more complicated, a tactful way to say it well, so that the mother herself can accept it.

As children, we should let our mothers go a little more, and sometimes the elderly are not very scientific in thinking about problems, and even a little stubborn, but there is no way, who calls us children. Just like when we were young, we were not sensible, they let me, now that I have grown up, it is time for me to let them when they are old.

As a parent, you are also very familiar with this situation, you can tell your own thoughts to the teacher, chat with your mother through home visits, can convey your thoughts to your mother's heart, and through your mother's good friend, tell her your own ideas, can also play a role, provided that the friend is more open-minded.

It's really a bit tricky to meet such a mother, you can't beat it, you can't scold it, you have to provide it. If you have the ability, it is best to find a suitable reason to work in the field, so that it will not hurt her, you will not be so embarrassed, earn more money for her, rest assured, she has her life circle and way, and she will live happily at home. You are always entangled with her at home, you are not happy, she will be unhappy, why bother, it is better to leave and maybe it will be clear.

I don't think it's that our parents are unreasonable, it's just that our parents love us very much and do it, and the method is just wrong. What mother in the world doesn't love her children, and as a child, she should also be understood.

I have been very naughty since I was a child, my mother will often teach me, always limit my entertainment activities, for fear that I will be hurt, every time something is right or wrong, my mother always blames me, always says that mine is not, but I do not refute my mother just stay aside and continue to do her own thing.

Because I know that my mother beats and scolds me for the sake of it, no matter how I say that my elders have traveled longer than me, and we don't have the accumulated social tests, and I love my mother very much, so I usually listen to my mother silently.

There is a way of speaking called a white lie, after all, it is your own mother, there are some things not to tell your mother, or to say it in some euphemistic way, even if it is a deception, it will make the mother have a state of joy, as long as you keep this state, you will slowly reduce the conflict.

Be a man with a grateful heart, after all, this is your mother, when you really work hard to become a talent, your mother will also be proud of you, and there are some things as long as you understand it, don't say it.

I think the original intention of parents is good, in the final analysis, it is for the good of their children, but sometimes the way parents do things can not be accepted by their children, such as your mother is very unreasonable, I think this is a very speechless thing.

First of all, I think you can reflect this problem to your father, you can say to your father, mother is very unreasonable in some things, I really don't like mother's approach, at this time Dad will definitely talk to your mother about this problem, because they are peers, so at this point Dad still has the right to say, under the persuasion of Dad, Mom may realize that sometimes she is a little unreasonable in doing things, and then she will improve herself.

Secondly, I think you can write a letter to let your mother know about this situation, because it is not very easy to say this problem in person, so you can write what you want to say and express on paper, and then give it to your mother, because this is not a face-to-face talk, it will not lead to an increase in contradictions, because we all look at it with a calmer mind when we see the words on the paper, so I think this is a better way. Your mom may have started to reflect on her own behavior when she saw the letter.

When your mother is unreasonable, you must not work against your mother, which will only cause greater contradictions, so we still have to find an appropriate opportunity to make my mother realize her mistake, and we want to find a way to let my mother get rid of this bad problem.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family and kinship:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.