Why do some people like to hurt people who have a good relationship with them?

I used to hurt people I had a good relationship with, I thought it was a joke, but the people around me really took a big hit, but my friends and I made it clear that you should not do this in the future? And I also understand that I am doing something wrong, and since then I have stopped hurting the people around me. I really didn't mean it, but my emotional intelligence was too low and I didn't know how to communicate with the people around me, so I kept taking this way of hurting others.

Fortunately, I had a good friend who taught me how to do it, what to do and what to say when I wanted, so I didn't get bored by others.

I hope you can also give your friend a chance, he may also be like me, he really doesn't understand and doesn't know how to get along. At this time, you can clearly tell him that you have hurt me like this, and what do you want you to do next time. Don't be sad just yet, because he doesn't have to mean it, give him a chance, if he also realizes his mistakes and can correct them, you will still be good friends in the future, the relationship will definitely be closer than it is now, which is a good thing to kill two birds with one stone.

If he didn't realize his mistakes, then what he did before should have been deliberate, you better leave him slowly, a person who always hurts others, can only say that you are not important to him.

It's also possible that he didn't mean it, he did it to all people, and it's just part of his character. If that's the case, then you can only understand him, and you really can't understand that your personality is really not suitable for friends. Or you can help him get rid of this problem, such a personality will cause him problems in the future.

Be sure to discern carefully and then make a decision, otherwise it won't be good for either of you.

Everyone is born and decided to have their own circle of friends, because, in this world of many people, everyone cannot fly alone, just like birds, they have no companions, they will become lonely and lonely, of course, people are the same, everyone is afraid of loneliness, therefore, people have contact with each other and become intimate. Over time, some people will become different from before, doing things and starting to hurt you, once, twice, three times, and finally, your relationship breaks down and becomes a stranger. But why is that?

In daily life, people and people will meet such people, they always hurt people who have a good relationship with themselves, some people will say, you have a good relationship, why do you want to hurt him, I think this is everyone's personality is different, although, people who do this are shameful, but there are always such people. They will think that I have a good relationship with him and it is okay to hurt him, but you know what, your friends are lost one by one by you like this. In this way, you will become unconnected, let alone good.

There is a sentence that I think is quite suitable for this kind of person's psychology, no matter what you do, you can start with a good friend first. Yes, a friend trusts you and befriends you, but you don't expect that it is indeed your good friend who hurt you in the end, how sad it is. It's easy to start with friends, friends can hurt endlessly, and it's easier and more convenient for friends to ......These are all wrong, so that you will not only lose your friends, but also make your own reputation, of course, this is derogatory, it is ironic.

So, in order to make yourself better, don't hurt the person you have a good relationship with, because maybe she will help you in the future.

I think the word hurt is too serious, it should be said that if you are not careful, you will hurt the person who has a good relationship with you, that is, because your relationship is good, so you will talk about everything with the person you have a good relationship with, try to pour out your grievances and dissatisfaction, maybe it is not too emotional, you will send the fire to your friends.

There is also a relationship called the best friend.

It's a mutual sarcasm between good friends, and when something happens, it's also a hurry to ridicule each other a few words, I don't think it's called hurt, if you have to say hurt, it's two people who will get angry when they're angry! <>

It's because you have a good relationship that you have a sense of belonging.

Let people want to confide their dissatisfaction to the other party, in fact, this is also a very bad behavior, because after a long time, it will inevitably make the other party feel a little impatient.

I don't think this kind of hurt is a problem in the eyes of my friends.

It's also very normal for friends to talk to each other, and my little friend and I often talk about each other, and he says that I and I talk to him, and each other has to amuse each other before we stop and do something else.

The reason I think we'll accidentally put our best friends.

It's hurt because everyone's bottom line is different, maybe you don't know what kind of look or language you have, so the other party can't accept it, and it will cause harm to the other party.

But that's what we don't expect, because good friends are good friends, and we don't get along with anyone with a sense of wanting to hurt anyone.

So it can't be said that we always like to hurt our good friends who have a good relationship with us.

Because such people are not good-hearted, they like to hurt people who have a good relationship with them, they will feel that they like their people, and even if they hurt the other party, they will forgive him, so people have no conscience.

Caring hurts. The people you are close to (loved ones) will make you care. You put your feelings, mental strength, and financial resources into your heart and from the outside, and you have all you can to help him, without complaint or regret.

When one day you find out. All your efforts are not only not appreciated by the other party, but also because something is not done properly, resulting in dissatisfaction, and then resentment. So you have a feeling of being hurt to the core, and it hurts to the heart.

The people close to you are also the ones who know you best. He will know your weakness, what is your most painful point? Once you turn against each other, then your sore spot will also be the target of the other party's primary attack. Therefore, he will hit you with a single blow, and you will be completely injured and miserable.

The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. Only people who are close to each other will have close contacts and intimate relationships. You will also feel that you have an important place in the other person's heart.

There are certain things that will be expected of the other person! But the truth is often unexpected. You think you are important, but you may take it very lightly in the other person's heart.

Then it will subvert your imagination. This brings you extreme disappointment. This hurts from someone close to you and can destroy your faith and make you lose the courage to trust. It is very harmful to people, and you must have a clear understanding of the harm caused by those close to you.

Whether it's someone close to you or someone you're not, the damage done to people can be heart-wrenching. Now that the damage has been done, you have to slowly move yourself out of the hurt and use time to slowly heal yourself.

When you give something for others, don't think about how much you can give back. By your own nature, what don't you want? No matter how close you are to others, don't show them all your weaknesses.

Leave room for yourself, and don't give authority to others. And don't put all your hopes in someone else. At any time, you are the safest to rely on and guarantee.

Then the closest person may not be able to hurt you, let alone deeper.

No matter how close you are, it is still necessary to keep a safe distance.

Because many people take it for granted that you are good to him, he will not cherish your kindness to him, and he will hurt you in the end.

Because these people will rely on your kindness, they will become more and more excessive to you, and they will also ignore your feelings, and you don't know how to refuse, there is no bottom line, so you will be deeply hurt.

It's because you're really invested in the relationship, and if there's something they're sorry for you, you feel very hurt.

The person I love hurts me the most! The most hurtful thing was that my best friend had a boyfriend, but I was the last to be told. ‍‍

Because my good friends will be stupid to protect, defend and cherish, but some of these people will betray me and abandon me in turn! The wound will also be extraordinarily deep.

The first time I learned not to rely on people you think you are good friends with, and the second time I learned not to pay too much for those who do more than she will take for granted. What a painful realization, from now on I just want to live alone and strong. ‍‍

I used to think that my sisters were bigger than the sky in my life. I was wrong! We are good friends who talk about everything, and they are also the friends who hurt me the most.

We've known each other for almost 10 years, and in 2013, it's been 11 years. In the end, it was because I didn't believe that I parted ways, what a deep feeling, ridiculous. ‍‍

My good friends always like to post my ugliest ** to the group, this kind of behavior I don't want to explain at all, the favorite can hurt me the most. ‍‍

I used to think that the world was beautiful, and so was everyone. But it's my good friends who hurt me, and it's my best friend who hurts me the most. Counting me as defenseless against them was a really heart-wrenching feeling. ‍‍

Seeing the news that my ex and my former best friend are together, in addition to heartache or heartache, I also want to get my blessing, and in the end, the two people I love the most have betrayed me, can it not be deep! ‍‍