Why do some people always like to be villains?

Villain, in Chinese social life, refers to people who like to fight openly and secretly, do bad things such as playing right and wrong, sowing discord, watching the fire from the other side, and falling into the well. When they see the wind and steer the rudder, whoever gains power will attach themselves to whom, and whoever loses power will abandon whom, to their bosses and those who can be used, they will speak flatteringly and have a lotus tongue.

It's dizzy and disorienting. They are more deliberately close to their superiors and waiting for opportunities to make small reports. Good at superficial kung fu, good at taking the opportunity to invite merit and grab merit, stepping on other people's shoulders to climb high, once there is something bad, find a substitute for the dead ghost to carry the black pot.

Falling into the well is their usual trick. Sowing discord is the best way for them to profit. single-handedly creates disputes, but he ignores himself, allows others to fight, plays the peacemaker himself, and pretends to be a good person.

Now I understand that the villain's tricks are always behind it, because everything he does can't be put on the table! Since he can't get on the stage, he does his best offstage villain tricks, playing right and wrong, and sowing discord. If this person is clear to you and the person who determines your fate is not clear, then you have to skillfully reveal his face in front of his boss, and you must pay attention to proportion, because if you are not careful, the villain will slander you as a villain in front of your boss!

Or maybe your boss thinks you might be a villain!

Because being a gentleman is tiring and will be bullied by others, some people choose to be villains to get their best interests.

The ancients often said that it is difficult to raise villains and women, and the villains in this are to the effect that they are hypocrites. Everyone knows that the real villain is above board, at least they are above board.

Just like the East Factory and West Factory in the Ming Dynasty, the red-faced leaders sang, and the black-faced leaders could only be sung by these villains!

The best way to destroy the villain is to keep strengthening yourself! Let your strength speak, want to do things, do things, and don't have accidents! ‍‍

I have a cousin who has played since I was a child, and I study together and come out to work together. When we work together, I like to surf the Internet, and my elders know about it. I often say in front of my parents that I am late for work and go to the Internet after work.

And when it comes to talking to my cousin, I often praise him, and honestly, I know what he looks like. But he is a good baby in front of all his relatives.

Leaders like to have this kind of person to perform some things that are inconvenient for leaders to come forward.

Because villains are so bad, they will always make people unguardable, and everyone will hate reversing right and wrong. 01. I like to take advantage of others.

For those who are greedy for money, they have long been a habit. It was as if everyone owed him anything. With the first time, there will be a second time, which shows how much everyone hates him.

People like this, if they don't get rid of this bad habit in time, then it will end up ruining their lives. And people like this, they are also very inefficient at work, and the leader has long lost hope for him. Therefore, if we want to make a difference in the workplace, we must first learn to be sincere to others, and secondly, we must not be greedy for money.

02. People who like to talk big.

At work, in order to relieve stress, you can joke with your colleagues appropriately, but the premise must be to be acceptable to others. But there are some people who always like to talk big in front of their colleagues, and often like to say something that they don't have, and it seems that only in this way can they make him feel happy in his heart. But he didn't know what the consequences of eating cows would be for him.

People like this will be extremely disgusting, and even if one day what he says is true, no one will want to believe it. Even more seriously, when he opened his mouth, his colleagues were already gone.

Every time she has a class reunion in the dormitory, Y will complain that someone in the company will put on small shoes for her and make a small report. Whenever this happens, I just listen and don't say anything. Because of these words, she has said countless times.

At first, I thought that because she was a newcomer, she would be easily bullied by the old employees. So I persuaded her not to be too strong and have a better attitude towards her colleagues, after all, a newcomer, everyone doesn't know enough about it, and it's normal for someone to be unaccustomed to it for a while. But she told me that she had worked for several companies like this.

She said that her boys are very good, and every time she goes to a company, she can get along with male colleagues quickly, and call her brothers, but she doesn't get along well with female colleagues. I understood that it wasn't her colleague's problem, it was herself.

In contrast, I seem to be so lucky that the two companies I have worked for since graduation have very good colleagues. In the first company, almost everyone was the same age, had a common topic, and helped each other in their daily work, and there was never intrigue. In the second company, not to mention the leaders of my own department, they took good care of me, and other colleagues were able to get along with each other.

y said that it was because I was too simple, and even if others were behind me, maybe I didn't know.

Maybe. But I don't think there's anything wrong with being simple, it's so tiring to cheat like acting in a palace fight drama all day long. I'm here to work, not to fight, so there's no need to focus on that.

And, when every company you work for is going to have people targeting you, shouldn't you think about your own reasons? Even if one or two colleagues are cautious and can't get used to you, what about three or four? They can't have negotiated in advance, no matter which scumbag company you go to, they will make things difficult for you, right?

For example, this classmate of mine, she is good at dealing with male colleagues, but she is too lazy to deal with female colleagues, her attitude is so obvious, who can't see it? If you don't care about others, what qualifications do you have to ask others to give you a good look?

We spend at least 60% of our day in the company except for sleeping, and if we face a scheming face every day, we are always on guard against whether someone will stab us in the back, how tired it must be. With that time, why not do something more meaningful?

Don't be afraid to meet villains, find out the reason from yourself.

If it's because you're being jealous, it's because you're not high enough. A pancake seller will never be jealous that Jack Ma is richer than him, he will only be jealous of another pancake seller. Only when you have improved your level will you stay away from those villains who are easily envious.

If it is your own reason that others target you everywhere, correct it. Treat colleagues the same and don't engage in so-called "office politics". If you can't even handle the relationship with colleagues, what can you do if you are familiar with the "Thirty-six Strategies"?

If it's purely because your colleague is too "villainous" and slanders you for no reason, then stay away from him.

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