How to find a topic to talk about with a guy you have a crush?

For a guy you have a crush on, first of all, you have to have all the information, including his hobbies, such as football or basketball, watching movies or singing, and what kind of girls he likes. Or you can find out what kind of girl his ex-girlfriend is, and he usually likes to go to **.

Because knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent can win all battles, so you know a lot of his preferences, and when you are chatting with him, there are naturally a lot of topics. Knowing her preferences is also so that you will not be cold or embarrassed when chatting with him, and you can probably know what he says. Well, when you start chatting, you don't know what his preferences are, but when you chat, you must not ask him directly, you can be tactful, you say, you see that other boys like to play basketball, what about you?

If you are so tactful, it will feel good and not embarrassing. I remember when I liked a guy, he was very fond of football, he liked basketball, and then I watched football and basketball every day, and then I wanted to find some common topics with her. In fact, if you talk too much, or watch too much, you naturally feel that it is not bad to love this thing.

In this way, you will also have common hobbies, and you will also have common topics, which is the best of both worlds.

But when you have a crush on him, you don't have to show it to be very obvious, don't think that he is more than you, or that he is higher than you, in fact, everyone is the same. The most important thing is to be confident in yourself, to be confident in what you say and do, so I believe that he will also be impressed by you.

Maybe everyone has had a person who cares about them, the person they once had a crush. But how to find a topic to talk about with your crush, let me talk about some of what I think.

If the boy you like is your usual classmate, then it can be very easy to find a topic, you can ask him more about learning, what will or will not ask him, of course, don't keep asking, otherwise it will make him feel that you are very annoying, and it will also affect his learning. <>

In life, you can fetch him water, boiling water or something, and by the way, you can also call him, remember that it's just by the way, not deliberately. And you can observe what his hobbies are, and you can also try to understand his hobbies so that you can find a topic.

I remember watching Meteor Shower TV together, Xiaoyu liked Shangguan, she went to learn the game that Shangguan liked, and played games with Shangguan, although she didn't like it, but for the people she liked, she still tried hard.

Also, if you like a good friend you usually play with, it's easy to find a topic, you know what he likes, and a random question can make his glasses shine. For example, if he likes basketball, you can try to bring up a topic about basketball. But you have to be prepared beforehand, or what are you talking about?

It's okay to go back and do your homework, and it would be nice to be able to bring up his interest.

But if you don't know each other well, you can choose to find his good friends first, who are usually happy to help you. The more tragic thing is that if you don't even know about your friends, you can only take the liberty of saying hello first. Then take a look at his circle of friends, and it's easy to know what he likes from the news he posts.

Do you think you're tired in this situation? Why don't you turn your crush into an open love? You have to try your best to find her and find a topic to talk to her, in case she doesn't like you, all your efforts are not in vain, so I think the first problem you have to solve is to turn your crush into a bright love and a confession, and when you go out of town, this relationship, this is the first thing.

I don't know if you are a post-80s, post-90s or post-00s person, but I think that after 90s and post-00s, there is basically no such thing as a crush, they are all more avant-garde and bold people, and crush is really too time-consuming for them, and it is a luxury word.

Even I, a person born in the 80s, do not have such a crush, my first emotional first love, is a boy I like, I bravely expressed it.

I really think the crush is too tired, you like him and he doesn't know yet, so why bother? For a person you like but the other party doesn't know that you like him, I'm tired and sad, and I have to think about how to get along with him here, it's too tiring and unnecessary.

If you want to turn your crush into a crush, you want to get closer to the person you like. First of all, does he know you as a person? You have to let him know you first and have a good impression of you. Knowing his preferences, it's easy to find common ground.

Start with his preferences, you have to memorize and fall in love with his preferences! Think of it as if it were your own hobby. He thinks that you are a confidant and can open your heart. If you know if he has any troubles in the near future and help him solve it, it is basically that the confidante has not run away.

This kind of relationship is real, and you may be more tired when it becomes love in the future.

When chatting with a guy you like to find a topic, you should pay attention to the following points:

1.Be proactive, but don't always be proactive. If you take the initiative too much, he will think that you are easy to talk to, and even if he does not take the initiative, you will always take the initiative to talk to him, then he will no longer bother to think about topics to chat with you, after all, you have already thought about it.

2.Don't talk about your feelings for other boys in front of him, you may think it will make him jealous, in fact, talking about these things once in a while can have a subtle effect, but if you keep mentioning it, it will only scare people away. He will really think that you are chatting with just to get to know another person.

3.Don't talk to the end alone, but give him a chance to speak. Don't be afraid to run out of things to talk about, so that he may find it boring.

Chatting is a two-person thing, and if you've been saying something he doesn't want to hear, it might make him less likely to want to talk to you next time. So he should be allowed to say and talk about some common topics.

4.When it comes to text chatting, people's attention spans will be shorter, so if you can't attract the guy quickly, then he may be attracted to some things in life, such as watching TV, listening, or chatting with people who are more interesting than you.

5.Do some mental warm-up ahead of time. What is a mental warm-up? This means that before starting the chat, you should preset the direction or topic you want to chat about, and greet you at the beginning before getting to the point.

6.Guide the other person so that the other person can't help but say what he wants to say. If you're not that talkative, that's okay, it's good to be a good listener too. Don't care too much about what you want to say, but focus on the other person and guide them to say what they want to say.