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You should understand that your husband will be uncomfortable living next to your parents. Besides, your mother is also very difficult to pester. In the future, you should deliberately lean towards your husband in front of your parents, so that your husband feels that at least you and him are in the same family as well, and let your parents know how important your husband is in your heart.
As the saying goes: three people are not as good as two people!!
Remember that you are going to live with your husband for the rest of your life!!
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It's very common, and I'm very touched by it
The most radical solution is for you to live separately from your parents! Otherwise, the consequences are unpredictable How many loving couples are not breaking up because of disagreement with the elderly? Alas! Easier said than done!
1. Where the elderly are sensitive, caring, curious, and do not have to participate in negative issues, try not to "close" the news in front of the elderly, on the contrary, positive issues must be well publicized, the so-called "good news but not bad news".
2. Your task is to play three roles between them
Do a good job of the role of "thinner", lubricant and "adhesive" (can you understand).
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It is solemnly recommended that you move out and live your own life, as for your mother, you can take care of it in other ways, such as living closer so that you can go home often, you can take care of your mother as a nanny, etc. You have to be clear that your first role now is someone's wife. Otherwise, you will be more and more sad, because you love the two of them, and the two of them are incompatible, and you are in dire straits.
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Live separately from your mother, how can you be caught in the middle. This kind of question is really troublesome, the two of you are fine, but another person is inserted. You and your mom have a good talk.
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If you can't do the advice on the first floor, it's better to move out and live, it's not a way to do it!
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I'm the landlord. Thank you all for your suggestions.
I always felt like they didn't understand me.
Why make it so hard for me to do that.
My husband said that we would be like this in the future.
Sometimes I really want to have a big fight with him.
I'm going crazy with this cold war that doesn't say anything.
Everything is psychological.
It's really uncomfortable, but I don't want my parents to hear it.
Now it's the New Year, and I can't go out.
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It is said that the mother-in-law looks at her aunt and is more satisfied. Why is it so embarrassing to get along with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. We also live with my mom.
My husband is better than I do in every way. My mom didn't say much about things between us. Our quarrel was never heard by my mother.
Let's take care of it ourselves.
Concessions must be made on both sides. It's as simple as that.
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It's best to talk to your mother about it, and you must deal with this problem well, otherwise it will hurt your relationship with your husband, and it will be even more cold in the future.
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The advice on the first floor is very good.
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Life is an opportunity given by God to human beings to experience the wonderful world, and it is a tortuous process of experiencing all things in the world.
Life is food, clothing, housing and transportation, and fighting and climbing. It is joy, anger, sorrow, love and evil desires, and it is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
Life is the driving force and source of all inventions and creations, and the goal and destination of all struggles. Life is an adaptation to society, don't expect society to adapt to you, it is you who have to slowly adapt to this cruel life. Strive to make your life better, more exciting, and more perfect.
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Of course, life is also very tired, we are still young, don't say lightly "my heart is tired", if the heart is tired, then it shows that you have begun to give up a lot of things to struggle, the pace of your life has begun to stagnate, how can people decline before they get old? You say you're tired, maybe you really feel tired, I'm tired in this spring, I really want to be a long night so that I fall asleep deeply, and when I wake up, it's already the sun rising, and a good day is coming like this, tell myself that I'm energetic today, do a good day, no matter how tired it is, after all, this is life, it's the process of our own life, you know? When you are tired, please gently close your eyes when you are tired in the harbor of life, let yourself sleep well, and when you wake up, your eyes will be full of energy!
Don't forget that life is always tired, and don't let this tiredness come from the heart.
Everyone will have a tired time, to adjust the mentality in time, to reduce psychological pressure on themselves, to make themselves relaxed, happy and unhappy is just a thought, every day is new, yesterday is not important, the key is to live a good today Happy or unhappy have to face the same, why not choose to make yourself happy
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