and her boyfriend, who have been in love for nearly seven years, broke up because he had a new girlf

Updated on psychology 2024-05-16
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Seven years, there can be several seven years in life, since he can't give you happiness, then start over, he is just in the past tense for you, finding a suitable and peaceful life for yourself is the most beautiful, isn't it? Maybe one day he will come back to you, as long as he holds what he has now, and it is also the best. A calm, ordinary life is the most beautiful.

    I wish you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    He shouldn't love anyone but himself, my first feeling after reading your post is so scary, don't you think so? There may be only one person you love in this world, but there is more than one person who can marry you for the rest of your life. He said he misses you, in fact he doesn't think about you, that's just a way for him to vent, I don't know why you broke up, but I think breaking up may be the best choice for you, if he loves you, it's definitely not the way to love someone.

    Give up on him, don't contact him again, maybe your heart will ache for a few days or months, but you will be happy for a lifetime. Never see him again. He's terrible and selfish.

    I wish you happiness from the bottom of my heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It can be said that you will never forget it in your life, how many 7 years there are in your life! I don't think your ex-boyfriend will forget, you both don't cherish the relationship of the past 7 years.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's a pity that the seven-year relationship has come to an end like this. However, life is not like this, and many things are beyond our expectations. Think about what you once had, and when you have it, you will have no regrets.

    Change your hairstyle and start anew. Find someone else who will accompany you to old age.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Giving you strength, you're doing too well. Now your mood is nostalgia, not nostalgia, and I believe that your fade out will bring a relaxed mood to your future! Bless you! Rejoice in your openness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Turn around and say that this is communication to solve the contradiction of communication, it is a communication problem, don't get entangled with feelings.

    A live-in girlfriend is not a reason for you to break up If you don't like him or he likes someone else, it's the reason for the breakup.

    Don't spread the fog here, please show your true self and say how you feel. Alas'

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Now that you have a choice in your heart, why bother with it. Slowly it will get better, and you will find a new one, and you will forget about him faster.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ay! The world is crazy Why did you choose to get married after 7 years of talking about it?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are many, many examples of you in this real society, you need to divert your attention and vent in your own way, he will do the same in this earth, you will live well without her, you may find a better one, the current separation represents the beginning of a new hope, you have to face it well, men must be able to take it and let it go, I believe you can.

    She broke up with you and was with other men, it's not accidental, it should have started very early, since she chose someone else, it means that she doesn't love you anymore, for a stranger who doesn't love you, are you willing to torture yourself to make yourself unhappy? The streets are full of such people, do you have a reason for the pain of people who come and go? You won't!

    So you have to live openly, and tomorrow will be better!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I would like to ask the landlord. Is it her who you are now or who she used to be? Now that she's ruthless, you're uncomfortable, so why bother.

    After all, you have the beautiful her who used to be. Now she is selfish and indifferent, but fortunately, other men have taken her away now, thank God, all good things have been earned by you.

    The next thing you do is to heal your wounds, so that you can find a better one and live better than her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    That's how people grow up. There are countless middle-aged people and elderly people who have had this kind of experience, and in the end, haven't they all found a real suitable life for themselves? You are part of life, don't say anything, don't think about it for a while, and don't force yourself.

    Put all your energy into work and your parents, and think about how much you've done for them. The right person for you shows up right when you don't know it. Life is like that, take your time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why waste your time on extravagant feelings.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't be sad, it's good, what if she asks her new boyfriend to beat you up++ Just say that you bullied her, and she doesn't want to see you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's normal for her to have a new boyfriend who is ruthless to you, this is the ruthlessness of a girl, he dares to break up with you because of other boys, and she must also show her new boyfriend her determination, that is, to draw a line with you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can also believe women's words haha.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. If you do something sorry for you during your relationship, you shouldn't do it!

    2. Think

    Do big things can be dao, version.

    It's okay to find a family member, but the family conditions are not good

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The landlord and my experience are very similar, 1I also talked about it for seven years, and he betrayed me many times, and even brought other college girls home, and everyone knew about it, but I didn't know about these things.2He also misused the money, and deliberately concealed me, borrowed my father's money to pay it back, delayed day by day, used my Huabei indiscriminately, and even used my Huabei to pay for the 18 yuan fare, so that I owed thousands of dollars in Huabei, and he had no money and borrowed money from me to his so-called relatives.

    3.He asked him to come to my house to play for various reasons, but he just didn't come, I went to his house, and he also asked me to go back for various reasons, he said that he had his business, I had my business, and after I went back, he went to his brother to play games, and also went to play mahjong.

    4.I'm really unhappy.

    It's been seven years, I'm still breathing, I haven't scored, I'm ready to score, I'm full of negative emotions every day, I'm too tired.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I haven't finished reading what you've written, because a simple sentence can represent your heart and you're unhappy.

    7 years, this is not something that ordinary people can do, the two of you have done it, but, in 7 years of contact, you know each other better than before, you have integrated into each other's lives, you and him, have risen from lovers to live together, like two people like husband and wife, there is a word called "7 years of itch".

    It's a hurdle, because you understand, because you know, because you feel that the world outside of the two of you is better than the world that the two of you have built, because, many, many, it's not something I can say, but from your statement, you forget one word, one crucial element between all marriages, all lovers who have been together for a long time, and that is "tolerance".

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If he is really like this, I absolutely you Du choose to be rational zhi thinking, such as dao this to parents, such a good face, such as the version.

    This person who does not fight for power, following such a person will harm you for the rest of your life, and I support you.

    Here I give you some advice for breaking up, you can refer to it.

    1.You can talk to your parents and close friends, and maybe they can give you some advice.

    2.You can say that you are getting married at this age, and you are going to find a man who can support your family, and you are indeed so, youth is not forgiving.

    3.His attitude towards you alone is enough to make you angry, and you can say it to him, and he can't say anything about it.

    4.If you say that you are afraid of his radical behavior and irrational behavior (you judge according to his personality), some things are said in **, or in a crowded place (such as a coffee shop, snack bar, etc.), it is quieter, and there are people to say it.

    5.Or pay attention to safety, it's been seven years, and I'm afraid that he will have excesses when I suddenly separate, so after the breakup, it is better to keep a little distance, don't be entangled, one is for your safety, and the other is that you can be early in this relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Separate when you need to separate, and seeing him like this, I suggest you separate.

    So far, I can't see any hope in him, and I can't see a bright future after marriage, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

    Don't wait until you get married and then separate, then you will be more miserable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I hate lazy people, you and he have been for seven years and know each other.

    I can't be with him anymore and cut off my relationship with him, it's good for you, and I don't want you to live in despair.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    So what attracts you to him? Handsome? I advise you to divide it.

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