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I think it will, it's not good for the women in life to be too strong, in this way, it is easy to arouse the disgust of men, the family is prone to problems, and the relationship between the two people will definitely become worse and worse.
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Yes, because men themselves have strong self-esteem, they are under great pressure in the workplace every day, and home is their only comfort. Strong wives only make them more miserable.
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A strong woman in marriage will indeed make the man miserable, and the man will feel that he has no status in the family, and there will actually be a lot of problems in the relationship between the two people.
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It doesn't necessarily make all men miserable, but it does bore many men, because few men like women who are too strong. This can take a toll on their self-confidence and make them feel constrained.
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Of course, such a woman will make men feel miserable, and too strong women will make men feel particularly tired to get along.
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It will make men miserable. A strong woman never gives face to a man outside, and she looks high up at home, so that a man is very aggrieved.
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Such a woman can really make a man miserable, because men generally don't like strong women very much.
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Yes, usually men are a bit machismo, and they feel depressed in the face of strong women.
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Personally, I think that if in a marriage, the woman's personality is too strong, and if the man's personality also becomes very strong in the later stage, then the direct consequence is that the relationship between the two people continues to deteriorate, and it may eventually lead to a complete breakdown of the relationship between the two people.
First of all, as far as the relationship itself is concerned, two people need to complement each other in terms of personality. If the character of one of the parties itself is relatively strong, and the character of the other party is the same, then in the process of getting along, the two people are likely to have certain disputes, or even contradictions, so that the daily life will have a great impact on the feelings of the two people, and even eventually lead to the complete breakdown of the feelings of the two people.
Secondly, we often say that it is necessary to be loving, not reasonable, for family members. Since two people choose to be together and enter the marriage hall, it means that two people have become the closest people, if the two people's personalities are relatively strong, in daily life are more serious, always eager to let the other party passively accept their own point of view, then, to a large extent, it is contrary to the original intention of the marriage of two people, because the real marriage should be based on the premise of mutual tolerance, mutual understanding and mutual respect, only in this way, will make the relationship between two people really long-lasting.
In addition, if the woman's personality is too strong, the man's personality will also become very strong in the later stage, then it is also extremely detrimental to the growth of his own children. When parents educate and treat their children, they should not be overly strict and strong, but should let their children feel tender, loving and warm from their parents to a certain extent. Parents who are too strong will only put more pressure on their children in their study and life, and it will be difficult for them to have a truly happy childhood.
As parents, they should let their children truly feel the glory and greatness of father's love and mother's love in the growth environment, so that their children will become a truly filial child in the future, and become a truly responsible and responsible person.
In short, in marriage, both men and women should be truly aware of the problems existing in their own personalities, and correct them in a timely manner, rather than passively letting the other party accept themselves and tolerate themselves.
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As the saying goes, one mountain does not tolerate two tigers, if two people are strong, then the number of quarrels in life will inevitably increase, causing emotional disagreement, living together needs to be considerate of each other, take a step back and open the sky, there is no need to be too serious.
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If this is the case, maybe quarrels have become a trivial matter, life is trivial and trivial, strong in fact, there is a party to each other's humility, there will not be much of a problem, most of the men, what is the ability of a woman who wins his own quarrel, a woman just loves to nag, and loves to reflect family status through quarrels.
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Both men and women are strong and do not give in to each other, and it is inevitable that there will be quarrels, which will inevitably affect the relationship.
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It's not a mistake to be strong, the key is to be reasonable, and be willing to be considerate and tolerant of each other, then have a happy marriage, otherwise, wait for the chickens and dogs to jump and the house will be restless.
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Divorce, one mountain does not tolerate two tigers.
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If, quarrels can become commonplace, life is insignificant. In fact, if the person is humble to the other person, there is no big problem. in most men. Quarreled with the woman's ability, nagging, quarreling reflecting the state of the court woman.
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Yes.
In marriage, who doesn't want to be a bird, if the other party is reliable, the woman will be willing to live a quiet life with him, and she will not be so strong.
Some women in marriage are too strong because the man has let the woman down, which makes the woman have to be strong.
There are some men in life who are mediocre, for example, he only gets a salary of two or three thousand yuan a month, not only that, but he has a big temper when he is at home, and he regards himself as a big man. When a woman faces such a man, her temper will change unconsciously, for example, she will be dissatisfied with what the man does, and she will also feel that the man is incompetent and cannot make money to support the family. Over time, she will become strong in front of men.
When she herself is stronger than a man, her superiority will be revealed, she may be arrogant when talking to a man, she even looks down on this man a little, she will be so strong, this is because the subject is incompetent.
If a woman's husband is a person whose income is several times higher than hers, he is the breadwinner of the family, and the family cannot live without him, and the woman will not be so strong in the face of such a man, and she will not dare to be so strong. Therefore, a woman's dominance has nothing to do with a man's incompetence.
Some women in marriage are too strong because the man can't protect herself, she has to be strong to protect herself.
After getting married, a woman not only lives with a man, but she also has to deal with various relationships, such as her relationship with her in-laws. Some women are wronged in their in-laws, and men will not protect themselves, and he will even stand on the same line with his in-laws to accuse himself.
In the face of such a man, women should not expect him to protect themselves. When a woman knows that she has no one to support her when she is being bullied, she has to be strong herself, and if she cries and cries, it will only make him more wronged. So she might be more aggressive at this point, because she knew that only by doing so could she protect herself.
This strength of a woman has to do with the inability of men to protect her.
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Yes, women hope that they can find a man who is very good to them, who really loves them, and who is very responsible, but this is very difficult, so they can only rely on themselves.
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I feel that because women's personalities are generally gentle, if it weren't for the situation forcing men to be unreliable, women would be forced to be independent.
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It's not true, most of the women who are strong now are because they want to create a better life and don't want to be attached to those men, but there is also a reason why men are unreliable.
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Not really, because some women are naturally strong, so it is not necessarily that men are unreliable.
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The reason why most women are strong in marriage is indeed because men are unreliable.
In many relationships, the dominant partner is usually a boy. But there are also many couples where the stronger partner is the wife, not the husband. The wife is responsible for leading the family relationship, while the husband is more obedient to the wife's arrangement.
After getting married, many women will feel that they will marry a chicken and a dog. Since you have found a very unreliable man, you should become stronger and work harder to become the backbone of this family.
Of course, part of the reason why women are strong in marriage is because of the women themselves. Many women have very strong personalities, and they are more accustomed to standing in a position of control and letting their husbands cooperate with them. If this kind of woman meets an equally strong man, both of them want to let the other live in their own control, married life.
There will also be a lot of friction and collisions.
When a family has a strong wife, there must be a weaker husband. If a man is very unreliable, not strong enough, and has a very cowardly character, then if he does not have a strong wife to control his life, this man's life will definitely be out of balance. This man will also be very poor in the handling of the marriage relationship.
Then it is only a matter of time before you divorce your wife. Therefore, most unreliable men will find a stronger wife.
However, I think that as a woman, no matter whether the person you marry is reliable or not, you should work hard to become strong. The other thing is to keep your eyes open and try not to associate with some unreliable men. If your personality is indeed very strong, then you should try to relax the restrictions on your husband when dealing with the relationship between husband and wife, and better understand each other.
Otherwise, the pressure on my husband must be very great.
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Yes, because no woman wants to make herself a strong woman, all women want their husbands to be their safe havens, and once a woman becomes particularly strong, her husband will definitely not be capable.
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No, some girls have very strong self-esteem, they want to stand out in everything they do, so they make themselves very strong.
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It's true, because such women are insecure and think that men are weaker and have no sense of responsibility, so they will become strong and independent.
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Both a woman's dominance and a man's meanness can have a negative impact on a marriage. If a person is too strong, it may lead to an imbalance of power in the marriage, make the other person feel stressed and dissatisfied, and even lead to conflicts and conflicts between the husband and wife. And if the man is too mean, it will make the wife feel disrespected and cared for, which may lead to emotional estrangement and imbalance between the husband and wife.
However, this does not mean that women cannot be strong, or that men cannot be somewhat mean. The relationship between husband and wife is mutual, and both parties need to respect and care for each other and treat each other as equals. If there is a clear division of labor between husband and wife, mutual coordination, and mutual support, the marriage will not be destroyed because of being strong or mean.
At the same time, couples should learn to communicate, tolerate and understand, respect each other's thoughts and feelings, and manage their marriage together.
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A woman's strength and a man's meanness cannot destroy the marriage alone, after all, everyone has their own character and way of doing things, but if the two parties are not properly handled, the differences and conflicts between each other, the woman's strength and the man's meanness, may become the fuse of the conflict, and then lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
In modern society, women's independence and professional ability are more and more valued, and many women will also show strong characteristics, but some men may feel threatened and frustrated because of this, showing meanness and dissatisfaction, in this case, both sides need to be good communication and understanding of each other, people's values and lifestyles, and respect each other's choices and decisions to coordinate various things in family life.
At the same time, the husband and wife also need to learn how to properly deal with conflicts and differences, such as taking a positive way of communication, finding common ground, and negotiating to solve problems, or with the help of a third party, such as a psychological counselor or a family teacher, etc., if the husband and wife can correctly handle the relationship between each other, respect each other's personality and rights, support and understand each other, they can establish a good marriage relationship, and walk through a happy life together.
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In marriage, the woman is too strong, the man is bound to endure, but the dignity of the man can not be trampled on, once the dignity of the man is trampled on by the woman, the general consequence is quarrel and divorce, so the man and woman in the marriage need to be tolerant, not strong.
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The most important thing for a man is dignity and face, if you marry a woman who is too strong, you can't hold your head up in front of your family or friends. Many women feel that men should be more careful, otherwise they will be out of moderation. But in fact, men are also human beings, and they also need freedom.
If a woman who is too strong disciplines a man too strictly, the man can easily suffocate and may even betray himself. I have a colleague who is very strong, and to others, she is the leader, and everyone has to listen to her. But forget about the work, you are the boss, we have nothing to say to you.
But for the family, everyone is equal, and every time I listen to her and her husband fighting, they look like they are on top. I've never seen her smiling face, and she always looks like a cold strong woman. I think that if this is the case for a long time, men will not feel the warmth of the family, and they will stay away and despair about marriage.
One day her daughter had her birthday, and she invited us to her house for dinner. The man went to the kitchen after saying hello to us, and the daughter was more introverted and very sensitive when she heard others talking loudly. It can be seen that she has a very high status in the family, and her husband and children listen to her more.
Their house is very large and the decoration style is very high, but despite this, I still don't feel the slightest warmth. Her husband is actually a relatively humble and weak person, I think, he also wants to maintain this marriage, and he doesn't want to have a conflict with her for a little thing. But just as we were eating happily, I inadvertently found that the woman was pointing fingers at him, and the man was shaking his head helplessly, as if the two were having a very unpleasant quarrel.
I used the excuse of serving rice to go over and ask: What's wrong? The man's stomach was full of grievances and said
My dad will be 60 years old next month, and as a son, I want to take my wife and daughter home to see, but she has to say that she is busy with work, she has no time, and how busy is she at work, and she doesn't even have time to spend with her family? "Hearing the man say that, I think he must just want to get together as a family on his father's birthday. But she refused too simply, and she may have been hurt.
That's why the man had a head-on conflict with her. Although we are colleagues, this is someone else's private matter, and I don't know how to appease it. Everyone knows that she is a very strong person, and always asks everyone to listen to her, and she is reluctant to accept other people's suggestions.
Say one thing or the other, and always feel that you are right, and others are wrong. Whether in the company or at home, he always thinks of himself as a high emperor. But in fact, if you get along like this all the time, the people around you will be very tired.
You must know that what a man cares about most is self-esteem and face, you are so strong at home, and you call him all kinds of things, he will feel that he is very faceless. He discussed with you to go home for your father-in-law's birthday, if you really don't have time, you can communicate well, so many people don't give him face at all, it's too inappropriate to touch a man's bottom line like this!
In fact, the stronger the girl, the happier the boy, because the stronger the girl, the better the boy will be arranged in all aspects. On the contrary, they will live happily and not bitterly.
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Of course, his wife is separated, maybe the friends around him don't want to pay attention to him, even his wife is not willing to spend money, naturally he will not spend money on others, in the eyes of others, he is a miser, stingy.
Really powerful women are not necessarily all strong, they may be good at what they are good at in various fields, thus attracting the attention of boys. And a strong woman is not something that all boys will like, as a human being, all hobbies will be different, so you can't just assume that a strong woman will be very popular with men.
The first reason is that the men in the family do not care enough about themselves, so they will find other men, the second reason is that women may have no status in the family and cannot find the life they want, and the third reason is that men do not love themselves enough, and women will feel unreliable, so they will have extramarital affairs.