After the divorce, my ex husband is getting better and better, where did I lose?

This is because you have an incorrect attitude towards your relationship and you have a very bad mentality, so you should learn from your ex-husband.

Because I don't know how to make calculations and I don't spend money sparingly, my husband will divorce me when he sees me.

I think it's probably because your ex-husband just met the right person and you didn't.

One day husband and wife hundred days. For many divorced couples, the meaning of this sentence can be best understood. However, after some couples divorce, they will treat each other as "enemies" and will not interact with each other again.

In fact, I think that no matter what, after all, I have loved and had good happiness. Even if you are divorced, you shouldn't have come to this point. There is no need to go this far.

Of course, after the divorce, we all need to go about our lives. And most people prefer "each is well".

It is true that if there is no need for each other to continue to intersect in the future, then it is also a good choice for each other to be well. But most couples, can't do that. After many couples divorce, it is impossible not to connect because of the bond of children.

It can be seen that how to get along with your ex after divorce is also a problem that needs to be solved.

How will you live after the divorce? To some extent, it has a lot to do with your choices and efforts.

In this process, many divorced couples may encounter such a problem. That is, what should you do when the other person is having a bad time?

Before discussing this issue, let me share with you a reader's story.

A friend shared with me the story of how he helped his ex-wife, Nakamae Cong.

After he divorced his ex-wife, his son followed his ex-wife. He regretted the divorce for half a year, so he chose to remarry and sell Sakura. I'm having a good time.

But his ex-wife, alone with a child, is indeed a little tight this day. Although at the time of the divorce, he divided most of his property among his ex-wife. But after all, they are just an ordinary family and do not have much property.

And it is also their own fault that they have come to the step of divorce. He has made a little success in his career, and as a result, he is a little arrogant. At this time, betrayed the family.

Although in the end he did not remarry that woman, but chose another woman to remarry. But he has a lot of responsibility for getting to this point in his marriage.

Maybe it's also out of guilt. After the divorce, he has actually been taking care of his ex-wife. His ex-wife doesn't have much power. I have a job to support myself and my children. But as the overhead increases, it's a bit overwhelming.

Compared with his ex-wife's, his own life is better off.

In this case, he chose to help his ex-wife. Actually, it's not helpful. In addition to thinking about his own son, he may also have a bit of a charm that wants to make up for it.

But for whatever purpose, he chose to help.

At present, society has entered an era of rapid development, and the relationship between people has become more and more complex. Marriage, as one of the most important components of human society, is also the most closely related part, when two people live together, it is inevitable to encounter some problems. However, when there are problems in the marriage and after the divorce, the relationship between the two people will also change.

In this case, if the ex-husband is in trouble, whether we should help him or not is a question worth our **.

First of all, we should be rational about the difficult situation of our ex-husband. We can't be hostile to our ex-husbands just because they're divorced, and we can't be prejudiced against our ex-husbands because of the past between them. We should be rational about our ex-husband's difficulties and help him solve them.

Only in this way will we be able to deal with this issue fairly and objectively.

Second, we need to consider the nature of the difficulties that the ex-husband is experiencing. If it is some very urgent situation, such as a sudden illness or an emergency, we should try our best to help our ex-husband. If the ex-husband is only having some minor difficulties in life, we can also help appropriately, but we should not interfere too much in his life.

After all, two people are divorced, and their respective lives should be taken care of by themselves.

Finally, we also need to consider our own capabilities and affordability. If helping your ex-husband will put too much burden on us or affect our own life, we can politely refuse his request or help as much as we can, but not too much at the expense of our own interests.

In short, when facing the difficult situation of our ex-husband's encounter, we should treat it rationally, take into account all factors, and help as much as possible. After all, the ex-husband is a former relative, and even if he is divorced, he cannot forget his former feelings and responsibilities. But at the same time, we must also put our own interests first, and not sacrifice our own lives and interests in such a disorderly manner.