Why do I have such thoughts now?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-13
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The true meaning of affection lies in not seeking.

    Loving someone is not about getting any benefit from them, you love someone and want to be good to them because you feel happy.

    That's why we criticize this as a ruthless time, because everyone is doing business while giving their feelings.

    When we love someone, we like to make sure that he loves me first, and if he doesn't love me, I don't want to love him.

    But the other party will also think like this, so the two have to wait for the good days to slip by.

    Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, too.

    Don't care how much the other person can give you, because you have nothing.

    You can also sacrifice for love, but this sacrifice must be made willingly, not aggrieved, reluctantly, and then ask the other party to repay you.

    Some people say: Great love should stand the test, but since the relationship is so precious, it should be carefully cared for, rather than being tested if there is nothing to do.

    It's like holding an egg in your hand, you should take care of it, not throw it on the ground and wonder how it can break!

    Don't test love, but don't be afraid of the test, and don't be afraid that the test will fail.

    Of course, we all hope that love can be talked about ordinarily and smoothly, and there will be no problems in a lifetime.

    But if love has to suffer some twists and turns, some blows, and some injuries, we can also stand up and accept it. If we do lose it, it is only superficial or formal, but we can have it forever in life.

    It. (In the process of love, it cannot be denied, it allows us to learn many things, regardless of the result of love.)

    In this day and age, on the one hand, we should not overestimate love, because love cannot allow us to overcome everything and get everything

    It's not entirely good, either;

    On the other hand, don't underestimate love, because love is a talent that everyone has, and don't be reluctant to give.

    When you meet someone who is right for you and who loves you.

    Choose what you love, love what you choose!

    Try to maintain your feelings well.

    But how do you measure whether love can last?

    There may be a criterion: you are more happy than bitter in love, and it makes you more motivated than you fall.

    It makes you more satisfied than you want.

    If there is no fame, wealth, and power in life, it is still possible to be happy.

    If there is no love in life, the chances of happiness are slim.

    It is good to be brave enough to welcome the love you have received, and try our best to enjoy the beauty of love, so as to avoid the pain and harm it will bring us.

    Look at it from an open-minded perspective.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The more people can't get something, the more they cherish it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you can't let go of your original girlfriend, then you shouldn't go to your current girlfriend. Now that you've found it, you have to take responsibility for her, not to mention that you're both interested in each other, what a rare thing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Greedy, if all men are like you, it's over.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because you are who you are.

    You're the kind of person you can't let go.

    Or someone who can't let go.

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