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Don't continue to entangle, do you think you will be happy in the future even if you are together? No, because both of you already have a heavy burden on your hearts, so you have to leave him. Whether he can remarry or not is his business, and the mistake is not made by you alone, and you don't have to carry it alone.
Treat him as a passerby in your life, and don't have any more ties to him. This may be a bit cruel to you who love him, but it is undoubtedly the best choice. His wife's choice of divorce is very correct, how can such a man spend his life together, it's not that he is bad, but there is no trust at all.
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Not necessarily... As the saying goes, it's better to tear down a temple than to tear down a family! Indeed, I also despise Little 3, even if they don't get along, they also have their own = home, and they have children, and the children are innocent, just because you like to hurt her children. I can only say that you love someone you shouldn't love, and then he is the most criticized, since you don't like it at the beginning, don't get married, and what if you say you don't love his wife when you get married.
People who are really responsible are not easy to make mistakes. Even if you are wrong, you choose it yourself, what do you regret? First of all, it is necessary to determine whether his wife is still willing to be with him for the sake of the children, and then it is himself, it is difficult for them to be together and let it be, unless you take the initiative to contact his family and tell him your kind purpose, whether it will be good or not depends on how you do it, and then communicate with him well.
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If the woman still loves him, you can remarry if you leave, and if you don't love her, it's useless for you to leave.
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What a tangled story, four-cornered love!
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I will. In life, there are many people who always feel that their imaginary marriage is happy, so when they encounter a little family conflict, they feel that their marriage is unhappy, and they feel that their lover is useless, and they will have the idea of divorce.
If at this time, there is an extramarital affair outside, coupled with the sweet words of the other party, and the alliance is made, so I feel that I have found true love and happiness, but some people weigh the pros and cons again and again due to the fetters of their children, and finally choose to continue their marriage for the sake of their children.
But there are still some people who are carried away by the fantasy of a happy marriage, and finally ruthlessly abandon their children and choose to divorce! However, these people he did not actually understand the essence of marriage, what is marriage? Marriage is a couple of men and women living together, facing oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, pots and pans, facing a common livelihood, facing the trivialities and contradictions of life, and ignoring anyone's marriage.
Most divorced people in life eventually have remorse! They found that after remarriage, the new marriage is nothing more than that, and sometimes, it is not as good as the original marriage! The successor is not as good as the predecessor, because it is a halfway combination family, if both parties have children in the past, it must be a family where you quarrel and quarrel, and the contradictions are constant, it is simply hell on earth, life is better than death, and what happiness can be said.
But who do you blame? You brought it on yourself! Suffer as much as you want!
Therefore, love is sweet, marriage is bland, you don't think about marriage too ideally, if it is too ideal, you can only go to Ma Yun, Liu Qiangdong, and what other rich tycoons, they will give you food and clothing without worry! But it's also impossible for these people to give you sweet love, why? You should know.
In the world, in general, marriage is still good! Because the original marriage is a seamless whole that is fused by the feelings of the husband, wife, and children; What's yours is mine, and what's mine is yours; The child is biological, your child is also my child, my child is also your child, the family is emotionally integrated, regardless of each other.
But the remarried family is different, between them, yours is yours, mine is mine, your child is your child, my child is my child, there is a gap in the heart, there is a rift in the feelings, and the feelings are difficult to melt, so that a family can never form a seamless and perfect whole with each other! But it can only be a family, people together, half-hearted, divided, each with a ghost! In the end, quarrel for the children, quarrel for their own interests, quarrel for trivial matters, quarrel for each other!
In such a family, you can only be miserable, depressed, depressed! What about happiness!
Once you give up your children for divorce, the children's hatred for you will not be eliminated for life, and even if you make up for this family affection in the future, it will be useless. Because there has been a rift in the blood relationship, it will never be restored! Don't forget!
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No, I finally got a new life, why do I have to go back to the dire situation (=
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No, although divorce is related to the children, but it is the happiness of their own life, and they will not choose an empty shell marriage for the children, which is not good for the physical and mental health of the children.
Getting married and having children is not impulsive, and getting along with each other in life is not a momentary confusion! From meeting and following each other to seeing each other and hating each other now, it will not be a whim, there are always various reasons!
Life is like a flower, what kind of seed bears what kind of flower, but some are delicate and some are withered. Peonies can never produce roses! Because the cost is too great!
What you have to think about now is the problem between the two of you, it won't change much, but it's up to you whether you can tolerate it or not!
Many people will always talk about children, and an unhappy life is the real misfortune for children, and not all children of single parents are unlucky! Maybe children can't understand it now, but they will always grow up, they will always know life, and they will always have their own thinking! The grievances of the husband and wife, the husband and wife solve it themselves, if they must be imposed on the child, whether they are separated or not, the child is a sorrow, because misfortune is an infectious disease, infecting the people around them who care about themselves!
Let's break down the situation in detail:
First, since you already have children, it means that your relationship foundation was still very good. If you can resolve the conflict reasonably, and the parents love their children, then I suggest that you relax your divorce thoughts before thinking about it. Giving a child a healthy and harmonious family is very beneficial to his growth.
Second, if you are meeting an irresponsible husband, then it is advisable to take the children to divorce decisively. Although it is not easy to raise children, it is a waste of time and life to continue to hesitate.
Third, if neither of the above two is the case. So I suggest that before the divorce, think clearly, whether the children can be properly settled, and the life after the divorce will definitely be better than before the divorce? If you can't be sure, I think it's better to cherish the present moment and live the present life seriously!
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1. If the two of us choose to divorce due to a misunderstanding, and the misunderstanding is resolved, I will choose to remarry.
Many people will think that marriage is very sacred, so unless it is absolutely necessary, people will not choose divorce easily. After many people divorced, they found that the original two people can continue to be together, the original two people divorced because there was a misunderstanding between each other, and this misunderstanding was lifted step by step, both of them regretted it very much, I hope that if I was more sensible, ask a word more, and be more tolerant, maybe it will not be this ending, if one of them wants to remarry, the other person will not hesitate to agree.
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If I am still in love with him after the divorce, and it is not a matter of violation of principle to divorce, I may choose to remarry.
Couples can choose to remarry after divorce, as long as both parties can reach a consensus, regardless of previous suspicions, it is also good to remarry.
In marriage, if the other party makes a mistake of principle, whether it is a man or a woman, it is good to get together and disperse after divorce, and there is no need to remarry, but if it is not a matter of principle, it is just a trivial matter, in this case, the other party has changed, and two people can remarry!
There are still benefits to remarriage, at least having children in common, a home that has worked together, an emotional foundation, and so on.
If two people do have such and such contradictions, especially the discord in personality and three views, since they are separated, they should not remarry, because getting back together again cannot fundamentally solve the contradictions, or the old drama is repeated, and they will break up in the end. And if it is because of a misunderstanding, or an impulsive divorce on a whim, and so on to calm down with each other, they will regret it, and there are feelings, so the marriage of the chain huai should also have to remarry, after remarriage, they will think about their own mistakes in the past, and they will be happier and happier in the future, after all, people need a warm home, they all need a spiritual and life partner, and they also wish their married life a happy life.
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