What do you think about the nanny s abduction of the employer s son?

Judging from the reported facts, He Xiaoping is sincerely repentant.

First of all, it is not difficult to see that this case is completely different from ordinary abduction cases, although the consequences are the same, breaking a family and leaving a couple of parents in the pain of losing their son.

But logically speaking, He Xiaoping is also a poor personTwo children died in a row, and it was inevitable that they would be a little mentally disturbed after being hit.

In addition, in the 90s, feudal superstition in the countryside was still particularly seriousA fortune teller told her that she had to pick up a child and raise it in order to live in the town。He Xiaoping, who is only in his early twenties, has suffered continuous blows and has gone insane and made it understandable that he took the abduction as a pick-up. <>

It is worth our attention that after she turned back, she did treat it as her own and raise her as her own son, which can be seen from the care of the child, the purchase of a wedding house for him, and the conversation with her son, she is indeed very good to this son. <>

If we put aside the legal principles, let's look at it unilaterally from He XiaopingIt is not difficult to see that she is genuinely remorseful, and she began to regret it after giving birth to her daughter.

It is not difficult to imagine that she has had a very hard time in the past few years, on the one hand, she was worried about going to prison, and on the other hand, she was tortured by her conscience, until the broadcast of "Baby Come Home" completely broke her heart and took the initiative to turn herself in to find biological parents for her son.

This is a selfish woman.

In order to get rid of the fate of losing her child twice and needing to pick up a child to calm down, she did not hesitate to reach out to other people's children.

She used a fake ID card to deceive her employer's trust, and after only working for two or three days, she abducted the child, which was premeditated and planned.

Her actions have reduced the sincerity and trust between people.

One of her thoughts changed the fate of a child and the fate of a family.

Did she see the child as a child, but out of love or out of conscience? I think her desire to atone for her sins probably prevailed. If she is not good to this child, she will not be able to confess in front of the Bodhisattva.

Many years later, she couldn't stand the torment of conscience, and brought out the truth of the matter, and the first thing to be hit was the son she kidnapped: this mother loves her so much, she suffers and suffers by herself, saves money, buys a house for him, and pays for him, but it is she who allows herself to leave her biological mother and live a life that should not belong to her.

This child is really painful, he doesn't know whether to love or hate.

Many years ago, she changed the fate of this child with a simple move, and now, she has changed the fate of this child.

She could have not said anything about this, but she still didn't consider the feelings of others at all for her own sake, and only sought her own psychological balance and comfort.

And everything in the past has passed, those people and things in the past will not go back to the past because of her confession, and that family can cease to exist in that accident, because of her, the child's life has already changed the trajectory, and it will never return to the original track.

And herself, finally liberated, can kneel before the Bodhisattva and say, "I have finally atoned for my sins."

I think the nanny is sincerely apologizing, and there are a few things that can be seen. The first point is that she raised Liu Jinxin as her own son from childhood to adulthood, and also bought him a wedding house; The second point is that this incident broke out on her own initiative after blaming herself in her heart; The third point is that the kidnapped son Liu Jinxin can't believe that this is the truth, because the nanny has always been very good to him, and he even thinks that if he can't find his biological parents, forget it. But a sincere apology does not mean that you can be forgiven!

Clause.

1. This is an illegal act

She deceived her owner with a fake ID card, and after taking the child for 3 days, she abducted the child! Abduct children, it's illegal! Although she has a hard time, because the first two children died, she believes in what others say "raising a child" to be calm!

I also blamed myself for being too young and ignorant! But breaking the law is breaking the law, there is no excuse!

Clause.

Second, it reversed the fate of the child

Even though she regarded Liu Jinxin as her own son, raised him wholeheartedly, and prepared a marriage room for him. But after all, he only dropped out of junior high school! What would it be like if you followed your own parents?

In 92 years, my parents can already afford to hire a nanny, and they live in the area of Chongqing Liberation Monument, so they can judge that the economic conditions are not bad. Perhaps, the child can go to college, go to a master's degree, or even a doctorate! Now I don't have to work in a factory anymore!

Clause.

3. Who will make up for the 26 years of torture of my parents?

Those who have given birth to a child know that pregnancy in October, the pain of childbirth, and more than a year of getting along with their children day and night, etc., will leave parents with deep memories of their children! What really happened to them after losing their child? Will you be lost day and night because of the lack of a way to find a door?

Or is it because of a quarrel and divorce? Or will they be sad and do something stupid? Nothing is known, but what can be known is:

They must have been through a lot of pain! A sentence of apology from the nanny, even if it is a few years in prison, can it make up for 26 years of pain?

I believe that the babysitter is a kind person, but if she is not kind, she does not need to be punished because she hurts other people! Finally, I hope that the child can find his parents as soon as possible, and I hope everything is well!

It's not repentance, it's just because she loves this child.

The child has not been seen so far, and it is difficult to say whether he stumbled upon it.

However, this nanny is a trafficker who "abducts and sells children".

Even if you sincerely repent, you still can't be forgiven.

There will be something hateful about the wretched!

I lost two children, and I had bad thoughts and took away my employer's children.

But now Ken is willing to stand up and help him find his relatives.

I don't know if this child should be happy or sad.

What a sad thing it is to lose your own child.

Words can describe it?

How heartbreaking it is to lose a child, it is to cut off a piece of flesh from your body.

How can time calm everything.

Some people have no home because their children are gone.

For some people, because their children are gone, finding children has become the most important career in their lives.

Some people say that it is so hard to find a child, and they don't know whether the child is still healthy in the world.

It's better to have another one.

But for parents, a child lost in their hands is a pain that will always exist.

The child is gone, can the feelings at home still be there?

Even if the nanny used all her strength to raise the child.

But will this clear her of sin?

Obviously impossible,The child's parents areUnforgivableherTarget!.

No matter how good you are to himYouIt is also a trafficker.

Who can make up for the abducted children, the missing childhoods, the lack of time without their own parents by their side?

Some children are lost and have forgotten what their parents were like when they find them.

For them, it is the current home, which makes him more strange and frightened.

Of course, not to mention, some children are abducted and trafficked, and they are injured or even maimed by others to make money for them.

If a child is cheated away, he is still alive and well, and he still has a normal life, it can only be said that this is a blessing, and it must not be said, but to forgive such traffickers.

As parents, you must take good care of your children and don't let the tragedy happen again.

If you have become a parent and want to be a parent, will you choose to forgive her?

I believe she was genuinely remorseful.

That doesn't make up for the wrongdoings she's done.

If it weren't for his sincere remorse, He Xiaoping, the former nanny who abducted the child, wouldn't have taken the initiative to shake this matter out more than 20 years later, wouldn't this be asking for trouble for himself?

Before He Xiaoping became a nanny, he had two children.

The first died, and the second child didn't survive.

In the countryside at that time, He Xiaoping was very worried that the death of two children in a row would be poked in the back, saying that she was a child.

It happened that when the first child died, the old man in the village warned He Xiaoping"You are big, your life is hard, you have to pick up a child and come back to be able to feed and hold your life."

When the second child died, He Xiaoping completely believed the old man's words.

But how can a child be so easy to pick up.

In 1992, He Xiaoping came to Chongqing, and her uncle gave her a picked up ID card, and then helped her come up with the idea of abducting children as a nanny.

Everything went according to her plan.

He Xiaoping was hired, and after two or three days of work, she ran away with the master's boy, who was more than a year old.

I took the car directly back to Nanchong.

In this way, He Xiaoping raised the boy Liu Jinxin to the age of 27 with a bowl of milk and a bowl of porridge.

Over the years, she and Liu Jinxin have had a good relationship.

has even saved a wedding house for Liu Jinxin.

But none of this can change the fact that Liu Jinxin was stolen and abducted by He Xiaoping.

As he got older, He Xiaoping became more and more uneasy.

Finally decided to talk about it.

and hopes to find Liu Jinxin's biological parents and go to prison himself.

Hey, I really don't know what to say.

He Xiaoping was defeated by the word "life" in his life.

A person who believes in life will naturally believe in retribution.

That's why He Xiaoping will repent like thisI believe she was genuinely remorseful.

It's a pity that no matter how much you wash your name, the bad things you have done will not be eliminated after all.

And, if I had gone back to 26 years ago, I think He Xiaoping would still have made the same choice.

That's human nature.

Being able to speak out and turn herself in, and trying her best to find an employer, she is not bad-hearted. I believe she is truly repentant and wants to atone for her sins. <>

I believe that she really wanted to go to Chongqing to find a job as a nanny at first, but after seeing her employer's son, she remembered her dead son, and remembered that the old man in the village said that she "has a hard life, and she has to pick up a child to come back to raise her life to support her life and hold her life", so she hugged her back to her hometown. She was only in her 20s at the time, and she had just experienced the pain of losing her child, and because of her low cultural quality, she probably only knew that this was wrong, but did not realize that it was a crime. <>

But she regarded the child she brought back as her own, her husband didn't like this child, she also insisted on keeping it, after the divorce, she was reluctant to eat and wear, and she did the work when she saw it, for the child to study, buy him a house, and repeatedly said that she suffered with her and did not go to school well. When her son grew up, he also knew her suffering, and always gave her money and bought her gifts. It can be seen that although the mother and son are not related by blood, the family relationship between them is no different from ordinary people.

In addition to treating this child like her own, there is another point that can also show that she is truly remorseful. Even after her daughter was born, she always wanted to send the "abducted child" back, but she retreated at the thought of going to prison, in fact, this is understandable, seriously, most people may hesitate to change. In order to atone for her sins and did not dare to speak out, she had to tell her sins to the Guanyin Bodhisattva who begged for forgiveness.

I also went to Chongqing to find the employer back then, but unfortunately after many years, it has long changed. It wasn't until she saw the TV family search program that she made up her mind to turn herself in, and even took the initiative to ask to find her son's biological parents and go to prison. <>

Now there are no clues to find someone, and she is also anxious, if she can't find it, she is afraid that she will have to live a lifetime in self-blame. I can feel her full love for this child, and I can also feel that she is sincerely repentant, so that looking at the vicissitudes of this mother's face, people can't bear to blame.

I think it's sincere, because this is also what no one forced her, she said it herself.

Let's not talk about whether this nanny is truly remorseful, but she is also sincere to the child, I think if a mother loses her child twice, it must be very sad, so the nanny has taken away the employer's son is also understandable, although he took someone else's child itself is a big mistake, but after taking away the child, it is not said that it is scolding or abuse is also very, very, very good for the boy.

And the good ones for her have regarded this boy as their own son. The boy also treats the nanny as his own mother.

When the boy grew up, she bought a house and let her son get married, which shows that she really treats the boy as her own son.

And she also said that if I find the child's biological parents, I will go to jail. I think this sentence, what he said should be that I know I was wrong, but I will not take the initiative to return the child, if the parents come to the door, I admit it, I am willing to go to jail.

Although she made a very wrong decision to take other people's children, she also treated other people's children well. Although it may make the child's biological parents feel very sad and even hopeless, he is always good to the child.

Personally, I think she always knew she was wrong, but she took the child anyway. So it wasn't until this matter was exposed that she finally said what she thought in her heart, if the child's parents found me, I would go to jail, I think she was really willing to take responsibility for this matter.