The child s low emotional intelligence is not pleasing, and it can be seen at a glance, especially

The emotional intelligence of selfish, grumpy children is uncontrollably low. I like to discuss the rights and wrongs of others.

If the child has low emotional intelligence, he will not look at the face of his parents, he will do whatever he wants, and he will do whatever he wants, no matter what the environment.

Often crying regardless of the occasion, and can't be coaxed well, often tantrums.

Introduction: Children with low emotional intelligence will be very selfish and will develop a self-centered character, some children with low emotional intelligence will be very selfish, will attribute all their mistakes to others, have no sense of responsibility, and will attach great importance to their own things, and children with low emotional intelligence are also difficult to control their emotions and can lose their temper at will on some occasions, as long as they are not satisfied, they will lose their temper, regardless of it. And children with low emotional intelligence are not polite, they don't know how to greet the elderly when they meet them, and they don't know how to respect others.

At the same time, they will also behave very stubbornly, unwilling to listen to other people's opinions, just want to do what they want to do, and will not pay attention to the advice of teachers and parents.

Parents should cultivate children's empathy, which is also very helpful for children's emotional intelligence, if children can think from the perspective of others, then they can also form a good relationship with others, especially when others are emotionally unstable, they can take care of others' feelings, and can give others some help when others are in difficulty, so that they can experience the mood of others, so as to help others is also very helpful for children's emotional intelligence.

Parents should avoid spoiling their children, otherwise they will only let the children form a self-respecting character, if the family is always very spoiled children, it will make children become unruly, emotional intelligence is very low, and can also let children say difficult words, so that others are uncomfortable, so parents should avoid spoiling children, at the same time parents should also respect children's personality, regard children as equal as parents, and only respected children can respect others.

Finally, if the child's emotional intelligence is low, the child's future work and life will be very difficult, you must know that different family environments and educational atmospheres will lead to changes in a person's emotional intelligence, because emotional intelligence is acquired, so parents must pay attention to cultivating their children's emotional intelligence to avoid making the child an undesirable person.

Children with low emotional intelligence speak very directly, and do not consider the feelings of others, especially easy to offend people, generally unsociable, unpopular, and not very good at expressing their emotions, liking and hating are very direct, so it is easy to make classmates hate.

There are a lot of negative emotions, and I don't like to talk to people, I don't like to communicate with people, I get very nervous when I get along with others, I can't speak, and I don't have friends outside.

It will show the child's reaction, the speed is very slow, and the child is prone to tantrums, very impatient personality, and can not control his emotions well.