When it comes to relationships, I m having some trouble. 20

I also believe in you, but if you really didn't say anything to him, he couldn't say those words for no reason, I don't think a slap in the face can make a sound, if you can, think about whether there is anything wrong with you, for example, ignore the other party, say something, or have your own inappropriate places, you should be frank and open-minded, broad-minded, don't be very annoyed by a little thing, The hunter who goes to fight the lion will not delay his time because he meets a dog halfway, forget it this time, if you are so unfortunate to see him again, don't pay attention to him, if he is taking the initiative to provoke you, you don't get used to him, let him know, if anyone wants to get used to him, that is the attitude that hurts him and scolds him for a bloody head, don't be afraid of big things, men who care about women, generally have no ability, I hope to help you.

Hehe, it's just such a simple sentence, I believe everyone didn't understand it, but it feels like there's something wrong with that woman. It is recommended that you first ask the man out to talk to him separately to understand the situation. The tone of the idea should be based on understanding the situation and minimize contradictions.

The most basic politeness and respect should still be there, after all, it is also a friend of your friend, if you are rude, say sorry, if he is still like this, ignore him.

Friends should keep a distance from each other, not people who eat, drink and have fun every day, they are friends, and they should be clearly distinguished.

When you are lonely, you can need a short period of excitement, but in the end, your heart is still calm, and you will find that as you grow older, what you need is to make friends. No matter how good the girlfriends are, don't be together every day, distance produces beauty, which is applicable to any relationship, even relatives.

The first is to speak, you can't attack others, you can't make others uncomfortable, the degree to which you speak makes people comfortable determines your height.

The second is emotionWe are willing to give emotional value. We men must have the world in mind and constantly coax others. Bow your head and admit your mistakes and make the other party happy.

Also, there is the benefit giving, spend money when you should spend, invest when you should invest, invite you to eat when you should eat, let others take advantage of it, the other party is embarrassed, and you will give back when you find an opportunity.

What will be taken first, will be given first. I just let others take advantage of me, but I don't take advantage of others. I made you happy enough, do you repay you with kindness and revenge, and repay virtue with resentment, which is not good for me? I don't think so.

Every little thing in life has its meaning, whether it is a quarrel with a classmate, a quarrel with a parent, facing a problem, to solve him, you can avoid thinking for a while, but if this is your long-term conflict, you have to be brave to face the problem and solve the problem. If you avoid problems for a long time and don't solve them, then when you really grow up, you won't have the ability to deal with interpersonal relationships, and if your personality doesn't get along, you will experience such pain over and over again. Next time your parents (or rather yourself) tell you to put your energy into your studies, tell them:

No, that's my business.

In the future, you can't just get close to people, and you can't always blindly give. First of all, we must see people clearly, and the water will flow for a long time; Secondly, if you can't look past some things and offend yourself, you must fight for reason, know how to protect and protect yourself, and don't blindly hold back your anger, otherwise you will feel that you are instigating others

It's best not to tear your face, you should still be amiable on the surface, and then reason with the other party, try to let the other party know that you are reasonable, but very gentle, and the other party is unreasonable, but the method you give can try to protect his interests.

The best solution is to improve yourself, make yourself better and better, better and better, enrich yourself, and let the other party see value in you, so that the other party will naturally get along with you very friendly.

I think the best way is to communicate, two people can go out to have a meal alone, and just explain things and misunderstandings clearly.