How to forgive betrayal, how to forgive betrayal?

Heart disease also requires heart medicine, you can't get over the scar in your heart now, you have said it, because you love him, so you forgave him, and now he is good to you? As long as he promises that he will be good to you in the future, he can be with you forever, as long as the two of you are happy, do you still care about him before? Why should you reminisce about the past?

If you don't worry about him, you can try him.

What we need is a partner who can share weal and woe, who can share happiness and joy, as well as rain and dew. Even if he can't shelter you from the wind and rain, at the very least, don't bring you any wind and rain. Any feelings in the world are people's hearts for hearts, respect for respect, those rotten feelings, people who have changed their hearts might as well throw them away.

This kind of man should not be forgiven, in case you forgive him this time, what if he commits it again next time, dogs can't change eating.

You can start a new life again There are a lot of good men in this world Don't hang yourself from this tree I'm not stingy I read what you said above Really I don't know what this man is made of It's like a wall grass That blows that down This is called cheating feelings You forgave him this time In case his new girlfriend likes him as much as you like him Like you, no matter how much I plead and hurt myself, he is indifferent.

Therefore this man is unwanted.

If you tell your heart, then you let him go, because he has done something sorry for you, so in ordinary life, you will have a lot of inevitable doubts, this is the abnormality of the normal, so why reunite when the mirror is broken, it is all glass flowers, the most basic thing between lovers is not sincerity and trust, he violated one of them, so you will also violate the other, give up.

I guess you're no older than eighteen, and you're probably the kind of ignorant girl who doesn't know how to ask for anything. Sometimes men accompany girls like you and say, "Stupid for me to like." It's not that you're cute, it's that you're stupid.

Say that I will dump you if I dump you, and say that I will start all over again, do you think you still have face? I feel that you have no dignity in front of him. If he is truly worthy of your love, it is worth your chance to give him a chance to mend his ways.

Then you forgive him, but is he the kind of person who can reform himself, to be honest, he will also play hooligan on his girlfriend, but he will never be in public again, let alone put this kind of kissing ** in space, because I think this is disrespectful to women.

Divide it, live with dignity.

I'm going a little extreme. But there are some men, you really should be paying attention.

If I were you, I wouldn't forgive him.

Good horses don't eat back grass.

He can break up with you the first time because of a quarrel, and there will be no next time.

So, don't give him another chance to hurt you, let him get out of the !!

I will send you a word, I don't need to be unfaithful a hundred times. Everything you think you can't live without is actually what you think.

It can only be said that the two of you are half a catty and eight taels, made in heaven, and the enemies in the past life are a perfect match in this life.

Because love turns into hate, if there is love in the sky, the sky will be old. Understand?

But those who want to forgive betrayal are not relieved, but reluctant.

Instead of being a "seemingly saint" who is "fake detached", it is better to face your emotions truthfully and accept the current situation: don't try to forgive, don't try to get rid of it, time has the most wonderful effect on any pain, what about slowing down?

Respecting the principle of emotional dissipation and emotional dilution, it is the greatest release to oneself at what stage to bravely demolish the town and go through these processes.

2. Don't deliberately understand the reason for the so-called "betrayal".

Why should we recognize and understand the causes of "betrayal"? Isn't this rubbing salt on the wound?

Because any betrayal is destined to be deliberate at the moment it arises, no matter what the reason, it is a human error for the "initiator", so why bother to seek and explore?

Those who often want to get themselves out of the "betrayal" will sigh for themselves while also finding reasons for the "betrayal" behavior of the other party. I thought this was to show my tolerance and open-mindedness, but I didn't know that this was the biggest punishment for myself!

This process and practice of trying to understand the reasons for "betrayal" is like a total denial of one's past; It is also a "repetition of betrayal" of himself at this moment.

We really don't have to find reasons for those betrayals or things, the reasons are really simple, it's nothing more than that: I don't love anymore, I don't love enough, I give up on you.

3. The real letting go is "forgetting to let go" and remaining insensitive.

Don't deliberately let go if you can't let go, don't force yourself to forgive if you don't want to forgive, and return to the most basic and daily life.

You can vent, scream, and even rebuke the person who betrayed you; You can also drink and indulge for three days and three nights; You can also give yourself a little vacation and do what you once wanted to do but never had the opportunity to do.

In short, you can allow yourself to give yourself an exit and a certain amount of time after being betrayed, and gain relief in the short term, but you must not let yourself fall into the abyss of self-blame and "why".

After all, no matter how much you try to find out the cause or blame yourself, the person you once loved madly no longer belongs to you.

Waiting for the passage of time, you will find that you can really face "that person" without any waves.

This is the highest state of "non-feeling" – letting go.

First, you have to accept that you are being hurt. Second, you need to expand your understanding of human nature.

Regarding the view of extramarital affairs, most people think that "if a man betrays his family, he has no morality, that is, his character is corrupt, and he is not saved".

In fact, this kind of approach is very one-sided.

We all know that people have a characteristic of liking the new and hating the old, if we face a face for a long time and there is nothing new or changing, then we are very likely to look elsewhere for freshness. Although we know that human beings are evolved and different from animals, we cannot deny the existence of these human beings.

If you deny these human natures, you will feel that the world is not black and white, and your perspective on the world will become very narrow.

When you see a good-looking boy, you will also look at it twice, and then silently comment in your heart "really handsome", which is normal.

When we see the diversity of human nature, we will be better at understanding the world, and it will also prevent you from despairing of life, marriage, and love.

Hello, this has to be a quarrel to see what kind of person it is, generally speaking, most people who pretend to be Tong are unable to forgive each other's betrayal. If you forgive the other party once, there will be a second and third time.

To forgive or not to forgive, it's up to you, and how you feel in your heart.

In fact, it's not that you don't forgive others, but that you can't let go of yourself.

He's just a passerby in your life, it's already over, just let him go, you still stay in this internal friction, thinking about why he betrayed the old Sakura Shed Waiter, why is he so hateful, wasting his mental time and experience, and wasting it to do more important things.

The biggest loss is still yourself.

There is reincarnation in the way of heaven, who is spared by the sky!

I believe that a person who can do such a thing as betrayal must not be strong in his heart, he must also be a weak person, and he may also be suffering from self-blame and guilt.

Why don't you turn around and thank him, thank him for reminding you that you don't take it lightly in the future, or if you are missing in some way.

Forgive him for his cowardice and cowardice.

When you think like this, don't you feel better than when you feel resentful and resentful?

I have only recently had some small realizations, because I am in the midst of being betrayed, and the pain of day and night consumes my time and energy, delaying everything that should be done in a hurry.

But when I thought about it and treated it the other way, I found that everything had changed, and my world was slowly returning to peace. When you change, the whole world changes.

It's not forgiving, it's just irrelevant.

At the beginning, I really hated each other, and I would try my best to hurt each other. At that time, I blew up the other party's fish pond. I did everything I could to hurt him, but I wasn't happy, I didn't have the pleasure of getting revenge, and I wondered if I had become the person I hated the most.

Later, as time passed, I slowly calmed down, and I realized that what matters is not what he did, but what matters is how I think.

Did you know? The reason I can't forgive is that I feel that I am honest and trusting, but the other party has lied and deceived me.

I felt like I was a victim, but then I felt like I was a survivor.

It's just that the other party doesn't understand love, or rather, the other party doesn't understand your love, so in this case, it's much better to be envious early than to continue to linger, isn't it?

Nobu Kanno Ren is very difficult to build, and it only takes a moment to destroy.

I found the center of gravity of my world, and I started to focus on my life, yes, he was betrayed and hurt me, but those things passed.

I still want to fall in love with someone passionately and brilliantly, I still want to have a love that I only want to have a white heart, and I still have illusions about this cruel world.

He just let me know that there are people in this world who don't know what love is, and I sympathize with him, but I will never say a word more.

Love is restraint, selflessness, giving, and heart-for-heart.

Congratulations, after leaving someone who has hurt you, you must know that it will be slow to get better, but life will be beautiful after that.

It's like I met someone now, I laugh when I think of him, his little tiger teeth are so good-looking, I used to have no goals and no ideals and felt that life was nothing but Erer, but ah, because he wanted to change for the better.

I said to him, "I can't promise to love you forever, but I want to fall in love with you again and again." ”

Where he is home, when he appears, all my past is eclipsed, I just want to see him laugh.

So everything in the past is not important, now the important thing is only the person next to me, I, ah, I have no ideals, no ambitions, I just want to be with the people I love, a dull life. Do not seek to be rich and rich, but to seek happiness and peace.