Tell me the solution, I don t want to go on like this

1. Maybe you care more about the process of [hunting] than the [prey] itself;

2. It may be that before you get the [prey], the expectation is too perfect, and the [prey] is in hand, and you find that you have lost the perfection you imagined;

3. Don't be too nostalgic for the emotions described in [**], ** is not about people's eating, drinking, and Lazar;

4. No one is perfect, the key is to find the one who is willing to give everything for you and can keep his promise for a lifetime;

5. Don't revel in the process, cool down first when it's hot, and heat it when it's cold;

6. [Bondage] may be imposed on you by yourself, don't control everything about him, don't hand yourself over to his control, and leave your own space for yourself;

7. The two parties first understand each other's shortcomings, and once the contract is signed, it is necessary to ensure that the shortcomings of the other party can be accommodated in the future;

8. Remember the key: plain is true.

Do you really like him? No way. You're just after one.

It's just a feeling, a feeling of victory, and whenever it has a good impression of someone else, you are.

You feel like a failure, don't you?

Don't say you like him very much, these are excuses, you just have a hint of him.

It's just a good feeling. You yearn for a free life, don't you, so why bother yourself?

Isn't it better to go to your boyfriend alone, right? Sorry for that.

It's normal to be afraid, and there's a big difference between introverts and extroverts for girls.

If you are an introvert, of course your heart will be messed up after being loved

Quite a hot topic. I don't have to take so much to help you. It all makes sense. But what if you could appreciate it for yourself? To what you have elaborated. Let's see what you think.

Amusing. Something that makes you or others think it's ridiculous. What is your attitude towards the concept of love? It seems that you don't really look at feelings in the same way as ordinary people, it's more like a game, and it can even make you feel ridiculous.

It's pretty and usually likes me with my efforts. Self-confidence, at least in the eyes of others, if this sentence has not reached the level of conceit, it can be classified as self-confidence. However, not all guys like you because of your efforts.

Are you playing life? What are they in your eyes? Lover?

No way. At least it's not really the identity of lovers in the eyes of ordinary people. Men chase women across the mountain, women chase men across the layer of paper.

It doesn't necessarily matter how much you're going to pay to get their love. But they like you, no matter how much they like or love you. That's all heart.

You should not trample on them. It's just telling you that you shouldn't.

Like him, shed tears, and ran away in a hurry. What do you like about them? Have you ever wondered?

The tears you shed for them, are they the acting skills of the actors? How big does that mean? You fled in a hurry, why?

Didn't find a reason to defend yourself? Yes, you're here to find out, and you need that reason.

I don't know how true your so-called sure love is, I just know that your perception of love is very different from that of others. The love you get is something you deliberately create. When the bubble bursts, what you see is never the same as what you want.

You need to find what you really want. Don't mess with them, blame the poor. They are, and so are you.

You just want to get noticed, right?

It's really lonely inside.

Introspection, is vanity at work? Do you think you want to be equal to boys? Still is......?

I've learned that in situations like yours, there are not just two people in life. There are a number of reasons for this:

1.You're afraid of getting hurt. You're afraid you'll get bored after a long time.

2.You think you like him very much, but in fact, in a real sense, it's just one of his merits that attracts you and makes you "admire" him. It's not like you want it for a lifetime.

3.You probably don't know much about the people you like. So, why do so many people like to chase stars? It is because they are mysterious and unreachable that they are the most precious.

Because you think he likes you, you won't work as hard as you did before you think about it, have you noticed? You can do your best to show the sparkle in a short period of time, but it's a lot of effort, isn't it? Therefore, the most important thing is to have a normal heart, you can't work hard at the beginning, and then you get tired, love him, you have to do your best, when you get used to living like that, you won't feel tired, love, you have to pay, you have to fight a protracted ......

It's a blessing to fall in love with someone, but it's not right to have someone who loves you suffer for your love.

1.Procrastination: It can be frustrating when you have a lot of problems and don't know where to start. But the way to keep you away from this emotion is not to procrastinate, to solve the smallest and most problematic problem first, and then move on to the more difficult problems step by step.

Understand the nature of the problem: Sometimes our superficial view of a problem can be more stressful. Conduct an in-depth analysis of each problem, find its essence, and determine the optimal solution to deal with it.

Find supporters: Share issues with others and ask family, friends, or colleagues for help and advice. Communication can give you different perspectives and ideas, which can help you better deal with difficult situations.

Distraction: Try not to dwell on the problem all the time and detach yourself from it. Try to do things you enjoy, such as playing games, watching movies, playing sports, etc. This will help you feel relieved and you will be able to cope with the problem better.

Get professional help: Consider seeking professional help, such as a counsellor or life coach, when dealing with problems. They have experience in solving a variety of challenges and can help you develop targeted solutions.

In the end, when facing problems, you need to have a correct mentality and respond positively, and at the same time, you need to give yourself a certain amount of pressure and time, and trust your own ability and strength.

If you often feel idly occupied or unable to concentrate, here are a few solutions that are recommended:

1.Determine your top goals: Identify the most important tasks you want to accomplish and set key milestones and deadlines for that. Then, put these tasks on your calendar and try to coordinate your time to complete them.

2.Break down tasks: If you feel like a task is too big or complex and don't know where to start, try breaking it down into smaller, more specific tasks and try to solve them one by one.

3.Find someone to talk to: Speak to someone you trust and are honest and share your questions and confusion with them. By interacting with other people and giving each other advice and support, you may bring new ideas and perspectives.

The most important thing is to have a positive attitude, believe and believe that you have the ability to overcome difficulties and make the most of your abilities and resources.

Since it can't be solved, don't think about it, it's useless to think about it.

Marriage is based on love, so a marriage without love will not last long, but marriage is also managed by two people, in the process of running-in, sometimes although there is no love, but there will be feelings, which will also make the marriage of two people have a new turn and become long-lasting.

This depends on the management of two people, relying on two people in real life to continue to create some of the environment that has a good effect on the high marriage, with a good environment and atmosphere will make your marriage long-term and even white-headed, and beautiful.

On the contrary, there are some marriages that even if the love is dead and alive before marriage, no one can separate the two parties who love each other, but when they really enter the palace of marriage, accept the baptism of real life, and encounter such and such problems in life, they cannot stand the test, so that some marriages that seem to have sweet and mythical love fall apart in an instant. Therefore, the question of whether the marriage can last sometimes does not depend on whether there is love at that time.

Since you don't like each other, in the case that you can push it off, it is recommended that you do not choose to marry a person you don't love, marriage is a matter of two families, if you don't love each other, how can you seriously care for and take care of each other's family? When the time comes, it will not only be emotional discord between the two of you, but also emotional discord among other members of the family!

If you have to choose to be with the other person due to some special circumstances, you should talk to the other person first, at least let him know what you have in mind. If he still chooses to marry you without hesitation, it means that this person loves you very much, and he will tolerate your mistakes because he loves you, then I suggest that you cherish this feeling, sometimes you will always fall in love for a long time, and because he loves you, you will enjoy the feeling of being loved.