Isn t it cruel that someone who loves each other has to break up

You should go and take a bath with cold water now, calm yourself down, the person who has walked with you all your life may not be the person you love the most, nor the person who loves you the most, that person is the person who met you at the right time and in the right place, don't think that you are going to lose, that is, the sky is falling, the road is still long, you have to walk slowly. I hope you can think about it calmly and rationally

We fantasize about all kinds of things, but we live in reality, we have to face this or that unsatisfactory life, we can only face it calmly, at least you have to remember all this in your old age, don't be upset. Therefore, we must grasp the present in order to better grasp the future.

As for the various troubles now, at that time we had too little experience, and our psychological endurance was not enough, or we did not see such a life.

I hope you can get out of the trough of life and create brilliance.

It's so similar to my experience, and in the end we broke up, but I never wanted to see her again, I hated her in my heart, and my life was no longer only about myself, but also her, and another person close to her (not when I hated her, but after I broke up).

If I were you, you would never let her go, even if she let go, you would have to find a way to fight her back. Even if it becomes a shameless person. Unless you don't love her anymore.

If you can avoid it, try to fight for your own happiness.

Why do you want to be separated?

If it's really a last resort.

That's only to bless each other.

It's easy to fall in love, it's hard to get along, it's easy to get along, it's hard to stay together. This sentence seems to be a pain in the hearts of most of us. It was not easy to get together in the vast sea of people, but they met unexpectedly in the process of getting along, and finally survived the ups and downs.

Eventually, they missed each other until the end of their lives.

It is precisely because too many people who love each other fail to live together that there is such a saying that "marriage is the grave of love". It is said that "as long as you love each other, all problems can be solved", but in the end, you still can't escape firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea?

The result of this is nothing more than the three stages of love, staying together, and staying together, which have brought us different changes.

1: The stage of love.

Because in the process of relationship, two people need to face fewer problems, many problems cannot be touched at all, and many contradictions will naturally not occur. So there won't be too much quarrel and estrangement between the two people.

2: Staying together.

When two people enter the phase of staying together, it will not be as easy as when they are in love. The run-in of personality and the different outlook on life will lead to two people having different views on a certain thing. If there is a contradiction, if the contradiction is not handled well, it is basically a separation.

However, there are not too many contradictions in the stage of being together, and the two are still in a good time of love. Therefore, most lovers can rely on the phrase "love can solve all problems" and get through it smoothly.

Three: Staying together This is the most difficult stage.

When many of us first enter marriage, we ask them how to solve the conflicts in the future, and in the stage of staying together, most of us will still say "as long as we love each other, we can solve all problems".

But this sentence is okay in the period of love and stay, but when it comes to the stage of staying together, this sentence obviously does not work. Living together after marriage needs to face a series of practical problems in life, such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, etc., which are not a stove mill that can be solved by saying "we can love each other".

When there is bread, there is still strength to talk about love, and when the body is not full, there is still a soul to talk about love.

After all, society is realistic, and society will not change because you love each other. After marriage, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, family conflicts, etc. will only appear in the stage of staying together, and there is no need to face these problems in the first two stages, so naturally there is no need to solve them. When he waited until he faced these problems together, he realized that it was really difficult to be together.

Conclusion: Therefore, so many people who love each other can't go to the best hand-holding in the end, just because the days together are far better than they imagined when they love each other. When we really face the problems together, we find that there are a lot of problems that we can't do anything about, so we can only choose to end to avoid the battlefield.

Breaking up is a very painful thing, and for those who are really in love, they may choose to break up for many reasons. Here are some of the reasons that can cause someone in love to break up:

1.Inconsistent values: When two people's values are too different to compromise, they may find that they can't continue to walk together.

2.Needing different needs from each other: Sometimes two people may realize that they need different things. For example, one person may want more freedom and independence, while another may need more stability and security.

3.No time or space: The stresses and hectic lifestyles of life can sometimes alienate the relationship between two people, which can lead to two people deciding to separate.

4.No communication: Communication is very important for the health of a relationship. If two people can't talk openly about their needs and feelings, they may feel neglected or misunderstood.

5.Immature behavior: Sometimes people show immature behaviors in relationships, such as control, jealousy, distrust, etc. This can lead to a breakup.

Overall, a breakup can be caused by a lot of factors. Breaking up is a very painful thing for those who are truly in love, but sometimes they may think that it is the best option so that both of them can move on and have more growth and happiness.

Falling in love is a beautiful thing, but sometimes feelings can become complicated and difficult to deal with for various reasons. Letting go may be to better protect each other, or it may be to better face your life and future in order to rise to the age. But no matter what, when two people really smile and love each other, even if they let go, they will cherish each other's memories and feelings, and wish each other to find their own happiness.

Sometimes letting go doesn't mean the end, but for a better start to a new life.

Love is a state, but at the same time, love is also an ability, most people can enter the state of love, but often lack the ability to burn love, which eventually leads to the state of love getting worse and worse. I think that those who really love each other, why they can bear to break up in the end, is because of the two parties shouting early or the ability of one party to love is out of the skin.

It's just defeated by reality. Love, in itself, needs to face reality. Otherwise, it is immature and naïve. Don't be morally kidnapped.

Although it is true that the love and affection of each other are real, but in the face of various practical problems, such as parental disapproval, distance, or other reasons, may be forced to lead to the defeat of the ruler. Although I am reluctant, there is no way.

People who really love each other are together because of fate, and they are also fate, and if they are tired of this relationship, they will be separated for various reasons.

Because after falling in love, you still have to return to life, and every bit of life may become the fuse for the final separation.

When pouring water, the hot water overflows and flows to the hands, we can bear the pain and not lose the cup, Yuan Min let but the boiling water flows to the hands, and there are not a few people who can bear not to lose the cup, because the ten fingers are connected to the heart orange bureau, the pain is heart-wrenching, and the pain will let go, on the contrary, it will not let go because it is not painful enough.

Because some things are defeated by reality, and it's that one of the two of you is not mature and determined.

How to eliminate feelings, life can't escape soy sauce, rice, oil, salt and sedan knowledge, because life is very trivial, you don't have realistic material conditions, it is difficult to come together.

Love is not just about holding hands and hugging, but also about facing the trivial things of life.

In fact, in a relationship, it is not that love can last for a long time, and only love is not enough to eliminate those disappointments and dissatisfaction in the relationship. Life is a long road, this person may appear just to teach you to grow, or it may be fateful, it is easy to fall in love, but it is difficult to stay together.

In fact, it is one thing to be emotionally active and liking, but it is another thing to have the ability to do so. If two people who love each other lack the ability to communicate, it means that they are not able to resolve the conflict that arises in their relationship. In the face of many practical problems, all kinds of trivial things will wear out the friendship between the two parties after accumulating over time.

Sometimes even hard work can't achieve the desired result, no one can be more and more courageous for a long time, there will be many reasons for breaking up, and the practical reason is the most influential. If the contradictions in the relationship cannot be transferred, then the two people who love each other will also break up.

Human instinct is that it is easy to care about their own feelings, and they participate in every process in the relationship, but they still find that they are in this relationship, and it is difficult to feel the efforts of the other party, that is, when one party unilaterally pays, they will magnify their efforts even more, or that the giving and getting are not proportional. Good feelings often go both ways, if only one party blindly gives, and the other party does not let the other party feel the so-called love, you will feel that you only get the result in the process. If there is less engagement in life, love will disappear and weaken.

Often unequal relationships are also easy to fail and hurt, and there is a difference between people's likes in relationships. After any couple who love each other separates, there must be one partner who likes more than the other, and the one who pays more will be more sad and hurt when they break up, because the cost is more. If the other party is always a passive recipient in this relationship, then the so-called giver will only make the passive person feel that it is a burden.

Emotional equality is very important in a relationshipWhen there is an imbalance between the likes of the two parties, it will only make yourself more and more unbalanced every time you give, in other words, in fact, the other party does not love you, but does not love you enough.

Love is not the whole of life, people who love each other will also break up, it is difficult for Cinderella to meet a prince, life is often full of regrets, separation means the end, love can only be hidden deep in the heart.

Only children ask why you ignore me, and adults are tacitly estranged from each other.

Many people will have a doubt, obviously two people still love each other, but in the end they have to break up, in fact, feelings are like this, not love each other has results.

So why is this happening?

Love is not deep

Many people love each other often just a simple interest or a simple love for looks, but in fact, this is more inclined to like, deeper than appreciation but it is difficult to say that they are very loved, and these things are often more superficial, once you find that there is deception in it, it is easy to deteriorate. But both parties in the relationship didn't realize it, so they broke up in a daze.

The reality factor

There was a couple in a love drama before that interpreted the answer to this question very well, both parties loved each other but eventually broke up, the girl tried to get the boy back, the boy obviously loved the girl but knew that he couldn't get back together and behaved very restrained, but deep love can't be hidden, he always secretly cares about the girl. In the eyes of outsiders, they love each other so much, why don't they get back together? But the boy understands that the boy wants to work hard to create better living conditions for the girl, but neglects to accompany the girl, and the two eventually break up after experiencing many small frictions in their lives.

The two who obviously love each other, but because they can't give each other what they want, they have no choice but to break up。The reality is really cruel, and many college couples have to come to an end because of long-distance or life and other reasons.

Lifestyle habits are different

After two people fall in love and live together, each other's living habits will more or less affect each other, if the living habits of two people are too different, resulting in one party can no longer accept the other, so it will become a contradiction. And when one person's behavior and habits cannot be accepted by another, and he is unwilling to correct them, it is conceivable that most of these two people will not go to the end together.

Two people who are in love are originally running in with each otherThe trivial things in life are often the most likely to affect loveA lot of love is consumed in such friction to the end.

Conclusion:

It is difficult to find someone to spend the rest of your life with, because even love may not be enough to withstand the wear and fall of reality. Therefore, for each of us, the most important thing is to cherish the feelings around us, and don't wait until we lose it and regret it.

<>——— I've heard this sentence, why do two people who love each other separate? Someone is: because one of them lied.

And the other is: because he already has someone he likes, there is the intervention of a third party.

Many people say that two people who really love each other can't do it, and suddenly say that they don't love each other,Some people say that the so-called accumulation is too much disappointment is also one of the excuses.,At the beginning, some people said that no matter how tired they were, they would love.,But he was the first to run away.,So,Is all the promise of love only counted when I love you?

For me, it is impossible for two people who have loved each other to be friends unless they have not loved each other. I can't just watch the people I love be happy with others, but I can only bless?

Maybe you can, some people will say that love is to let go and make him happy, but who is willing to let go of real love? Are you willing to give up your favorite person to someone else? That really just means that you don't love enough.

Everyone should cherish the present moment, and don't wait until they are lost to know how to cherish it. I can't let go of a person because in my memory he sparkled, but after separation, he suddenly seemed to be a different person, which I couldn't understand, many things may be kept in the dark, maybe this relationship is not only accumulated too much, it may also be a trade-off,Or maybe there's a better fit

I've heard the saying: Don't hurt someone who has all eyes on you, because you don't know when you'll regret it, but then you can't do it back.

Sometimes empathize, what will happen if your daughter and son will be treated like this by others in the future? How distressed you should be! A lot of things are not that it can't go back, and there is a passage I've heard:

The disgusting things he did after the breakup are not worth looking back, so why should there be a window period for the breakup, because you don't know when you will regret it, but when you really can't let go of someone, and you are not sorry for her, you come back to her, I believe you will still forgive him. But if you are presumptuous after breaking up and come back to her, and you say that is what you did after the breakup, I think, no matter how much you love, no matter how much you love, you will not choose you, right?

<> so everyone says that the gap period is very important, because you really don't know when you will regret it, so give yourself and each other more timeImpulse is the devil. However, if you encounter it, cherish the moment, if you really miss it, you can't be the same as the movie, someone will wait for three or five years, or someone will meet again. If any, it's a very few, right?

Everyone remembers a sentence, changing hearts is instinct, but loyalty is a choice, heartbeat is never the answer, heart determination is.