After the divorce, will you really re encounter your own happiness?

Marriages that can be divorced are inappropriate, and each other has exhausted their feelings. Nowadays, the divorce rate is very high, and there are more and more cases of remarriage after divorce, and you can still find your happiness even after divorce. There are no absolutes, maybe happiness comes later, after experiencing some wrong feelings before coming to their side, there are still few people who are really lonely and old, everyone finally has their own other half to accompany themselves, some are because they need to find a support, they feel suitable to be together, not true love, some are true love, they are all happy, and when someone is accompanied by me, they are all happy.

If you are divorced, I believe you can still find your own happiness. I have a sister who comes from a wealthy family and is married to a boy from a rich family. It can be said that it is a good match, because it is too rich, there are many things to play, and slowly and often do not go home, and there is no relationship between each other, and the only thing left to talk about is money.

The final outcome has also been decided, that is, divorce, and she can still live well after the divorce. And it's good that a boy will soon pursue her, and that boy is much better than her previous husband. Considerate and gentle, with a good temper, I never got angry again, although the man's family was not as rich as the previous one, my sister still chose him.

After marriage, each other's lives are still happy and happy, there was helplessness behind her smile before, but now I can feel her happiness from the heart, and the happy appearance is really enviable. So you can too, it's not scary to be happy late, it's scary to lose faith in it before you can wait for it, everyone is excellent and deserves to be treated well. After the divorce, people know how to be more stable and take care of their families.

Divorce is not necessarily happy, but if you don't divorce, you will definitely not be happy. Because my husband's heart is no longer in this family, not in my children, and not in me. Being in Cao Ying's heart in Han, I feel very tired, and he is not happy, leaving, maybe it is a punishment for everyone, or it may be a relief.

If you don't have children, you can call it as you like, once you have children, it's best not to divorce, after divorce, you will meet two kinds of people, one has the habit of having children, and one has no children of the opposite sex, if you meet a child, you don't expect the rest of your life to be good to you, because it will not take your child as a baby after all, and worse, it will be disgusted and jealous, and he will only give more love to his children, because that is the truth that will not change, if you meet without children, even if he loves you again, You also have to bear all kinds of difficulties given to you by his parents, it is very simple that his son is first-hand goods and you are second-hand, if you can bear to build a new family with him and have a child, then the child born with your ex-husband is definitely like a lost child? Think about it. <>

No one's life is smooth sailing, can not be self-denial because of a momentary setback, it is completely possible to live happily after divorce, focusing on your mentality and self-regulation ability before the divorce.

If you just blindly complain about others, have a very negative attitude towards life, and are always immersed in the sorrow of divorce and are unwilling to come out, then your possibility of happiness is too small, because your three views, that is, the world's outlook on life and values, have collapsed because of a divorce, so you will be extremely unhappy, because you have lost the pursuit of happiness, and the blow of divorce will overwhelm you.

On the contrary, if you see this divorce as just a small episode in life, it is not a big deal, and after the divorce is a new life and a new life, and you pursue happiness with a positive and optimistic attitude, you will continue to reap happiness.

Therefore, there is no need to regard divorce as so important, do what you should do, cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things around you, and embrace life with a positive and sunny attitude, so that you will have more happiness and joy; There is no need to immerse yourself in the grief of divorce all the time, it is not worth it, whether it is because of the person you can't forget, or those things you can't forget, you shouldn't continue to dwell on it.

We should continue to stride forward with our heads held high, why are we stagnating in one place when the road of life is so long. If you have been stagnant, you will miss out on other scenery on the road of life, and there are better people and better things waiting for you ahead.

Of course you can, it's not that divorced people don't have happiness at all, as long as you meet the right person, you can be happy!

I can definitely be happy. If you have money, you can be happy. You can still find a partner. Maybe it'll be fine.

The possibility of a happy life after divorce is relatively small. A woman's last marriage failed and divorced, then what she felt most on the emotional road in the future was confusion, and the emotions she had paid were almost exhausted, and all her enthusiasm and hope for her feelings were almost exhausted. A failed marriage is still quite a blow to a woman, and few divorced women can be happy in this situation.

Because a woman's trust in emotion and marriage is already very low, she doesn't know what kind of attachment she can have to happiness, and she feels that she can't get what she is pursuing, so she feels very lost and has no happiness at all.

Women are very happy after divorce, among which economic conditions occupy an important factor, because their economic conditions are not good, the monthly income rarely can not meet the material conditions they are pursuing, and they cannot reach the level of prosperity they want in life. Then you can't feel happy, in fact, many women have a better mentality after divorce, and they are also casual about their feelings and marriage, and they don't force their own lives, they always have to go on. You can't live because you're divorced, so women also have to be strong, and they work hard to earn money to support themselves, and some women have high requirements for the quality of life.

But his own economic conditions are not good, and he has not found a lover with excellent economic status at present, in this case, he feels unhappy to destroy himself.

If a woman can't find a suitable partner after divorce, then she will feel unhappy when she lives alone, this kind of single life is very hard, tired and has no lover to care for herself, and she lacks a real support. I feel that this kind of life is very tiring, and my heart is also tired, and women are unhappy in this situation.

Divorce is normal, you can still live happily after divorce, you must have your own happy attitude to face your future life, and you can't affect your future marriage because of the failure of your previous marriage.

1. Pure return: first improve your personality.

Love can be done by one's own nature, or it can be romantic, but in the face of marriage, we need to be a rational person.

So don't copy what you did when you were in love into your married life.

In a good marriage, you need to improve each other's personalities.

If one person has a stubborn personality, the other person will learn to tolerate it at the right time, and even if they quarrel, they can reconcile in time;

One person is sensitive and fragile, the other person is thick-skinned, and going out will also make the other person feel a sufficient sense of security.

However, if the personalities of both parties are too similar, such as being more self-assertive, when dealing with conflicts or encountering problems, it is equivalent to missing a solution, or even-for-tat.

In intimate relationships, most people only see each other, not themselves.

Therefore, the sense of need is very high, and I can't extricate myself from negative emotions, accusations, and complaints, and I ignore the importance of doing my best.

If you want to better adapt to your new married life, you have to try to adjust yourself a little.

Although it is said that you should not lose yourself in marriage, you must also remember that you cannot be stubborn in marriage.

Two: learn to live with each other's shortcomings.

What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of the other party, marriage will magnify the shortcomings of the other party, and the process of running in between two people is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings.

Everyone tries to find a perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no perfect person in this world.

I always believe that even if a person is good, I still think that he must have shortcomings.

When you are in a relationship, you only care about the good in the other person. Even, you will magnify the advantages of the other party ten times and a hundred times.

However, when it comes to getting married, it's very different.

All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one.

I am confused about this problem, the woman's last marriage failed and divorced, so the most I feel on the emotional road in the future is confused, and the emotions I have paid have been in vain, almost exhausting all the enthusiasm and hope for the emotion. A failed marriage is still a very big blow to women, and in this case, few divorced women can be happy. Because a woman's trust in emotion and marriage is already very low, she doesn't know what kind of attachment she can have to happiness, and she feels that she can't get what she is pursuing, so she feels very lost and doesn't have much happiness at all.

According to economic conditions.

Women are very happy after divorce, and economic conditions occupy an important factor, because their economic conditions are not good, their monthly income is rarely unable to meet the material conditions they are pursuing, and they cannot reach the level of wealth they want in life, so they will not feel happy. In fact, many women have a better mentality after divorce, and they are not forced to be in love and marriage, and their lives always have to go on, and they can't live because of divorce, so women are also strong and work to earn money to support themselves. Some women have high requirements for the quality of life, but her own economic hall is not in good condition, and she has not found a lover with excellent financial means, in this case, she feels unhappy.

From the partner's point of view, if a woman can't find a suitable partner after divorce, then she will feel unhappy when she lives alone, this kind of single life is very hard and tiring, and there is no lover to care for herself and take care of herself. I lack a real support, I feel that this kind of life is very tiring, and my heart is tired, and a woman in this situation is not happy.

Work on your own to earn money.

Divorced women have to work their own to earn money, then this kind of life is unhappy, because the work is very hard, and the life is not rich or even embarrassed, in this case, the woman needs to work hard and bear a lot of pressure, all in order to earn money to fill the needs of life, and work hard for life. So much so that she gave up the happiness in the ideal she was pursuing, and the divorced woman in this case was very happy, and she was suffering by herself.

Therefore, every marriage needs to be managed, and not divorced does not necessarily pretend to be happy, and divorce is not necessarily happy. Careful consideration is required.

Divorce is a very unfortunate thing, how to get married is not for the sake of divorce, of course, since the choice of the group choice of the wrong cause of the two people parting ways and goodbye, then finding new happiness is your starting point, if you give up, then of course you are unhappy, if you are really a person who is looking for happiness and pursuing happiness, and working hard to make yourself happy, you will definitely be able to get happiness.