Why is it that in marriage, a woman with a strong family will suffer less grievances?

Because of the strength of the mother's family, it will make the in-laws afraid and the husband afraid.

Therefore, in order to avoid more incidents, the in-laws and husbands generally cause unnecessary conflicts and contradictions. There are many things that I endure, and it may be caused by the fault of my wife. They won't pursue it, because if they continue to investigate, it will attract the dissatisfaction of the mother's family.

It is possible that the mother's family will come to fight for their daughter and reprimand her husband and mother-in-law. <>

If you do this often, you will also make the neighbors see the jokes. It is possible that the in-laws will sometimes be more patient for the sake of face. should have said a few more words about the daughter-in-law, but in this case, the mother-in-law and the husband may choose to be silent.

If the mother-in-law's family is also a relatively strong family, the daughter-in-law will definitely suffer a lot of grievances in such a family. But if the mother-in-law's family is also strong, the mother-in-law's family will definitely not dare to be so bad in their attitude towards their daughter-in-law. They will consider the consequences, and they will consider that the daughter-in-law's mother's family is not easy to bully, and once the mother's family knows, they will not have good fruit to eat, so the strong wife of the mother's family will be less wronged.

In marriage, the strong woman of the mother's family will definitely suffer less grievances, whether you plan to buy a house together, buy a car or invest for your next generation, if the mother's family is stronger, it is not easy to be wronged.

And I think that a woman with a strong mother's family will definitely not be very weak in her character, even if you are a weak person and your mother is very strong, she will definitely not let you be wronged in marriage, so having a stronger family will be better for the next generation.

Now if you are going to buy a house of hundreds of thousands of dollars, the man asks the woman to give a little more, his reason is that he feels that the woman married without bringing any things, so he wants you to pay more money, you can tell your mother about this matter, and your mother will tell the man that everyone's share should be the same, and your mother will take care of some of the rest for you, just so that you can have a more stable home, but on the other hand, If there is such a calculating man, then in fact, your marriage will also have conflicts in the later stage because of matters of interest.

In a marriage, the woman's maiden family is his backing, do you know why in real life there are many people who are reluctant to marry their daughters far away? What I am afraid of is that my daughter will be wronged by her in-laws after marrying far away, and her mother's family has no way to protect her. My aunt married from Jiangsu to Beijing, when she got married, the family was very reluctant, although the man's conditions are very good, but we are always afraid that she will be wronged, fortunately they do not live with the mother-in-law, the family is still happy, you say that if something happens, even if we take a plane over, we may not be able to catch up.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a major event since ancient times, and there is rarely a particularly harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so a daughter-in-law may be wronged in her mother-in-law's house, at this time, the daughter-in-law may not dare to speak, so the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law are in the same position, so what the mother-in-law says, the mother-in-law will listen, some mother-in-law is the kind of mother-in-law who bullies the soft and is afraid of the hard, when she meets a strong in-law, she will unconsciously weaken.

Marriage is originally to use love to connect two people who have nothing to do with each other, because the loving husband and wife will respect and love each other and cherish each other. In the eyes of the in-laws' family, the daughter-in-law has no blood relationship with their family, and is originally an outsider, and it is only because of the son that they will become a family. Moreover, since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has not been harmonious, and they don't look at each other well, and some people are conservative, thinking that marrying a daughter-in-law is marrying a nanny, and making things difficult for their daughter-in-law in every way.

Many TV dramas play Cinderella marrying into a wealthy family, and her mother-in-law can't look down on it, and she tortures her in every way to lead to divorce.

But if the mother's family is strong, even if the mother-in-law looks down on her daughter-in-law, she will be jealous because of the power of her in-laws, and the relative woman will be less wronged. My third aunt has an only daughter in their family, and she has been pampered since she was a child, and when my sister got married, my third aunt gave them a car and a house, so don't say that she will be wronged, her mother-in-law probably didn't even say anything cruel to him.

Whether the mother's family is strong or the in-law's family is strong, there will always be psychological pressure on one party, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife. So no matter what, since you are a husband and wife, you must love each other, support each other, and be kind to your other half!

<> many years ago, my father told me about what happened around him, a woman fell out with her family, insisted on marrying a man, but not long after the divorce, she lived alone with her children, and her mother really felt sorry for her girl, resumed contact and gave her a lot of help, and then the man also came to ask for remarriage! In the end, the result was not bad, and the two came together again, and the mother-in-law no longer objected!

At that time, when I heard this story, I was still young, and I didn't understand what marriage was, but I simply thought that the man might have taken a fancy to the woman's family background. Later, when I grew up, I fell out with my family, fell in love, got married, had children, divorced, ......I realized that marriage is not so simple.

When falling in love, many people feel good about themselves and think that the other party is willing to be with them because of who they are, not because of family, power, money, ......But in reality we are not living in a vacuum, you are part of your family, and your family is also an integral part of you. Men are in a sense more realistic creatures than women, and your family will largely determine the attitude of the man and his family towards you!

I admit that there are very powerful women in this world, they have great abilities, and their abilities may even make people tremble, but can they be so strong forever? Won't they get tired? Don't they need care?

They need, so they set up a lot of conditions to screen out such a person to take care of themselves, and some are lucky to succeed, so as to start her open life; And some are very unfortunate, not only did they not find someone to take care of themselves, but found someone who consumed themselves, and at this time, she had to bear not only the malice of this society towards her, but also the malice given to her by her husband and his family!

Getting married is like playing a game and teaming up, and the right teammates and tacit cooperation can make you win quickly. If your teammates are in a deep pit, then you will not only bear the enemy's firepower, but also the consumption of your teammates. And a strong mother's family is like medicine in your pocket, it can make you less worried when you are moving forward with such a load!

Of course, if you're the pit in the game and you're armed with a life-saving elixir, your teammates are really worse than dead! Of course, there are also those maiden families who pit their daughters, which can be compared to the poison in the game! How to use it, and who you use it on, you still have the final say!

Because the mother's family is strong, highly educated, well-educated, parents have education and independent work, and the daughter born is also tutored, and the right person is also found, so not only such a woman will be less wronged, but if she marries the right wife, the man will suffer a lot less grievances.

The mother's family is very important, and the attitude of the mother's family is very important, otherwise the man will easily look down on you! Feel free to bully you! I quarreled with my father-in-law, the dead old man was still ready to beat someone, I directly called ** to my brother, he immediately took a taxi over, scared my father-in-law to come out, my mother-in-law made tea for my brother to apologize!

Since then, the old man has never dared to quarrel with me again!

It's a bit useful, there are some men who are afraid of being beaten by their mother's family, and they hate their mother's family for clinging to their son-in-law the most, and their daughters will never be able to raise their heads.

Most women are taught by their mothers-in-law after marriage, listen to what the grandmothers say, and pass down from the old society. In the future, I will teach my daughter to be stronger, to overwhelm their family, and to divorce if it doesn't work. As long as you are comfortable.

The feeling is not absolute. My parents are very talkative, and if they can bear it, they can bear it, but I can't, my temper is not very good, and now my husband has solved some problems at my in-law's house. He used to hurt me a lot, but he wouldn't say.

My mother-in-law just thinks that my husband has a good temper, and if she doesn't talk about her, she doesn't respect us very much, and she always cuts first and then plays. Because of this, I quarreled with my mother-in-law and my husband many times, and now it's finally okay. Now that my husband has come forward to solve everything, there will be no more contradictions.

So, if there is anything I can solve, I don't need my mother's family. My mother-in-law would only advise me to say less