I ve been with my boyfriend for five years. I want to propose a breakup 10

Hey, you can't live by yourself, you realize that the road ahead is boundless, and I don't know when you will be able to find yourself again.!

Since this is the case, it is better to choose another choice, his conditions are not very good, there is no guarantee for you and the child in the future, and whether you can get pregnant again is a problem, you can't be selfish because of the person around you and don't consider the offspring, pain for a time and pain for a lifetime is more meaningful than that.

You don't protect yourself well, if you have a habitual miscarriage, he doesn't want you, do you think others will want you.

If you break up with him and have someone else, when you have another child, you will definitely protect it, but the body can't stand it, and when you do the examination, he is also very likely to know that you have had many times before, will he still cherish you.

It's almost together, if you change it, will that person definitely cherish you, after all, you have been with the previous person for five years, and too many things have happened.

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and when two people choose to separate, whether they should keep this relationship depends on the attitude of the two of you towards this relationship.

If you and your boyfriend have no intention of breaking up, but they have no choice but to break up because some misunderstandings and contradictions have not been effectively resolved, then you should still try to keep this relationship as much as possible, and the two people need to communicate and exchange well to eliminate the existing misunderstandings and contradictions, so as not to leave you with any regrets.

But if the relationship between you and your boyfriend has reached an irreparable level, the contradiction between the two people is particularly deep, or the two people have been together for five years and have never been able to find a harmonious way to get along, then in this case, there is no need to keep such a relationship, because if this relationship continues, the two of you will only be more painful.

Since you care about him so much that you don't want to lose him, and you know that he is a face-loving person, why can't you be a little more sensible? Now if the situation is so stiff, in fact, before this, what you should do is not to quarrel with him, use such an extreme method to force him to stand on your side, and you should really think about him, he is indeed a little younger, since you really love each other, how can you care about the problem of time? You shouldn't force him to make any decisions, but you should care more about him, let him know how much you care about him, let him think clearly for himself, and shouldn't listen to his mother for everything, but this decision must be made by himself, not you force him to make this decision, you force him, the result will only be one, that's what it is now, I think he may need time to calm down now, you don't talk to him about this issue anymore, if you want to go to him, just say something else, say how much you care about him, I believe that he also knows it in his own heart, but there are some things that you have done a little too much, and he can't accept it all of a sudden, so communicate with him well, I think everything can still be recovered.

But before going to him, you must think absolutely clearly, ask your heart, what do you want? What kind of results can be accepted, think about all possible outcomes, and can think of solutions, and then go to him, for example, can you accept him until 25 and then get engaged to you, for example, can you regress a little in his mother's affairs, and can you continue to tolerate his mother's attitude towards you. Of course, if you can figure these things out yourself, then the next thing you have to do is to go to him, and feel that he also has the attitude of wanting to get back together, just talk to him, talk to him about his thoughts, and see if he is also willing to sacrifice for you, so that he does not think that he compromises in his mother's affairs, and can he make efforts to find a way to solve the problem between you and his mother.

These are just my humble opinions, and it depends on what you think. Five years of relationship is indeed not easy, it takes a lot to get it, don't care about what you pay too much, and finally I hope you can have the most perfect ending! May you be happy!

Now the question is not whether to keep it or not, but why the two of you are separated. If it's noisy all the time, then there's no need to be together.