What to do, how to adapt to living with others

The Chinese in the world are one family, you don't even have the courage to talk to a strange family, what should you do in society? The problem is not with them, they dare to joke with you to prove that they don't treat you as an outsider and you mind. It is true that there is a saying that the speaker has no intention, and the listener has the heart.

But the listener should not pay too much attention to what the speaker says, because it is normal to blurt it out. You sometimes say something that makes the listener pay attention, don't you? It's just that you don't know it.

In fact, your problem is very simple, it is mentality. Your ability to adapt to an unfamiliar environment is quite poor, which is a big problem, and you can say that you are not confident in yourself. You should try to reach out to them, blend in with them, and challenge yourself.

Every new attempt is an exercise for yourself, the ultimate purpose of your school is to step into the society, in the school can teach you a lot of new steps into the society to know, you must learn. You have to force yourself to finish the nails you can touch in school, so that when you step into the society, you will know how to deal with the old nails! Understand?

Take it easy. In fact, when I first came to a new group, I was also very unsociable.

But gradually, I got to know my classmates and talked more.

It's all going to feel like this at first, and that's okay.

Everyone will be uncomfortable when they start to be in a dormitory, but you have to learn to slowly integrate into the group, regardless of the class, the dormitory, is a truth, you can unite classmates will definitely be able to get along well with roommates, half of us in the same dormitory are good friends, the last best friends.

In fact, it is not important to be a person, the difference between you is just the difference in the past living habits, as long as you treat each other sincerely, you will definitely be able to get sincere friendship!

I wish you an early integration into the new collective!

After a long time, I am familiar with it, I can't say for sure, and I have learned a foreign language, Anhui dialect.

They joke with you that they like you, and if you change that mindset, you might think they're cute! Don't have regional differences and exclude, everyone is actually the same, and may have different living habits, but these are not important, as long as you play with them more with the right mentality, the original mustard will slowly disappear.

This really depends on the different lifestyles of each person.

I can accept life alone and will enjoy living alone.

Let me tell you about one of my own experiences, from graduation to now, I have been sharing a house with my friends and sisters, and I have never lived alone, because my work is relatively easy, and I will be more anxious when I am alone at home, hoping to find someone to spend time with me, and this situation will disappear until my friends get off work. I'll find any topic to talk to them about, and I'll feel bad if they show impatience.

Many times I will also think about whether I am too afraid of being alone, this state is not right, the more you rely on something, the more you will often lose the high slip gear, it will become what you have been chasing all your life, and you will be bound by it invisibly. I knew that this state of mine would also affect the people around me, and I began to wonder if I needed to live alone for a while.

Soon an opportunity came, the company needed me to go to Hangzhou for a business trip for at least half a year, and I started a life alone. Initially I would be upset, feeling empty and looking for something to fill myself. I contacted my friends one by one, chatted with them, and talked for hours, and my friends had their own lives, and I realized that they were causing trouble.

I began to think: a person's life, no matter how many people are with you, you need to face it alone, and no one can really bear it for you, after all, it is your life.

After surviving the first two months, my heart began to calm down, she was no longer panicked, and began to slowly fill in what she lacked and longed for, no longer expecting something from the outside world, so that Zhilai could get a temporary peace.

This experience of living alone has allowed me to no longer suffer from gains and losses, and I have begun to learn to accept the gifts of parting and life, which can be regarded as a kind of growth. When you can live a good life alone, I believe that you can live well under any circumstances, come on!

It's the first time I've left home to live outside, and I feel like I've learned a lot this month, and I'm tired --- overall

I wanted to cry every day when I returned to my residence for a week at the beginning of the week, the empty house, the tired body of dragging the work day was bright, hey, I began to wipe my nose a lot. But remember that you can't cry in front of people, you will be laughed at, you know who is the good guy and who is the bad guy, maybe who is waiting to see your jokes.

Day by day, listen to colleagues chatting, and talk less about yourself, so as not to know the pros and cons, offend people, and know the ,.. of the company's interpersonal network

After a long time, it's fine. In a month, I have adapted a lot now, and I have grown significantly, and the trick to adapt to life is to learn to endure first, and then learn to think. After surviving for a month or two, I naturally got used to it.

You're basically in a similar situation to me! I was also the class president in my freshman year of high school. I've encountered all the problems you mentioned! And I'm still a girl, and I'm under more pressure because there's a lot.

People are not convinced. But I still faced it bravely and looked at the results - very good (the results are among the best, and the popularity is not to say); Look at the process - it's very hard, I want to struggle in the swamp by myself, of course, all the embarrassment and helplessness are only clear to ......

People inevitably have to face a lot of difficulties, maybe you are smart and know how to ask for "help", and some things have to be decided by yourself and explore your own way out! Do you understand? When one day you truly understand your vulnerability, you have to face it strongly!

Maybe the specific experience, they said it very clearly, but about yourself, reflect deeply, are you fully prepared to face the pressure, competition, and the necessary training in life?

If it's troublesome, look at the good side of it. I'll tell you a story: There were two people who were going to a far away place, and they were walking and they tripped over a can, and the first person said:

I hate it, I don't want to talk about it far away, and I tripped over it. The second person said: It's so annoying, I tripped and fell.

Forget it, I'm lucky, at least I didn't fall into the mud. First of all, what do you think?

No matter what the situation, face it with a smile.

Talk to people.

Talk to people with your heart.

Believe in your own ability, study hard, and if your grades are good, someone will naturally ask you for advice. Wouldn't you be able to make yourself have a better performance when you get to that Min grip?

And please trust the time. As long as you are in a bridge group, you will definitely adapt to this group, and you will have a good time. Because as long as there is a collective, there will be love.

Where there is love, there will be sunshine. Where there is sunshine next to things, there will be friendship. Where there is friendship, there is happiness.

So I'm sure you can integrate yourself into the family very quickly.

Have a nice day.

In addition, be at peace with what happens. This is also important. Have an eye for beauty.

In fact, life is struggle and harvest, life is short, life should have a suitable goal, people always have to be a little spiritual, no matter what you do, you always have to make a difference. Life should be colorful. It should be:

Constant searching, constant pursuit, continuous struggle, although there is sweat on the way forward, there may be tears, but there will be happiness and enjoyment in success.

Time will make you mature. Self-confidence is important for a person, appropriate and correct choices are needed, and endurance for the process is necessary. Self-psychological adjustment must be constantly lifted, and the struggle for success requires unremitting efforts.

Happiness and joy are achieved early in continuous success.

Time is of the essence. Time will not go back, cherish the present and strive for the future.

At present, consumption in all aspects is rising again, even one price a day. I've just been working for less than a year, and my average annual total income is about 4w. If you are in college, you will feel that this amount of money must be very cool, but if you don't live, you won't know the price of rice, oil and salt.

Now there are not a few left after more than half a year. I am from Wuhan and now I am working in Hangzhou, my girlfriend is in Shanghai, I am from Shanghai, I graduated this year, I work in a bank, I have just worked for a short time, an average of 2000 a month.

I want to ** vote and**, but now I can't stand the fall, I don't know how to get some extra income, some people say that young people start their own businesses, it's simple, what do you rely on to start a business now? No money, no experience, no partners, that's not what to do and what to lose (don't say I'm useless, I have good attention and welcome guidance, I would appreciate it)?

I really don't know when I will be able to get married and buy a house. Now I get married in a big city, I roughly calculated before inspection, wedding banquet, 5w, miscellaneous expenses, 2w. The down payment for the house is 15w, and the home appliance for the renovation house is 10w.

It's about 35w, and I want to do it. And then what is waiting for you is the money to raise children (an average of 2000), and the elderly (500) because they have pension insurance, so it is easier, and to repay the house loan (2500-4000, which is the most powerful) The average family is about the same, with an average monthly fixed expenditure of 5000-7000. Hey, I can't see tomorrow.

Now if the total number of couples in a new family is not 10w a year, the quality of life will be discounted by a relatively large discount.

I just want to say it to be more comfortable, I wonder if everyone's situation is closer to mine? Let's share some ideas and opinions, and there may be new discoveries. If you have a rich person, please don't come to bt me, thank you!

Yes, life is so cruel, people just want to escape, but they can't, buying a house and buying a car is easy to say, but it is difficult to do. You're okay, there is a harvest, I am now even losing work, even supporting myself has become a problem, but these are very real problems, as soon as you answer the hunger button, you must face it, for your own future, only to work hard, there is no choice.

Friends, don't be discouraged, that's the case, then let's move forward in front of the facts.

Life is cruel. Today is cruel, tomorrow it will be even more cruel. Therefore, we should adapt and work hard to turn cruelty into a bright road full of sunshine.

How to adapt to life, this question asks, people are adapting to life, do what they want to do, listen to the songs they want to hear, eat what they want to eat, contact the people they want to contact, cry when they want to cry, laugh if they want to laugh, why do you have to demand yourself according to other people's specifications, don't do illegal things, don't do immoral things, just be happy.

Live, live, live, live.