Am I really wrong about feelings?

I want to ask the landlord, are you not okay without this woman? Can't survive?

If you really can't live without her, don't ask, it's uncomfortable to go on

After reading your description, I can tell you very clearly that this woman does not love you.

You may say that I am an outsider, and I don't understand the relationship between the two of you, how can I say so sure?

I am 31 years old this year, and I tell you from the experience of a person who has come over, this woman does not say that it makes you uncomfortable now, even if you marry her and come together in the future, she is also the kind of person who "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes".

She is separated from you, if she loves you and needs your care, you call ** greetings, or go to visit her, and give money is called care? Is she someone you can trust?

A woman who only sees money in her eyes, today you have money to spend on her, she can follow you; When she meets a man who is more generous and richer than you, she won't see you in her eyes.

Many people say that "the love affair on campus is the simplest, most sincere, and least impurities." ”

Friend, you look at your own relationship, is your girlfriend asking you to love more? Or is there more money?

People who attach conditions to love are not qualified to love at all.

Sister will tell you so much, you weigh it yourself, what will a person who loves herself do, she will want to do something for you, and take the initiative and willingly do it for you when she doesn't need you to ask for it or ask you to bring it up. And your girlfriend only asks you to do it for her, is this called love?

I advise you to find another lover

I just want to tell you that when I was in college, if my boyfriend gave me money, I wouldn't ask for it, let alone take the initiative to ask my boyfriend for money, because at that time, everyone was not rich, and there was not much income, and there was no capital to talk too much about money, your girlfriend obviously only looked at money, such a woman, sooner or later will leave you, why should you continue to entangle, it is better to find a girl who really cares about you and is willing to fight with you, good luck.

I can only say that you are not suitable, and the reasons are not emotional, or he doesn't love you very much, so he is not willing to sacrifice and pay for you.

There must be no right or wrong in emotional matters, this is recognized, so there are only suitable and inappropriate, you say a lot of things, saying how bad your ex is, how betraying you is actually a manifestation of emotional discord, when the relationship is not suitable, there will be all kinds of symptoms, so that your emotional road becomes very painful, becomes very hard, that's it, you are not the first person to be frustrated on the emotional road, and it will not be the last, but in my opinion, On the road of feelings, in fact, you think it is suitable or not, you already have feelings, but you don't want to admit it, for example, when we were in high school, there was a pair of men and women in our class, and the men and women were actually in love with each other from the first year of high school, and they were divided and combined four or five times in the middle, until they graduated from the third year of high school, they were still in a state of half-point handling, so this problem actually came, which means that they didn't feel that they were really suitable. But there is no right or wrong on the emotional path, and they have also been in love with each other, so I think the last word, then their recent words, are like this.

On the road of life, then basically that's it, in fact, there is no right or wrong on the road of feelings, which is even more like this, where there is no right and wrong, where there are so many rights and wrongs, that is, the feelings are suitable or inappropriate, you really think it is suitable to marry him a long time ago, you think she is not suitable, then you look at him 100 unpleasant, this is the way, the road of feelings is like this, the road of feelings, in fact, it is more difficult than we imagined, Because this is easy to have a large fluctuation in our emotions, when the relationship is smooth, you don't feel that the relationship is bad, you will feel that you are in a trough is not wrong, and the relationship does give people a lot of harm.

The lyrics say "There is no right or wrong in love", and most people think so.

People believe that in the world of feelings, right and wrong are not on both sides, and each other thinks that they are not wrong, and it is the other party who is at fault.

If you look at the problem from a different angle, you will find that in fact, there is a right and wrong in love, and the wrong party is yourself. When two people quarrel with each other, the most common sentence they say is "why don't you think from my point of view", "why don't you think about it for me" and the like, to be honest, when you calm down, do you stand in the other person's perspective and look at the whole thing.

We often quarrel and automatically ignore each other's feelings, and release the unhappiness accumulated in the day while the quarrel is released, in fact, many things can be avoided.

Why do we quarrel? The main reason is the lack of communication, whether it is a man or a woman, after a busy day, after a hard day's work, when you come home and just want to eat a meal, then watch TV or sleep, at this time, people are tired, and the mood is also the lowest time. Just because the other party's shoes are not put away, or the dishes and chopsticks that are eaten are not put in the right place, a casual sentence will cause conflicts, and the quarrel will become more and more intense.

Why is it noisy? It's just because we really did something wrong, why the other party saw it and pointed it out, and we got angry, because we thought it wasn't a big deal, and thought that the other party was making trouble.

Why do you think the other party is making trouble? It's because the brain is sending a message, "ta" is around me. In fact, loving someone is a kind of mistake, but it is a beautiful mistake.

There are hundreds of millions of people in this world, and it is really not easy to meet people who come together in the vast sea of people. Some people say that this is fate, some people say that it is fate, and some people say that maybe, we have encountered it in our previous lives.

In fact, no matter what it is, in this life, we have met, since we have met, we must cherish the time with each other, even if it is poor, as long as you are there, it is enough. In fact, we really don't care about who is right and who is wrong, since falling in love with someone is a kind of mistake, what is the wrong and more wrong than this one?

Some people can use years or even more than ten years to turn this kind of mistake into a beautiful and moving story, while some people can't. Because they have never seen the beauty in each other, they will only magnify such mistakes, magnify them to the point that each other feels very tired. Therefore, even in the world of feelings, both parties are at fault, I hope that please stand calmly in the other party's perspective and feel all the efforts made by the other party for this, maybe the other party will change everything because of your words.

I don't know what she thinks of you, but she betrayed you, and it's normal that you don't agree to be together.

It is human nature to have affection for someone, no matter whether the other person likes you or not, as long as you don't do anything illegal, there is nothing wrong with it.

Because emotionally they are both willing to do so. No one forces anyone, so there is no right or wrong emotionally.

That's because the decisions we make are what we think in our hearts, and they are from our point of view, so there is no right or wrong emotionally.

Because feelings are usually the one who loves more loses, because the one who loves will be a little better to the person he loves, but this cannot be judged by saying who is right and who is wrong.

Yes, in fact, emotionally speaking, there is only love and no love, there is no right or wrong, in the case of love, what the other party does is right, and in the case of no love, it is wrong to drink saliva.

There is no right or wrong in feelings, but two people have different needs, different positions, and different ideas from each other's positions.

There is no right or wrong in feelings, I think this sentence is very reasonable, on the road of feelings, both people are responsible, so there is no right and who is wrong.

Because two people's feelings have their own ways and reasons for making any choices, they will feel that what they are doing is the most right.

Because of emotional matters, it is impossible to measure right and wrong. And it's unfair in itself. And what is right or wrong?

There is no right or wrong in emotional matters, only suitable and inappropriate, in fact, quarreling is a very normal thing, if the two of you can really have fate, then you will not break up because of quarrels, this seems to me to be such a thing, if the two of you have no fate, then break up because of quarrels, then it is such a thing. In fact, I think this emotional thing itself is like this, the better the relationship of Qi Xiaoli, the less likely it will be to die because of quarrels, and most of the feelings can go to a good place. For example, when we used to go to high school, at that time, there were classmates in our class, and that classmate, then they started talking about it since the first year of high school, and they also split and merged in the middle, and they often quarreled several times, but I think there is no problem in the end, the two of them came together, and now they have children, I think it is very good, over the years, they have accumulated feelings far more than others.

I think life is a journey, when you can adapt to a journey, you will meet the person you like, when you can adapt to the journey, you will meet the person you love, in fact, that's the case. Sometimes it's really hard to say who is right and who is wrong, and sometimes, if it's a thing like feelings, then you need to spend more time and energy on it, in fact, sometimes emotional things will be like this. If it's emotional, if it's possible, you have to spend a lot of time and energy in it to be successful, and sometimes you may end up in it.

Well, there is no right or wrong in the words of feelings, only suitable and inappropriate, I can repeat this sentence again. Whether it is suitable or not, in fact, only the two of you know.

Besides, the relationship itself is to spend a lot of time and scheming in this, if you haven't quarreled, I don't think this relationship is a very good relationship, I saw a big brother before, the big brother once told me, if you Qiaohan has not quarreled, it means that your relationship is not stable, and the one who has really quarreled and has not broken up is the most stable, anyway, I think what he said is particularly reasonable, although I understood it very well at the time. But I still think what he said is very good, and to this day, I think that if the relationship between the noisy Gao Soujia can really persist, it will be very good.

No, Tuye tells love to be equal, innocent, and love and being loved should be right,...

For love, there is a saying: "Love drinking water is full", drinking water can indeed be full, but it didn't take long to be hungry again, compared to love, toast bread makes people yearn. In the relationship, most of the contradictions are because of no money, money is not omnipotent, but no money is absolutely impossible, money can deal with many unnecessary contradictions.

When love comes, it patronizes the sweetness of the moment, but it does not think about the defects of economic development, and it will disassemble a pair of small couples. Sanmao said: "Love, if it is not implemented into the real life of dressing, eating, counting money, and resting, it is very easy to last for a long time."

Everyone is ignorant about love, and always feels that if you love someone, you should give everything you have, and sincerely pay for others. But I don't know that loving someone too hard can have the opposite effect, just like Lin Huiyin once said: "Love is like a gravel in your hand, clenched tightly, the faster it flows out".

If you want to love someone for a long time, you can't try too hard, but you should be measured and let yourself be cached within a moderate range. In the world of feelings, a truly comfortable relationship is not inseparable, but should be intimate. Love someone, don't push too hard, love is like a kite, in the middle of a tight and loose, the paper kite can fly higher.

In the relationship, no one likes to be angry, wronged, and no one likes to see others sad, if you lose your temper with the other half, the other party can not be angry, and even come to coax people, just because of love, so endure everywhere. But forbearance of this management authority is not always there, nor does he have masochistic tendencies, just because he loves you too much, so he doesn't care about you, just like that sentence: "When I love you, I can do it to my bones, and when I don't love you, I can be indifferent and ruthless" When he doesn't love you, you don't have management authority, it's important to stabilize your emotions, and the main thing for two people to be together is to be happy, not to seem that you put your face every day.

Demand each other with the requirements of yourself; Loving each other in a self-righteous way is nothing more than touching oneself in the end; Put too much pressure on the other person and make the other person breathless.