Why do wicked people like to sue first?

We all know that the wicked sue first, but why sue first, I think the first is to confuse the public, the average person will have a preconceived judgment of what he hears for the first time, and when he meets a reasonable person, he will listen to both sides, and he will find out after he meets a reckless person who may have done something wrong, which leaves time for the wicked to escape; The second is that from the perspective of psychology, in a state of loss and weakness, in order to give himself courage, he can't wait to clear himself, and simply think that only in this way will he escape punishment, which is actually similar to covering his ears and stealing the bell; The third is that the reason why the wicked are called wicked is because they have no face, just like the old lai, they don't care about other people's opinions and lawsuits at all, as a normal person is not willing to go to court, but they don't, it feels like it's commonplace, have you found that sometimes the wicked people around you know the law better... For example, I have encountered this kind of problem, I was borrowed by someone else and asked for money for several years without result, and told him that I want to solve it through judicial channels, in fact, I just said that, after all, we were friends before, guess what he said? You go and sue, I won't pay it back if it's sentenced, and I won't have any savings at that time...

We all know that the wicked sue first, but why sue first, I think the first is to confuse the public, the average person will have a preconceived judgment of what he hears for the first time, and when he meets a reasonable person, he will listen to both sides, and he will find out after he meets a reckless person who may have done something wrong, which leaves time for the wicked to escape; The second is that from the perspective of psychology, in a state of loss and weakness, in order to give himself courage, he can't wait to clear himself, and simply think that only in this way will he escape punishment, which is actually similar to covering his ears and stealing the bell; The third is that the reason why the wicked are called wicked is because they have no face, just like the old lai, they don't care about other people's opinions and lawsuits at all, as a normal person is not willing to go to court, but they don't, it feels like it's commonplace, have you found that sometimes the wicked people around you know the law better... For example, I have encountered this kind of problem, I was borrowed by someone else and asked for money for several years without result, and told him that I want to solve it through judicial channels, in fact, I just said that, after all, we were friends before, guess what he said? You go and sue, I won't pay it back if it's sentenced, and I won't have any savings at that time...

Wicked people like to sue first, but it's not as bad as you think, everything has its pros and cons, and we can't measure a group with such a small part, can we? I am a Hainanese, although I am not good, but I at least know how to respect others, know the difference between black and white, and know how to rely on my own ability to help others. We should take a longer view of our goals.

Find a time to get off work or take a break, and communicate with the leader well, at this time, it is not recommended to tell someone directly, just show your ability and trustworthy side. If you encounter a bad leader and don't trust your subordinates, then you can only wait or do your current job well, avoid villains, and don't clash head-on.

The reason why the wicked person is called evil is because it will make others feel aggressive, so the wicked person sues first, and the focus is not on the word complaint, but on a bad word, and the complaint is only one of his behavioral habits.

This is because the wicked, first of all, have lost their qualifications to be human beings. The wicked themselves are despised by all righteous men and gentlemen. But a kind person and a person with a sunny mentality will not treat big lawsuits as commonplace.

Our society is afraid of being bullied, just like encountering a mad dog, for fear of rabies, everyone goes to hide. At this time, the wicked man is even more invincible, thinking that everyone is afraid of him. If society condones or avoids the wicked, you may be the next victim.

The treatment of mad dogs in the countryside is like discovering a fire, everyone goes into battle, takes all the self-defense **, sticks or shovels and hoes, and hunts down the mad dogs, which are generally killed on the spot, so that rabies will not harm more innocents.

Because they are guilty, they can only take the first step to distort the facts to cover up their ugly deeds. That's all they do.

Rushing to cover up their own mistakes and trying to mislead the judgment of others in order to evade their own responsibility.

In this case, it is both complicated and simple, and simple is complicated. Whoever doesn't say people behind their backs, who doesn't say anyone behind their backs. Right. Inevitably.

But some people (the so-called wicked people) are different, what about this kind of "right and wrong", they are jealous of you, jealous that you are better than them, afraid of seeing your achievements, afraid of seeing you much better than them. However, due to their "low IQ" (very low), "character" (very inferior) and other reasons, they are at a loss for what to do about it, and they can't think of any other way. Only this kind of bad idea of lifting a stone to shoot yourself in the foot and slap your own mouth

Hey, it's scary to be uneducated...

The wicked are outgoing and proactive.

Because they're afraid that if you go and sue first, the wicked will be beaten.

I want to find a better reason for my actions. Strive for the initiative.

Because this is what the ancients have long summed up, this is an idiom that the wicked sue first.

For he is a wicked man, who can do everything.

Summary. Hello, don't save face for him, just make everything clear. The reason why the villain dares to sue the villain first is that he believes that you don't dare to be as open-minded as him, and once you don't care about the image and say everything, he will naturally stop.

What should I do if I sue the wicked first?

Hello, don't save face for him, just make everything clear. The reason why the villain dares to sue the villain first is that he believes that you don't dare to be as open-minded as him, and once you don't care about the image and say everything, he will naturally stop.

Deal with the villain who sues the wicked first, you can use the way of others, and also treat their bodies, these people are generally not worthy of our deep friendship, people don't offend me, I don't offend people, if he sues first, you can use facts to prove that what he said is wrong, it is what he did wrong, just stay away from him in the future.

For the wicked the villain who sues first. I don't think you're doing anything? Or say something, there must be a record before you say it.

Record what you say or do through ** or audio recording, especially when you are with her on errands. Be sure to keep an eye on it. If he sues the wicked first, you can take out these ** or recordings to confront him.

Summary. According to your problem, make the following analysis: when you encounter a wicked person and sue him first, you should criticize him with a stern attitude, let him feel his majesty, and at the same time express the righteous side to the other party with righteous words, only by making the other party's heart feel surrendered, can you be afraid of yourself.

When you encounter a wicked person who sues first, you must dare to face it and explain the most real evidence to everyone, only in this way can you avoid being harmed, which is also the basic principle of being a human being.

According to your problem, make the following analysis: when you encounter a wicked person and sue him first, you should criticize him with a stern attitude, let him feel his majesty, and at the same time express the righteous side to the other party with righteous words, only by making the other party's heart feel surrendered, can you be afraid of yourself. When you encounter a wicked person who sues first, you must dare to face it and explain the most real evidence to everyone, only in this way can you avoid being harmed, which is also the basic principle of being a human being.

From "Sui Shu Yuan Xuan Biography": "Soldiers and horses know about his family belongings, as soon as they strike first, big things will go", which means that they can gain an advantage by acting before others. When dealing with some ill-intentioned people, don't sit back and wait for the result, but face it positively.

Don't let the trouble get in the way, and then explain. One explanation is that it is pale and weak, that is, the ink on the clothes, which is difficult to bleach. Therefore, a person should be proactive in doing things, take the initiative to do things, and take the initiative to report to the leader, don't let the villain seize the opportunity to report, or let people seize the results at a critical moment.

In a word, people who take the initiative can always seize the opportunity, judge the situation, occupy a favorable position, not only be able to avoid damage, but also retreat and achieve the final victory.

Summary. The language of the wicked first sue and fight back: 1. Don't talk too much, do things in a high-profile manner and be a low-key person.

People who do things too viciously will not end well. People are watching the sky, and retribution will always come. I can't escape if I want to, and the scolding is so vicious.

Kindness to help you was bitten instead, it was really good to be kind and not rewarded. Ungrateful.

The wicked sue first how to fight back.

The language of the wicked first sue and fight back: 1. Don't talk too much, do things in a high-profile manner and be a low-key person. People who do things too viciously will not end well.

People are watching the sky, and retribution will always come. I can't escape if I want to, and the scolding is so vicious. Kindness to help you was bitten instead, it was really good to be kind and not rewarded.

Ungrateful. 2.You will never be responsible for what you do, and you bite back and hit a rake, which makes me feel that your life is simply too difficult!

3.Kindly saved a dragonfly and wanted to release it, but was bitten, a real-life version of the farmer and the snake.

Communicate with management frequently:

People are emotional animals, often go to the management to chat, talk about the latest work, talk about feelings, ask the leader for advice, close to the heart, keep the information flowing, it is easier to gain trust and support.

A cooperative relationship of trust, even if there are rumors, it will not be a big problem, if the relationship itself is fragile, less trust, more suspicion, a word to fan the flames, may also set off a hurricane.

Choose the right moment to hit with one hit:

Since it is the wicked who sue first, most of them are usually false, and they fish in troubled waters when everyone does not know the truth.

Find the right time and make preparations, such as a meeting or a three-way argument, to lay out the facts, the truth surfaces, and the rumors immediately dispel. Next time, it won't work.

The wicked man dared to sue first, and he returned the lawsuit. To treat this kind of person, we should use the spear of the son, and the shield of the son must not be merciful, and he should be caught off guard, in short, facts speak louder than words. If you can't say it, then you will be cold, despise him, and clean yourself. Is it Zhai.

Criticize him harshly and ask him why he did this. Because the villain itself is weak-hearted, she always thinks about anything with her villain's heart, otherwise how can she be right to the title of villain? There are too many such people in life, don't pay attention to them, the so-called see people's hearts over time, where is a person's ability?

How stupid can you be? This kind of person can't survive there, and villains make a lot of trouble! You can calm down and see what he says, and then you can be sensible.

It depends on what the specific thing is and the specific object in order to have a specific way to deal with it. But it is also necessary to grasp the basic principles, and if you are sued first, you can explain calmly and eliminate misunderstandings; And pay attention to collecting the inappropriate words and deeds of the wicked, and seize the handle and hit the other party with a blow.

It will be like this among colleagues in the company, if you want not to defend, you are wrong, because if your boss has a preconceived bad impression, it is difficult for you to have a good impression no matter how you justify, feel it yourself! Sometimes someone who doesn't want to fight for anything wants to step on your foot and give you a knife! Find a chance to explain when the leader is in a good mood, otherwise you will be unjustly killed.

Since this person said it first, then you do it first, do it well, and the facts will prove everything. The villain will not end well.

Evil does not prevail over good, ignore it, and do your own thing.

Let him lift a stone and pierce his foot.

Kill him, kill the bad people, and be at ease.

I found that I didn't have back pain when I was standing and talking.

The wicked sue first, a proverb that means that the bad guy or the wrong person preemptively tells or distorts the facts.

Source: Lu Xun's "Book from Two Places": "After my strong reply, I couldn't deal with it, so I used the final poisonous plan, that is, to retreat as advance, preemptively, that is, the so-called 'wicked people sue first'." ”

Usage: subject-predicate; as an object, a definite; Refers to the first strike.

The meaning of "the wicked sue first" means that the bad person or the wrong person preemptively tells or distorts the facts.

1. Pronunciation: è rén xiān gào zhuàng2, usage: subject-predicate; as an object, a definite; Refers to the first strike.

3. Source: From Lu Xun's "Book of Two Places", "After my strong reply, I couldn't deal with it, so I used the final poisonous plan, that is, to retreat as advance, preemptively, that is, the so-called 'wicked people sue first'." (Translation:.)

This is what people call bad people or bad people preempting or distorting the facts. ）

4. Part of speech: neutral idioms; Contemporary idioms.