I m annoyed, help me 20

In fact, talking to your parents is the best way. Going to Shenzhen is a very important choice for you in your life. That's a big bet to me.

Parents may disagree, but they must think carefully about their reasons and never put feelings first. After talking about a boyfriend for three years, must you be reliable? At this time, the only people who can help you make up your mind are your own relatives.

If you really love him, you might as well explain it directly to your parents, and they will understand you.

You're not small, it's okay to talk about love. If your parents have a bad impression of your boyfriend, they must have their own reasons. After all, they are from the past, and they are more accurate than you are.

In fact, to be honest, I am a person who does not trust feelings very much, and prefers to trust my relatives. Are you really thinking about going to Shenzhen? Then you can try to create some "I want to go out after graduation" atmosphere and see the attitude of my parents.

If your parents agree, you can just say next year, I have found a suitable job in Shenzhen.

But I still advise you not to have too many illusions about feelings.

My situation is the same as yours, but I am not from a province with my boyfriend, he told his family when he was in college, and now he has graduated for two years, and my family doesn't know, and he also urged me to tell my family, so I am as distressed as you, I don't know how to tell my family, I want to procrastinate, and when the time is ripe, I really don't have the courage to talk to my family now, so I suggest that you wait until the time is ripe to tell your family, they should understand us.

I'm also in Shenzhen now, in fact, Shenzhen to mix a little better, is more difficult, everything has to rely on yourself, don't easily believe in everyone, here is to rely on your own ability, the most important thing is to know how to learn, not to update yourself, Shenzhen is also a good place, will let you see the most real side of life, more able to see yourself, see everyone.

It's been three years, why don't you tell your parents?

What do you know about your parents, how do you think they will react when they find out?

In fact, it is difficult for outsiders to help you come up with ideas if they don't understand your family and the relationship between you.

Tell your parents about your feelings and your thoughts, that they love you and will support you.

Maybe your father is not very stubborn, he just has to maintain a certain amount of dignity in front of outsiders, including at home, and this is how it makes you feel a kind of fear, so that you don't want to communicate with him, you should put aside your own impression of your father, communicate with him more, and take the initiative to say what you think.

Maybe he will reject you or act very annoyed at the time, but he will seriously consider it afterwards After all, you are his flesh and blood, and everyone needs to communicate, and maybe your father is also worried about how to eliminate the estrangement with you, and no matter what decision your father ultimately makes, it is for your good, and many things will be known until you have experienced it, and the advice given by the parent is right, and maybe he said that I eat more salt than you eat, which makes you listen very unpleasantly, but this is the case, you have to think about it from your father's point of view.

In addition, the daughter and the mother should be very easy to communicate, try to talk to the mother first, listen to her opinion.

If you can't communicate with your mother, then you have to think about whether the problem is with you.

The warm atmosphere of the home is reflected The faces of the parents who are running day by day are full of vicissitudes And you are their sun Your laughter will illuminate their hearts Keep your smile One day you will find the love of your father.

Whenever you share your thoughts with your family, let them know that you care about their opinions.

As a family and a happy family, you will find that it is not as difficult to communicate as you think.

I'm only a year older than you 2 years ago I gave up college and eloped with my boyfriend We got married and had a son I regret it now I don't have a diploma It's hard to find a job and the salary is not high But our family is very happy My husband treats me very well It makes me feel very balanced So you have to think carefully if your boyfriend is really so good to you It's worth it for you to give up your studies and even your future for him.

To tell you a secret that my husband doesn't know, my father died a while ago, and he wanted me to take my husband home and show him, but I was always afraid that my father would make things difficult for him, so I ......It's all my fault, maybe the father just wants to meet his son-in-law, just wants to meet ......

I'm in the opposite situation with you, I've been with my current boyfriend for more than three years, but my family knows, until now his family doesn't know about me, I'm very miserable, and I came to Beijing because of him, I was afraid of my family's opposition, I didn't tell my parents and came here, and now I sometimes really regret it, now I feel really lonely in my heart when I'm alone, he just comes to see you once or twice a week, and the longer you get along, the more he feels that it's not interesting to be with you, It's really painful to be alone, struggling alone in this big city, don't you say it's hard?

However, you are okay, it is his family who knows you, your family does not know him, if you really love each other, just show him to your parents before you graduate, maybe the old man likes it, it is normal to fall in love at school, in fact, my parents understand in their hearts, we also talked about it at school, but because he hasn't talked to his family for so long, so I have a feeling of disgust with him and his family.

It's better to tell your family as soon as possible, this is the best way to continue your love, and there is persistence, but that person should be worthy of your persistence.