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If your child doesn't speak, it may be because he realizes his mistake, or he is afraid.
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Because the baby is scared. Usually parents are amiable, but suddenly yelling at their children will make them feel scared.
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Parents are the most trusted people of the baby, if the baby yells loudly, the baby perceives the anger of the parents will be frightened, and the baby feels that the parents yelled at him, it should be that he did the wrong thing and said the wrong thing, causing him to dare not speak.
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Generally, the child does not speak after being yelled at but turns to ask for a hug, in which case the child is insecure and feels that the parents may not like him. Therefore, when educating children, we must stand in the perspective of children, having said that, parents will have such an experience, no matter how gentle their character, in the face of their children's rebellious experience, they will yell at their children or make noise. But found that no matter how noisy the child was, he still asked for a hug, and many netizens felt that the child did not hold grudges or did not have a remorseful heart, and did not know what the result of making a mistake was.
Sometimes the family yells at the child, and the child has no way to control his heart, and he does not dare to squeak for fear of doing something wrong again. Therefore, when children make mistakes, parents still have to find the right way, don't make noise and don't scold. You should squat down and reason with your child, and over time your child will be able to know a lot of things.
Compared with children happily facing life, it is much better than parents yelling all day long and children crying again. <>
Children who are often yelled at by their parents will have some flaws in their personality to be honest. No matter what you do, you don't have self-confidence, and you feel like you're going to be hit all day long, causing your child to not trust yourself and feel that you're useless. Parents still have to choose to encourage their children more and praise their children's benefits and advantages more in order to stimulate their children's self-confidence.
It can also allow children to dare to choose their own path, which is also very helpful for children's future growth. <>
If the child still does not respond after yelling and scolding, it means that the child has become accustomed to parental blame and is becoming more and more rebellious. Even if you shout hundreds of times a day, it will become a habit and become a natural. In this case, the relationship between parents and children will also become very discordant, and it is recommended that parents should chat and communicate with their children more often to understand what their children think.
Especially when the child is in the rebellious period, he should not be beaten and scolded, and parents feel that yelling may stop the child's bad behavior, but this is not a good thing. After a long time, it may be regarded as a deaf ear, and it will still not improve, so there is no point.
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The child does not speak after being yelled, but also wants to hug in turn, so that the child shows that the child is very obedient, but the parents cannot do this, which will cause a shadow on the child's psychology.
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It shows that the child is a more emotional and dependent person on his parents, and even after being yelled at, he still wants to seek comfort and let himself have peace of mind.
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The influence of parents' emotions and attitudes on children is very strong. In fact, it is the same when parents yell at their children, the moment the child hears his parents yelling at him, his emotions resonate, and finally he becomes anxious and uncomfortable, and he has a serious attachment to his parents, and then he will make the act of "asking for a hug" to confirm whether his parents still love him.
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The child does not speak after being yelled, and in turn wants to hug him, generally speaking, there are two reasons, one is self-protection; The second is the fear of making parents angry again.
What parents should do::
Be conscious of your emotions, try to control your temper as much as possible, and don't inflict anger on your child. After the emotions have calmed down, talk to the child about things and reason.
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Parents should also hug him at this time, give comfort and encouragement to the child, and the child's actions should be responsive.
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The child's reaction is that he feels that the parents don't like him anymore and wants to ask for forgiveness by hugging. At this time, parents should hug the child and explain that they did not mean it and did not dislike him.
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The child was yelled.
After crying, I lost my sense of belonging, and it didn't take long to "post it."
To hug is actually to worry that their parents don't need him, they don't want to be abandoned, so they subconsciously look for a sense of belonging.
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No, children who have been yelled at for a long time will also become stupid in their brains.
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Introduction: Parents should never yell at their children all the time, this will have a great impact on their children.
If you find that your child has been yelling at your child and causing him to be less talkative, you need to learn to adjust and not allow yourself to be in this situation. If the child is reluctant to speak, parents should talk to the child well, so that the child knows that he did not mean it, so that the child can slowly open his heart. Some parents are always impatient, and at this time you need to adjust your emotions appropriately.
Parents must talk to their children well, so that they can know what their children think, some children are more stubborn when they are young, and the more indifferent the parents, the more disobedient the children. If you find that the child is unwilling to talk to you, unwilling to communicate with others, you don't feel good, you must help the child to get rid of this habit, you must let the child slowly interact with others, everyone will make mistakes, not only the child, parents must give the child a chance, if the child does something wrong, then the parents should also see the benefits of the child, must let the child know that he is the best, no one will not make mistakes.
Parents must pay more attention when taking care of their children, and must find the characteristics of their children to help them slowly find the advantages of their children. Children don't like to talk also has a certain impact on the health of children, parents must learn to encourage children to treat their children's growth, parents must pay more attention, although children are the hearts and minds of parents, parents also love children, want children to get a good development, then you have to see what kind of education is suitable for children, if parents always lose their temper, children will also be timid. If you find that your child has done something wrong, you have to take a look at what kind of situation has happened to your child, and you must learn to communicate with your child, so that you can make up for some of the shortcomings in your child's heart, and parents must protect their children well.
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In this case, you can try to communicate with your child slowly. Parents need to be patient and learn to listen to their children's ideas. And give your child plenty of encouragement.
Only when the child feels that he has expressed his opinion and that speaking is a pleasure and will not be criticized, will he open his heart and communicate with others.
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In such a situation, parents should actively guide their children, and then they should also create a good educational atmosphere for their children, do not yell at their children, should care more about their children, should be patient with their children, give them more sense of security, and take their children to participate in some social activities, improve their courage, and stimulate their desire to express.
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Parents can take their children to the movies, go shopping, play in the park, play games with their children, or travel with their children.
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Many parents like to yell when educating their children, but this is easy to cause depression in the child's psychology, causing the child to become unspeakable, which indicates that there is a problem with the parent's education method, the core of education is not to criticize the child, but to let the child recognize his own problems, and take the initiative to correct, when the child becomes introverted and does not like to talk to other people, parents must not take the way of yelling education, but communicate with the child in a gentle tone.
Parents should communicate more with their children in normal times to get closer to their parents. After all, every child wants to be cared for by their parents, so parents should talk to their children more often, in fact, it doesn't take too much time, but it can give children a sense of security, and also make children feel that their parents actually care about him, then children will become more lively, full of hope for their future, parents must not put too much pressure on their children, let children become depressed, and let children release their inner pain when communicating with children.
Parents should give their children more encouragement, encourage their children to become more positive, encourage their children to socialize more with the people around them, and then the encouragement and companionship of parents can give children more self-confidence, parents' yelling, hitting children's willpower, and finally let children become more and more negative, cheer for children, let children learn to be independent, then children will become more diligent, and dare to try some things he was unwilling to do before.
Parents should treat their children as their good friends, many people always communicate with their children with a condescending attitude, which will alienate the feelings of both parties, parents should give their children enough respect, do not violate their children's privacy at will, and communicate and get along with each other in an equal way, which will make children feel more cordial, and parents and children should have intimate conversations, rather than parents dictating to children.
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You should correct your bad habits, don't often yell in front of your children, communicate more with your children and take your children out to play more, be gentle with your children, and guide your children to speak slowly to give your children a sense of security.
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At this time, you need to change your attitude towards talking to your children, and you should be gentle when talking to your children in your daily life.
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Educating children is also a way, if yelling at a child can cause the child to become introverted. We usually don't dare to speak, so our usual behavior has a great impact on children.
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Now that you already know that it is because of your yelling at your child that your child's current personality is caused by this, then you have to correct it, and from now on, strive to maintain about half an hour of communication time with your child every day, so that the child can slowly accept you from the heart, accept himself, and rebuild his self-confidence.
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You should learn to soothe your child, channel your child's knots, make your child cheerful, and cultivate your child's positive and optimistic attitude.
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Parents must deal with the right ways and means when educating their children. Yelling at children will only aggravate their inferiority complex or rebellion, and will not solve the problem.
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If the truth is known, then parents will definitely not dare to say anything about their children, because doing so will be very harmful to their children's health.
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Of course not. Therefore, parents must not scold their children, nor hit their children, but must educate their children correctly.
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My sister, I don't take my homework seriously, I have a bad temper, yell at her, she doesn't speak for a long time, and then ask her why she doesn't speak, she says she thinks I look like a psychopath when I yell at her, and she doesn't want to pay attention to me. (I also feel like a psychopath).
Because she's not as bored as you and doesn't want to chat
How old is it, if you are just learning, it may be late.
As long as you don't use anything for a long time, it will become invalid, if you don't speak for a long time, your tongue will lose your flexibility, your brain will communicate, but your tongue can't react, you can't keep up with the rhythm of your brain, you will stutter, and you will get better if you exercise and speak.
Whether a host's basic skills are good or not depends on his handling of the above problems. Whether your voice is good or not, hoarse or bright, also depends on whether you are clever in dealing with the above problems. Generally speaking, the cause of hoarseness is one breath and the other is lifestyle habits. >>>More